Why are women now afraid of marriage and unwilling to get married? Part of the reason comes from the family, and part of the reason comes from society.
Women have seen too many examples of unhappiness and too many unhappy marriages, so they don't believe in true love or that they will meet the right person.
Therefore, for several consecutive years, the marriage rate is generally declining, but the probability of divorce is increasing.
Since 2011, the marriage rate has been declining, and there are many reasons for the decline, such as the imbalance between men and women, as well as family reasons.
Therefore, women now do not want to get married, and feel that they can live happily alone. After all, women are very independent now, they can also live a happy life, they can also buy a car and a house, and they don't need to rely on men at all.
Women become stronger, and naturally they don't need men. Therefore, women's willingness to marry is lower than that of men, and they do not want to be married, to be a housewife, nor do they want to revolve around the children every day.
It is not that marriage is not happy, but various reasons after marriage that make women bear too much pressure. Get married, say you don't go out to work, work says you, don't take children.
Therefore, women are embarrassed left and right, so they simply do not get married, so there is a lot less trouble.
One: Marriage is not equal
Marriage is two people living together, and in terms of housework, educating children, men push the responsibility on women, and naturally women feel that it is unfair.
And women in marriage, most of them are victims, and everything is borne by women. Whether it is at home, or in the education of children, or at work, women can be said to be omnipotent.
In fact, women do not want to become such a "strong woman", she also hopes to get the care and love of men, and also wants to be a little woman who is loved.
But real life, but let a woman have to be strong, independent, after all, her husband, let herself see all this.
For marriage, the most profitable person should be a man, not a woman, they don't have to take on so many responsibilities and don't have to care so much.
When women are pregnant, they still have to take care of the elderly and do housework, while men never take on the responsibility of housework and leave everything to women.
Of course, there are also reasons for such disagreements between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, who believe that their sons should not do housework, after all, his hands are used to earn money.
And women do housework, it is their duty, it is because of these contradictions, it leads to the feelings between husband and wife.
So, why women today are reluctant to get married, it is also because of these reasons that women see the reality clearly, and therefore, they prefer a life of one person.
Two: Women are demanding
In the face of feelings, men may not have so many requirements, as long as they are people who can reproduce for themselves. Women are different, more critical of men, and they want to marry and have children with the people they like.
After men can't find the object of their choice, they will also respect the opinions of their parents, choose a suitable person to marry, and don't care if they like it or not.
But for women is not the same, they are more demanding, can not meet the person she likes, she will choose to be single for a lifetime, will never be.
There are many things that women consider, not simply getting married, but also thinking about life after marriage, thinking about the future of their children, and so on.
Of course, there are also some women who require men to have a car and a house, and they must also be handsome, but these reasons are complained about by men as gold worshippers, vanity and strangeness.
Three: Inequality in work
The harder men work, the more appreciative the boss is, and for women, especially women who are married and have children.
When you come out to work, you will suffer from white eyes, and others will say that you are enough to take care of your family and children, where there is still time to work.
In fact, the implication of the other party is that you are not suitable for this job and leave early.
For women who are married, choose to go out to work, men will say that women are not responsible, it is better to take good care of children at home, and you can not earn a few dollars, it will only add trouble to yourself.
For these reasons, it can also lead to women's reluctance to get married, nor to become victims of marriage, taking care of the elderly and children like a yellow-faced woman every day.
Most of the reasons why women have such thoughts are real-life cases, so that they have to admit that this is the truth.
Even if they are in love, they may choose not to get married.