Marriage, the old saying pays attention to the door to the door, because only on the basis of equality, marriage can be long-lasting, once either party wants to be above the other, or the families of both parties intervene, unequal marriages will often fail. Li Ting was like this, originally at the wedding toast, the mother-in-law suddenly said a proposal, she directly repented on the spot, because she also knew that the mother-in-law agreed to this marriage is reluctant, and now, the purpose is exposed, she can not accept. Let's take a look at this story today.
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Li Ting's family conditions are good, her parents have provided her with a good educational environment, it is reasonable to say that Li Ting should have a sense of superiority over her peers, but she is very inferior, the reason is that she is barely 1 meter 5 tall, and she looks average. Therefore, no matter how Li Tingcai learns, others can notice the inferiority that emanates from her bones as soon as they see her, and because of this, they always can't find a suitable object, and they have been dragging it out until they are almost 30 years old. When she met Chen Jingfeng, Li Ting was satisfied, whether it was height or education, she was satisfied, as for Chen Jingfeng's family conditions were not good, Li Ting felt that if she chose him, her parents would prepare a rich dowry, and the lives of the two people would not be a problem at all. In fact, at this age, Li Ting's idea is very realistic, no longer ashamed of herself in the comparison, but more as a kind of cooperation, and then take what you need. Li Ting saw very clearly that she wanted a man who could be worthy of herself, and the economy would be evaluated from other aspects, and Chen Jingfeng needed a platform for development, which was a perfect match. As for Chen Jingfeng, he could crawl out from the bottom, and his heart was like a mirror, he knew that if he had Li Ting, he was afraid that he would take a lot of detours, so the two of them came together.
Slowly, Li Ting also knew that the mother-in-law was dissatisfied with herself, mainly because of her height, and she heard the mother-in-law secretly say to Chen Jingfeng more than once: "This girl you are looking for, I am afraid that it will affect the height of the child." At first, the mother-in-law was very reluctant to this marriage, but did not say it directly, but only insinuated that her family was tall, and her future grandchildren must also be tall. In fact, Li Ting had thought about giving up, although she had a good feeling for Chen Jingfeng, but there was such a mother-in-law, she was not indispensable to Chen Jingfeng, but before she could think, the mother-in-law suddenly became enthusiastic. In short, the words turned again and again, and the mother-in-law later said: "Of course, this wife and wife, looks and height are secondary, so for a while, I also saw Xiaoting's personality, and I really recognized you." In short, the mother-in-law agreed to this marriage, and she was also extremely enthusiastic about Li Ting, so the wedding was quickly prepared, but Li Ting vaguely felt that she and Chen Jingfeng had a strange atmosphere at home, but she had not figured out whether she was suspicious.
Just one day before the wedding, Li Ting suddenly remembered that her mother-in-law had asked herself a sentence: "Xiaoting, my mother asked you a word of heart socket, can you treat us as a family and Xiaojing's younger siblings as your own?" At that time, Li Ting made a promise, saying that getting married is a family, thinking that this is also a common sentiment of people, but the more she gets married, the more she feels that it is not right, how can the mother-in-law have to emphasize it? An uncomfortable feeling lingered around Li Ting, and although Li Ting had not experienced the real mother-in-law contradiction, she had heard about it, and her friends who had married early around her had also complained to her. Unable to sleep that night, Li Ting thought back over and over again about the contradictions she knew about her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and told herself over and over again that to be a woman with a general understanding, to learn patience and pay, there must be no contradictions in this world that cannot be solved. Therefore, although Li Ting did not understand the intentions of the mother-in-law, she left behind the "ten pairs of mother-in-law and nine discords" said by her friend, and felt that she would definitely be able to use wisdom to solve these troubles. Li Ting gradually slept in the self-consolation of "mothers are for the good of their children", and the next morning was the wedding, a joyous, and the mother-in-law was also happy to smile: "I have never been so happy in my life, such a good daughter-in-law is also the blessing of my son, and I don't have to worry about his younger brothers and sisters anymore." The guests raised a glass of congratulations, and as a result, Li Ting saw the mother-in-law raise a goblet and said her thoughts: "Yes, yes, my daughter-in-law's family is doing real estate, this time the marriage room is prepared by their family, I see that their family is very relaxed to take the house, if it is for Xiao Jing to prepare a set for his younger brothers and sisters, this is a great thing." Saying, the mother-in-law's face smiled into a flower, Li Ting was naturally unhappy in her ears, which was completely without her consent, she let herself draw two houses out, where is such a good thing?
Li Ting called the mother-in-law to a corner and asked her what was going on in the house, and the mother-in-law seriously repeated her request, and said: "I have already asked my son, saying that your family will take care of all the affairs of his younger brothers and sisters, he said yes, otherwise how could I agree to this marriage?" For such an unreasonable request, Li Ting was very annoyed and felt ridiculous, it turned out that her premonition was not wrong at all, but this kind of marriage that manages a large family is not equal at all, so it is better not to get married. Li Ting didn't say anything more, just silently went to the lounge to change out of her wedding dress, removed her makeup, and finally appeared at the wedding scene in civilian clothes, saying in the ear of her mother-in-law," "This condition is too outrageous, marriage is not married", and then she went away.