As long as the elderly are alive, they need to be reserved, even if their children urge them to do so, and have their own bottom line.
First of all, the old man gives himself pension money, since the child is born with the blessing of the child, it is necessary to let the child fight for a better future, so that the money earned by the child himself is more meaningful and more valuable.
Although there are many parents who love their children, but the children's parental love is really not much, he has a deposit in his hands, or he can get a good pension a month, for the child and use value, the child can not even be truly filial piety, but also in a funny way, filial piety, disguise can not only be themselves, but also real. If the child is not filial piety, the happiness of the old age can be guaranteed. 44 The money in their hands is not so much their own future as their own future.
Second, the house is best not to let go in the lifetime, many elderly people have a lucky psychology, dispose of the only house for their children, and finally live unhappily, and the life index drops greatly. They had to live under the roof of the children. If they are not used to living, they can only go out to rent a house or live in a nursing home.
Losing a house is like losing a home. Aside from the house you've lived in for decades, you won't find the unique feeling of home anywhere else. Moreover, there are no houses, whether living in a children's home or a nursing home, there is no base in the rear. If you don't spend time with your children, don't pay for nursing homes with your children, and you don't have enough money to pay for nursing homes, you can't rent a house, lose everything for your children, end up displacement and homelessness.
Third, their own good body can not give the child, a good body to the child is more far-fetched, in fact, can give the child a good body within a certain range. When you are old, you still have to live for yourself, for young people life is short, for old people it is short for the rest of their lives.
If you are still overloaded with your child, physical fatigue may occur at worst and situations may occur at worst. Although you are paying for the physical harm caused to your children, this is precisely the time to test the humanity of your own children, and the more some children need to wait for their parents, the more they will drop the chain. Their good bodies give the child very little food, but lying in bed for a long time is likely to lose the result of filial piety to the son's speechlessness.