This life is a long journey.
In the days when we reach the end, we will meet countless people.
A person has no chance with you, even if they meet, it will only be a passing ending.
Some people meet each other, but they can see each other very happily, and in the time they spend together, the two sides have tenderly softened each other's years. Such a time, such a person, will inevitably make people linger, reluctant to put down.
But the deep and shallow love is a normal state in life.
It's not that you try to grasp it, and the other person will stay for you. It is not that you cherish it with your heart, and that person will accompany you until old age. In this world, there are thousands of reasons for separation, so that people can only choose to forget a person in helplessness.
01
Love is mutual attraction.
Is there anyone who has touched your heart?
Because of a chance to meet, or have been together for a long time, the feelings gradually grow.
When each other is sure of their inner love, the two people will move closer together. Driven by the subconscious, both sides will also strive to do things that fulfill their fate.
Even if two people are far apart, even if there is obstruction from relatives and friends.
After falling in love, both parties can run away desperately. I only hope that in the passage of time, each other can protect their fate, and no matter how many challenges and tests, they cannot make the two people have a moment of separation.
In the stage of hot love, many couples always think that if they are true love, they are bound to be able to go hand in hand.
With a happy vision, in a romantic fate, the two people have good expectations, together to manage the romance in front of them, hoping to write a good story about each other's love under the witness of time.
02
Time is silent, but it can witness everything.
No matter how romantic love is, it is inevitable that it will enter a period of blandness.
No matter how many sweet words the two people say, as well as the words of the mountain and the sea, it is also possible that in a certain turn, the two sides will usher in a day when the fate is scattered.
After all, love is full of unknown challenges, and many people are fickle.
Where fate begins, two people have romantic hopes and are prone to amplify their sense of happiness. With the deepening of each other's relationship, their shortcomings will be exposed, and they will be easily magnified day by day.
When the relationship enters this step, the couple who used to be in love will re-examine each other's fate.
Some people will even come to the conclusion of not loving at this stage.
They think that two people are really inappropriate. Once such a psychology is generated, the next will ignore the other party's feelings, try to make an escape move, and constantly consume the patience and determination of the other party.
03
Love can not be, how should we deal with it?
Friends should know that feelings are never controlled by one person.
Only when both parties treat each other sincerely and cherish each other in the time they spend together can they form a sense of management. Even if they encounter a challenge, the two people can treat it calmly and come up with a solution together.
If one person is perfecting and another is fleeing.
Then this kind of love is really unbalanced and cannot be long-lasting.
If someone loves you deeply, they will only love you consistently over the passage of time. If the other party does not love enough, it will only gradually reveal its true face in the passage of time.
If you have loved each other, but you can't get married after all, please let it go in time.
Because fate can not be forced, and entangled with a person who does not love, often drift away from happiness, only choose to let go, is the respect for love, but also respect for themselves.
04
What are lucky feelings?
Having loved each other and being able to fulfill each other, such a fate can pass the test of time.
If two people have been together, they have also had precious time.
But in the end, the two sides succumbed to reality and did not continue to fulfill the relationship. This situation can only explain a realistic problem, that is, the fate of two people is too shallow and really inappropriate.
There is an old saying that goes, "A twisted melon is not sweet." ”
In fact, why isn't love like this?
If the three views of each other are inconsistent, the words are not speculative when communicating, even if they choose to be together for love, they will not change anything for each other, after all, there is no happiness to speak of, and it will only make the feelings full of gunpowder.
Perhaps at the beginning, two people can still stand on the overall situation of love and endure each other.
But over time, many differences and contradictions will follow, and finally one day, it will exceed the limits of patience on both sides. Unwilling to change for each other, even if two people have loved, they cannot enter the marriage.
Even if you enter marriage, you will only face the situation of chicken flying dog jumping in the day and night.
05
If you have loved, how can you be willing to let go?
Many couples, holding hands, walk through the wonderful times.
I thought that the feelings of two people would only usher in more opportunities to heat up. For the rest of their lives, they will keep the original intention of love, manage the happiness that belongs to two people, and write each other's love story.
But in fact, many people walked hand in hand, but they dispersed.
True love requires tolerance and understanding, and it is inseparable from understanding and fulfillment.
If each other is unwilling to make concessions for love, it will only make the fate usher in a day of exhaustion. And such a fact can only illustrate a situation, each other is just a pair of inseparable.
Two people are really not suitable, and even if they continue to entangle, it is just a waste of each other's time.
If one day, each other has determined their hearts and is not willing to stalemate, or break off the connection. From then on, disconnect the contact and make a timely stop loss move, so as not to let the two people entangle too deeply, and finally turn against each other.
Having a chance to hold hands is only the first step in love.
After two people become lovers, they will face the dilemma of "easy to love and difficult to get along".
Next, how to get along with each other sometimes directly determines the direction of fate. If you have loved each other, but in the time you get along, you find that the two sides are really not suitable, or let it go.
Only by choosing to break off the connection can both sides rush to their own happiness.
Instead of dwelling on it and letting fate become a disaster, it is better to bless each other.
You know, everyone who appears in your journey is actually here to cross you, and we deserve to be grateful. If each other is destined to be too shallow, you may wish to thank each other for meeting each other, and also thank each other, so that you learn how to love.
In the next time, be free of yourself, regain your personal charm and confidence, and strive to be a better self. In this way, you will eventually meet a person who really matches you.
Author: Zhou Woodman, an emotional cultivator with an attitude. Write the warmth of the world, read the heart-warming story, and thank you for your company along the way. I only hope that the years are quiet, the clouds are light and the wind is light, and you and I can pour out our heartfelt feelings when we meet in a piece of text.