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In fact, in real life, when a male friend falls in love with a female friend and has true feelings for a female friend, he will also become the same as a female friend, and when facing love, when facing a beloved person, he will also become ill and uncertain, not only worried that the beloved woman will leave him, but also more afraid that female friends will abandon themselves and will not want themselves.
In the final analysis, all the manifestations are because male friends love female friends too deeply and care too much about female friends, so they always lack of security in their hearts, and this love does not give male friends a sense of peace of mind, just because men love women too much, they care too much about women, and they pay too much attention to women, so they always worry that they don't have enough love for women, and they worry that women will leave themselves.
Especially for a male friend who has deeply loved a female friend, and puts the woman in his heart, and even has been inseparable from the woman, men are willing to do their best to let women live the life they want, and will also let women harvest and want to be happy, and will try to make women love themselves like they love women.
Although in the world of emotions, no matter which person loves men and women, which person loves more, which person means losing, but even so, in real life, many people like a person, and when they fall in love, most of them are willing.
Especially when a man falls in love with a woman, has a woman in his heart, and is emotional about a woman, it is always easy to become angry and lose, and often worry about losing a woman, all of which stems from the fact that men love women deeply, but they will become insecure; and men will become very cautious about what they do since they fall in love with women, afraid that where they are not doing well enough, provoking women to get angry and lose their temper, they will also worry that women hate themselves, and they are afraid that women will leave themselves because of this;
In the end, men are always worried that they are not good enough for women, worried that their love for women is not enough, so they will work hard to be good to women, desperately try to get women's hearts, and even sometimes too much, women's hearts will feel as if they are imprisoned, to know that when a man is afraid of losing you, there will be these kinds of abnormal performances, wrong!
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When you ignore him, he will be very anxious in his heart;
When a man falls in love with a woman, then when a man is with a woman, he will be very concerned about women's feelings, so he will always be very careful in front of women, and men are afraid that they will provoke women, not only to make women unhappy, but also to provoke women to be angry with themselves.
Therefore, you female friends should know that when they are angry and angry, when they do not care about men, the man who really loves you will be very nervous about women, and will also take the initiative to ask women clearly, always around women, find ways to coax women to be happy, let women stop being angry and angry with themselves, because when women do not care about themselves, men's hearts will be very anxious and nervous, and they will also be afraid of women because of a little misunderstanding, do not want themselves, or a little contradiction, and leave themselves.
Everything is willing to rely on you;
In a relationship, when a male friend is deeply in love with a female friend, has each other in his heart, and can no longer be separated from him, there is a very direct and typical performance, that is, men are willing to rely on women for everything, and the tolerance for women is very large, and even men are willing to unconditionally accommodate women.
No matter what women want to do, what they want to do, men will be willing to accompany women to do, no matter what women want to eat, where they want to go, men will be willing to accompany women to go, accompany women to eat, in the end, it is not because men love women too much, care too much about women, so they hope to be able to use their tolerance for women, with their own accommodation to women, to exchange for women's happiness, to exchange for the love that men want.
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Your opinion is important to him
Because men love women deeply, also care about women, and pay more attention to women's views on themselves, women's opinions are very important for men; men are willing to listen to and accept women's opinions on themselves, and really put women in their hearts and occupy a very important position in their hearts.
It is not an exaggeration to say that women are the direction of men's lives, men put women into their own future, and even men regard women as very important, and all the plans for men for their future are built around women, so women's opinions are very important for men, no matter what men do, what decisions they make will first ask women, and will first seek women's opinions.
Sometimes, men will also be too much respect and trust in women, and even entrust their decision-making power in some things to the hands of women, no matter what women say, what kind of decisions, men will always unconditionally support women, and have always believed in women.
When he can't contact you, he will be very anxious;
We all know that loving someone is to want to see each other, is to want to stay with each other for twenty-four hours, if you can, men hope that they can be able to keep in touch with women twenty-four hours a day, and also hope that they can keep women on the phone or WeChat contact all day long.
Even if the two of you are separated, even if both of you have your own work to do and have your own things to deal with, for two people who love each other, you can open your mobile phone and listen to each other's breathing, and men will feel more willing.
But to be honest, such a vision in real life is basically impossible, because each of us in addition to feelings, there will be a lot of things to do, there will be their own work to complete, there will be their own life to live, but a man who really loves women, has a sincere heart for women, whenever he loses contact with women, or can't contact women, men will be very anxious and worried, worried about whether women will encounter anything, afraid that women will encounter any accidents.
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Easy to be jealous, very possessive of you;
In fact, the male friend is a very possessive creature, very easy to be jealous of his beloved woman, and there is no way to accept that his woman has too much contact with other people of the opposite sex and has too much contact.
Men who love women deeply do not want to see other friends of the opposite sex around their women, even if they are only women's old classmates, or women's colleagues, as long as they are a little closer to women, men will be crazy and jealous.
After all, for men who really love women deeply, men want to have and occupy all of women, not only women's time, but also women's hearts, hoping that women are full of eyes only themselves, and they hope that they are unique in the world for women, and they want their beloved women, not only can they see themselves in their eyes, they can only have themselves in their minds, and even in their hearts they can only have themselves.
Work hard to improve yourself and make yourself better;
I always feel that a good relationship should make people better and better, make people more and more positive, let the two people grow better together, so that all female friends should understand in their hearts that the love of the two of you will make a male friend willing to fight for you, so as to work hard and try to improve themselves, just to make themselves better and better, to become good enough, to become capable of bringing happiness to women, and to become able to stand with women and become a match.
Seriously, a man who loves women deeply, regards women as very important, and even has a man who wants to accompany women in this life, he will never let his beloved women suffer with him, so men are willing to become better for women, and after men are with women, they will also work very hard to fight for their careers, work very hard to make money and support their families, just to want to give women a happy and beautiful future, so that women can live the days they want.
And in order not to let women worry, men may never cry bitter, not tired, even if men occasionally feel very hard at work, when the body and mind feel tired, as long as they hug women to absorb their ability, as long as they rest on women's shoulders, anyway, men just see women, as long as women are still around themselves, men have the motivation to continue to struggle, to continue to work hard, to create a better future for the two of you.
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Zhang Ailing said a sentence that is worthy of our deep consideration: "People always feel happy when they are close to happiness, but they suffer from gains and losses when happiness is carried out." ”
Yes, it is true that in the process of interpersonal communication, once a person falls in love with another person, once he falls in love, the more he loves each other, the more he will be afraid of losing each other. No wonder it is said that love is both armor and weakness.
Just because of the deep love for each other, so let this love become their own weakness, once they lose each other, it will become painful; but men may not know it, but sometimes they do too much, thinking that all they do is because they love women, are for the good of women, but it is not clear that some practices have brought trouble and distress to women, over time, once women have enough, they will eventually leave men, so men must pay attention to it.
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