As the saying goes: the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a mess, the cut is continuous, and the rationalization is still chaotic.
Xiaoying and her mother-in-law have such a relationship.
Xiaoying has been married to this family for seven years, and in these seven years, only the first half of the relationship with her mother-in-law is better, and since then, her relationship with her mother-in-law has been terrible.
It is because of this process that something happened that made Xiaoying particularly disgusted with her mother-in-law, and although it has been several years since it has passed, Xiaoying still remembers it vividly.
This incident occurred during the confinement period after Xiaoying gave birth to her first child.
Due to the child's large weight, Xiaoying was bleeding heavily during childbirth.
Giving birth to a child itself is a very draining thing, coupled with the fact that she has experienced heavy bleeding in the process of giving birth to a child, so Xiaoying's body is very weak during confinement.
The husband works in other places, earning milk powder money for the children and the family's expenses, and the only person who can take care of Xiaoying is her mother-in-law.
So Xiaoying proposed to her mother-in-law that she wanted to eat some meat to supplement her body, but she was rejected by her mother-in-law.
The mother-in-law said: "You must not eat meat during lactation, otherwise it will have a great impact on the quality of breast milk." ”
Xiao Ying didn't say anything after listening to it, because she knew very well that what her mother-in-law said was actually made up by herself, in fact, she was afraid of spending money.
Then, Xiaoying's life this month can be imagined, every day is steamed buns, pickles and stick noodle porridge, according to Xiaoying, she went to her mother's house after sitting in confinement to go to relatives to eat meat, she cried as she ate.
Later, the mother-in-law knew that Xiaoying was very concerned about this matter, so she explained: "This is not what I made up, the older generation has said so, it is not good to eat meat during breastfeeding." ”
However, Xiaoying scoffed at her mother-in-law's defense, because when her sister-in-law was confinement, her mother-in-law often ran to her house, sending a chicken for three days and a fish for two days.
There is another thing that makes Xiaoying also very angry.
At that time, after returning from her mother's house, the in-laws began to water the land, but Xiaoying's husband was working outside, and there were not enough manpower, so the mother-in-law let Xiaoying go to the watering, and although Xiaoying was very reluctant, she still went.
At that time, it was still March in the countryside, the temperature was only about 10 degrees, and after the watering water was pumped out of the river, it was particularly cool.
Xiaoying stood in the water wearing rubber shoes, and later because the children were always crying, Xiaoying rested at home. But he was sick with this cold water, and he rolled in pain in bed on those few days of every month.
After many netizens learned about Xiaoying's experience, they expressed their views.
Some netizens said: When I was eight months pregnant, my mother-in-law also let me paint the walls. Not only did you have to carry several pounds of paint buckets, but you also had to climb high. The most excessive thing is that my mother-in-law also asked me to wipe the paint spots dripping on the ground. After giving birth, I took the child back to my mother's house and never came back.
Another netizen said: Every family has a difficult scripture, and it is really not easy to have a good mother-in-law in this year.
In fact, I think that the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are a family, and they should get along harmoniously.
As the saying goes: home and everything.
This sentence left by the old ancestor is really very reasonable.
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