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The 35-year-old husband resigned to start a business and asked his newlywed wife to mortgage her old house to borrow 500,000 yuan. The father-in-law would rather sever the father-daughter relationship than the father-daughter relationship. The young couple has been married for 1 year, the daughter has just been born, and the mother-in-law will take the 160 square meters of new house to rent. The wife and daughter will be at home, the husband will not take her back for 1 year, and it is too free to play mahjong with card friends at home, and she wants to restore her status as a bachelor.
As soon as the child is born, the newlyweds are separated. Ms. Ding, 34, has been returning to her mother's house with her daughter for a year. Husband Mr. Liu not only did not take her home, but even ignored his daughter.
Husband Mr. Liu has a well-to-do family and runs a supermarket with a lot of income, but he is reluctant to pay his daughter's child support.
The son-in-law of the Ding family's father suddenly changed his face after his daughter gave birth. At first, he thought that his son-in-law, Mr. Liu, looked safe, but now he was not at all at ease.
In the heart of the Ding family's father, Mr. Liu is a wild lily. When Ms. Ding married him, it was the wild lily that found spring. Before long, things took a big turn.
The father of the Ding family found a good son-in-law for his daughter, and now the original form is exposed, and he is completely irresponsible for his daughter.
Mr. Liu, who has a well-to-do family, has just retired from his unit and has opened a supermarket in the city center. But in the two years after the birth of the child, he did not give Ms. Ding a penny of living expenses and paid little attention to the child.
The Father of the Ding family recalled that the turning point of the matter was the day the child was born.
On the day the child was born, Mr. Liu said bluntly that he asked his father-in-law to bring the child back to the Ding family.
Ms. Ding was pregnant in October, experienced life and death difficulties, and gave birth to a daughter. Mr. Liu not only did not understand her difficulties, but he was very dismissive of his wife and daughter.
Mr. Liu is 35 years old, it is difficult to get the wild lily of spring, but after getting married and having children, he took the initiative to ask for the restoration of bachelors again.
After giving birth to a child, this large house of 160 square meters is the marriage room of the two.
At this time, there is no more new marriage celebration, and Mr. Liu lives alone at home. On the couch, on the bed, there were clothes everywhere, and it looked very dirty.
Ms. Ding was very angry, and her husband, who seemed to enjoy such a free and lazy single life, was indifferent to her leaving home for a year.
The husband, who was originally in love, changed his temperament greatly after the birth of the child.
Both parents are retired civil servants who can help take care of the children without any stress.
However, when Mr. Liu first became a father, he gave up the marriage with practical actions.
At the beginning, when the Liu family held a wedding for the only son in the family, Mr. Liu, they spent all their savings, but now the daughter-in-law has lived back in her mother's house, and the mother-in-law does not understand that this little couple has to go to such a strange point.
Ms. Ding felt that it was her mother-in-law who wanted to rent out the marriage room of the two without authorization, and she moved back to her mother's house in a huff.
Now the marriage room is not rented, and the key is also in the hands of Ms. Ding, which is a small misunderstanding.
A year after the couple got married, they became strangers. The mother-in-law hurriedly explained that it was because the daughter-in-law was willful and the son was stubborn, so he stubbornly froze.
Ms. Dante pointed out that the truth of the matter is not so, it is simply that Mr. Liu does not want to go home.
The Ding family's father threw out several documents recording some of Mr. Liu's actions, which was enough to prove that he did not cherish the marriage.
Before the 35-year-old Mr. Liu, he had been doing procurement in a large foreign trade supermarket, but before the birth of his child, he chose to resign and start a business. A start-up capital of 500,000 yuan, the loan in the name of the husband and wife, the interest will be very low, but at the same time let Ms. Ding bear joint and several liability.
This loan has become a touchstone for the husband and wife to share their suffering.
In the end, his wife's approach made him very chilled. Unexpectedly, everything his father-in-law did after that made him completely lose trust in the Ding family.
In order to give his children a better life, Mr. Liu chose to start a business, and such a signature, Mr. Liu believes, will not bring any risk to Ms. Ding, but his wife just does not support him.
At that time, the Liu family unanimously agreed to use the Ding family's old house as collateral to borrow 500,000 yuan as the starting capital, which would not be a risk to Ms. Ding, but the Ding family's father stopped it by severing the father-daughter relationship.
Without his wife's consent, Mr. Liu had to choose other ways to raise funds.
At present, the loan matter has been resolved, the wife only wants her husband to pick her up and take her home, but Mr. Liu suddenly filed for divorce.
Mr. Liu usually loves fitness, often attends friends' gatherings, does not look forward to marriage, and has not met a suitable partner.
At the urging of his parents, he happened to meet Ms. Ding, who was also older and unmarried, and decided to get married soon after getting along. Two people who felt suitable at the time, their lives after marriage have completely changed.
Mr. Liu felt that it was his father-in-law who spoiled Ms. Ding. Because she is the only daughter in the family, she is very strong in handling things. I thought it was to support each other, but my wife's sense of self-protection was too strong, making Mr. Liu too tired.
The child is already two years old, Mr. Liu has not given a penny of living expenses, and Ms. Ding's request is reasonable. But Mr. Liu said the child could be sent back to Liu Jiang.
Both were born into a family of public officials, graduated from university, and were only children, matching financially. Ms. Ding, who was married to Mr. Liu, became a princess in the eyes of the other party.
Mr. Liu is clear about every bit of life after marriage, and remembers that his wife only orders one takeaway and does not care about the husband around her.
The wife's behavior, in Mr. Liu's impression, is selfish, and she cannot see any contribution to the family.
Mr. Liu regretted his original choice and felt that he had chosen the wrong wife.
At the beginning, he needed a loan of 500,000 yuan to start a business, but Ms. Ding did not agree to sign, and the car bought with the dowry money after marriage was never taken out to deliver to him. Although the two were already married and had children at that time, neither of them felt the slightest support from the other half.
Both of them are accustomed to living a single life coupled with the exclusive favor of their parents, and they never discuss solving things when they encounter things, but ask their parents for help. Although they have their own small home, they are completely attached to their parents.
The mediator hopes that the couple will let go of their preconceptions and try to run their own small home instead of relying on their parents.
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