What does it take to get pregnant?
What you see online, a lot is just the tip of the iceberg!
Why are mother-in-laws, and many people around you, reluctant to tell you some experiences and skills in pregnancy and childbirth? First, I am afraid that you are not willing to give birth, and second, I am afraid that you are stressed!
For example, Guo Ma's cousin asked me, "Does it hurt to have a caesarean section?" "My mother won't let me go into too much detail, just talk about it." Why? I'm afraid my cousin will be Dink when the time comes, and then her parents will have to blame me.
It's just that Guo Mom still feels that pregnant mothers still need to know what they will experience before they get pregnant. Although it is difficult to accept when listening, production and postpartum can be adapted more quickly, more accurate preparation, and fearless!
It is better to understand in advance than to suddenly experience a series of bad things, which makes it easier to accept.
The most worthwhile experience and skills in pregnancy and childbirth are to give pregnant mothers a pickpocket
Combined with all kinds of pregnant mothers who have had a normal birth and a caesarean section around them, Guo Mom shares several practical experiences and techniques that many pregnant mothers do not know.
1. Seeing red in the third trimester of pregnancy is not necessarily to be born, but the broken amniotic fluid must go to the hospital
Guo Mama, a friend, saw the red 3 times, ran the hospital 3 times, and the husband rushed back from the city company 3 times, all of which became a "white run". The doctor smiled and said, "This little guy, it seems that he tried several times, but he couldn't come out!" ”
The first time I saw red was at 38 weeks, and then at 41 weeks, the water broke and my friend went directly to the hospital to give birth.
Seeing red is just a sign that there may be a pot, and if there are no other symptoms, you can not be so anxious. However, if it is broken water and redness accompanied by regular contractions, then you must rush to the hospital in time!
2, whether to eat before childbirth, depending on the way of delivery
It is said that only when they are full can they have the strength to give birth, but only women who have a normal birth need to eat more before giving birth to maintain their physical strength. Because production will be an "uphill battle."
If there is no full food before the birth, then after giving birth, the mother is more tired.
Women who have a caesarean section usually cannot eat 6 hours before surgery, otherwise during the anesthesia process, they may produce symptoms of nausea, vomiting, and other risks.
Therefore, pregnant mothers with obvious caesarean section characteristics, such as incorrect fetal position and a large number of umbilical cords around the neck, should calculate the time before caesarean section.
3. Vaginal birth and caesarean section may have to be "prepared"
This, in fact, is really quite embarrassing, many pregnant mothers do not know before, until they are dragged to a small room by the doctor, directly by the "skin (shaving)", it is really too embarrassing!
The same feeling of embarrassment, or even without any dignity, is the "internal inspection". But there is no way, the doctor can only judge when to give birth through internal examination.
4, most of the normal birth, will be on the delivery table "toilet"
This is really the scene of the "social death".
If you have a child, why are you still incontinent? I have never felt so ashamed in my life.
But guo moms have to remind pregnant mothers that when they give birth, in fact, most of the women will "pull" on the delivery table, and the embarrassment is only the mother herself, because the doctors and nurses have long been strange!
So, pregnant mothers, when you are born, if you really feel like you are going to pull, then pull it! This just shows that the force is correct, and the fetus is about to be born!
5, side cut, not so terrible
Many people may not know what the side cutting is, in fact, it is in the place where the child is born, cut a knife.
Pregnant mothers do not have to feel anxious, first of all, in order to ensure that the fetus is delivered as soon as possible and as safe as possible, lateral incision has become a very common way. Be sure not to force the doctor to make a side cut, be careful of turning it into a tear, and believe in the doctor's experience.
Secondly, the later stage of lateral incision will slowly recover, and pregnant mothers do not need to worry about affecting the life between husband and wife.
6. The child's first bite is colostrum
In some places, there will be various customs and sayings, and what is good for newborns to eat in their first bite, such as radish water and so on. In fact, the child's first bite must be the mother's colostrum, and the colostrum is the first milk.
The nutrition and efficacy of colostrum can be described as the most powerful milk that children drink in this life!
7, after childbirth, the doctor will come to "press the stomach", very sour
There is a kind of pain called "pressing the stomach to remove lochia.".
In order to let the lochia in the mother's womb be discharged as soon as possible, the doctor will come to press the mother's stomach, which is really too sour. A friend of Guo Ma's mother said, "As soon as the doctor came in, I was afraid, because I was pressed on my stomach again!" ”
8, small babies are best to suck breast milk, do not worry about feeding milk powder
On the third day after giving birth, the mother became a "stone chest", and her arms could not be lifted, and then the nurse came to help get through the breasts. Seriously, I never cried when I gave birth to a child, and this milk directly brought me to tears.
The nurse told us that in the future, we should give the baby more suction, do not rush to feed milk powder, the nutrition of milk powder is ultimately inferior to breast milk. And at the beginning, don't worry about the baby's lack of food, first of all, the baby's stomach is actually still very small, secondly, the baby's stomach is getting bigger and bigger, the appetite is getting bigger and bigger, and at the same time, the breast milk will be more and more sucked.
So, really don't be in a hurry to feed the milk powder!
9. The first few days of poop of the newborn, the color is very dark
Do you think that the baby is very clean and even the poop is fragrant?
No!
A few days before the birth of a newborn, the poop pulled was really black and smelly! In fact, this is the poop accumulated during the fetal period, and then discharged after birth. Those that are excreted in the womb in advance, the risk factor is greatly increased!
10. Lochia may last for more than 1 month
Looking at a lot of maternal knowledge, it is said that the general maternal lochia is 2-4 weeks. Then, when the mother was more than 1 month old, she was very panicked: Am I not recovering well after giving birth? Is there something wrong with it?
Then in the same month of the pregnant mother circle asked, most of them are more than 1 month, lochia ended.
By the way, the baby's breast milk is conducive to the discharge of lochia!
11, no menstruation, does not mean no ovulation
There are several second-born mothers around the mother, who are pregnant when they do not menstruate after childbirth, and some even go to 4 or 5 months to have a pregnant belly to detect.
Although postpartum menstruation did not come in time, but when to ovulate, is really not known, so the safety measures must be in place! Pregnancy and delivery are too close, and for women, the damage is too great. Especially for the mother of the caesarean section, the risk factor is large!
12, the child is sick, uncomfortable, unlucky are the person with the baby
Guo Ma's college roommate became a full-time mother after giving birth. She thought that the whole family knew that she was sacrificing herself for the sake of her children and her family. Then, reality gave her a blow in the head.
The first time her daughter got sick was more than 8 months, 39 degrees. After the husband knew, the first sentence was: "You take a child, and there is nothing else to do, why can you still make the child sick?" ”
That heart, wow cool wow cool.
In the process of growing up, whether it is bumping or getting sick, the bunch of people will blame the person with the baby, and they have nothing to do with themselves.
Therefore, pregnant mothers either don't want to be the ones who have been carrying babies for a long time, or they should do a good job of ideological work for them in advance. This pot, we don't carry.
Pistachio Mom message
There are many, many, many experiences and skills that can be shared during pregnancy and childbirth... Because on this road, there are too many strange and detailed things that we are! Sometimes, a small and inconspicuous detail may pose a great threat to pregnant mothers and children.
Therefore, pregnant mothers really have to understand in advance and be prepared in order to be invincible!