Pregnant in October, once she gave birth to a child, and met the baby, she was happy to be a father, but for her mother, she had just accepted the baptism of physical pain, and she was about to usher in a longer period of spiritual torture and growth. Therefore, as the father of the baby, as the husband of the wife, we should be the first to invest in a responsible family responsibility.
For example, on the first night after the wife gives birth, accompany the wife to deal with some tricky things, after all, the wife at this time because she has just given birth to a child, a lot of things want to do but have more than enough and insufficient strength, but some busy if you let outsiders help, it is inevitable too embarrassing, and the father is not, your help will make the wife's mood get greatly relieved, after all, in the eyes of a woman, the husband is his most intimate. So what is it for a husband to do for his wife on the first night after giving birth?
1. Deal with lochia
Whether it is a vaginal birth or a caesarean section, every woman will face the problem of dealing with lochia in the uterus after childbirth, overflowing milk, they will be pressed stomach, pain is not desired, and those who experience it have experienced it. But after the pain, there is still a serious problem of lochia, which requires several separate treatments in the next few hours.
But after all, the parts of the lochia are very private, so. In addition to the father, anyone to operate, pregnant mothers will feel uncomfortable and embarrassed, therefore, it is still recommended that the fathers to deal with the mother will be more in line with human nature.
When dealing with it, the fathers must systematically learn the method of cleaning up lochia, fully understand the problems that need to be paid attention to in this process, and prevent secondary injuries to wounds and genitals.
Second, wipe the body
The sweat of the female baby must be indispensable, if the cleaning is not timely, not only the novice mother is uncomfortable, but also affects the baby's breastfeeding hygiene. And timely cleanup can not only promote the postpartum skin metabolism of Bao Mama, but also speed up the speed of recovery. It can also create a good "eating environment" for the baby.
Therefore, we who upgrade to become Bao Dad must give Bao Ma a serious cleaning of the body skin, and master the temperature and temperature difference of the cleaning environment to avoid the cold and wind of the mother.
Third, wash the changed clothes
Maternity underwear must be washed by hand, and must also be washed, but after all, it is close-fitting clothes, and they can't move their hands, but they are embarrassed to ask others to wash them. So, Bao Dad came in handy. Your careful care will definitely make Bao Ma move and promote the relationship between husband and wife!
In addition to the above situations need Bao Dad to help, usually, Bao Dad can also use his strength advantages to help Bao Mom turn over, help bao Mom turn over, help up to go to the toilet and other trivial things, if possible, you can also get up for Bao Mom to take care of the baby at night!
On the road to parenting, we are all novices, how to take better care of children, you can pay attention to me, and discuss with me those things on the road to parenting.