Scenery all the way
Text/Ran Lifen
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I believe that many people have heard the story of "choosing a mother", please believe that many things in this world are driven by fate, such as the formation of the family, the children given to you by God, the kind parents... If there is no special fate, you may be separated from each other, and there is no intersection in life, but it is precisely this wonderful fate that forms an invisible cohesion that makes us tightly intertwined in this life.
I have a pair of lovely sons and daughters, they are only less than two years old, and the personalities of the two children are very different - the son is calm, the daughter is lively. Sometimes I am particularly fortunate that children have their own friends, although they do not feel the unique sense of superiority of only children, but the mother has given them a lifetime of brotherhood and sisterhood, this kind of blood thicker than water affection, perhaps not so obvious when they are young, but as they grow older, they will feel more and more that their parents are not only a brother or a sister, it is the spiritual harbor that maintains children's lives. The brother is the listener of the sister's grievances, and the sister is the delicate person who generously points out flaws when the brother is careless, and I found this complementarity last year.
One day on the weekend, I took my children back to my hometown to visit my parents, and they sat in the back row and chatted about new things that my mother had never heard of, the recent popular slip of the tongue, which boy band advertising endorsement... In my opinion, this is a very magical thing, because they are not in a school at all, why can they even communicate with the popular slip of the tongue? Do they also have their own circles? And this circle is difficult for us adults to integrate? I think it should be like this, when I intentionally or unintentionally interject, they will say, "Mom, you don't understand"! Whenever this time comes, I don't feel the sadness of being rejected, but I feel that the feelings of the two of them make me very happy.
When they talked about the script of "Choosing a Mother", I listened attentively, I wanted to know what kind of context to continue this story from the child's point of view, and I asked the girl solemnly, "Why did you choose me to be a mother?" Without thinking, she said, "Because you are good to me, you are beautiful!" Admittedly, in every child's heart, the mother will always be Mambhisch, there is no doubt about it. But when I asked, "Where was my brother when you were choosing your mom?" After asking this question, I thought she would not be able to answer, and at the same time for herself to ask such a question without technical content and feel bored, sometimes I know that it is the child's childlike and irrational nonsense, but curiosity drives me to listen to her personalized answer, "At that time, my brother was ranked number four, I was ranked number ninety, there were many people in the middle, suddenly I was hungry and couldn't hold on, so my brother gave me half of his bread, and then I agreed with my brother, and we chose my mother together, in a dense crowd." We found you and Dad at first sight, and you guys are good people at first glance! We also said that we would let him come to our house early and I would come back to him next year! She said happily with a natural laugh.
I was surprised by her wild imagination, but did not refute or continue to ask, it turned out that subconsciously her brother and parents have existed outside of this world, this is not destined to be fate, or the unique magnetic field of each of us attracts us to come together as a family, although this is a perfect opportunity to guide practice with scientific theory, I can take this opportunity to tell them the origin of their lives, but I do not, this world is a little naïve and precious, When they grow up, they have a lot of time and opportunities to really feel and understand this complex society, which is much deeper than preaching. Suddenly I suddenly feel sad, I am afraid that they grow up, growing up means responsibility and Yiwu, at this moment I selfishly hope that my children will never be affected by the wind and dust, trivial matters, my pattern is small enough to even live healthily, but the children race against the clock to grow up is my helplessness, so, what kind of road to take in the future, what kind of life to live is no one can predict, so, often have no desire to see the magic of it...
This journey has been walked hundreds of times, but the wonderful feeling of this road is unprecedented, the scenery outside the window has changed, the only constant is the sense of belonging of the people in the car and the home, even if the wind and dust servants are as beautiful as bathing in the spring breeze, because of the direction of this home!
【Author's Profile】Ran Lifen, a small teacher. He is a good teacher and friend of students, likes to read chicken soup for the soul, likes to use truth, goodness and beauty to live things, and likes to express his mood with words! Strive to be a new era educator who will never lag behind.