Author: Pig Xiaoqian
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1
I have a very beautiful sister.
She was the child of my dad and ex-wife.
The first time I met her was in 1994, when I was 5 years old.
My family is in a county-level city in Guizhou, and my family has a large set of courtyards.
At that time, my grandmother was still alive and lived alone in the east wing.
My dad was working outside, and on June 1, my mom took me to the park to play.
When I returned in the afternoon, I found grandma quietly bringing good food to her house.
Curious, I slipped in and saw a girl sitting on the bed knitting a sweater.
She saw me and smiled and called me sister.
When Grandma saw me, she was shocked and told me, don't tell your mother, your sister will be gone in a moment.
That year, my sister was 9 years old, her eyes were big, and her smile was particularly sweet.
She pulled me to the bed and sat down and played with me.
My sister was very clever, and made a small red flower with wool to give it to me, furry, and it was particularly beautiful to tie on the braid.
When my mother called me to dinner, my grandmother quickly picked it for me.
She said, well, I'll help you put it away. You can't tell your mom and sister here, or she's going to go crazy.
When I heard that my mother was crazy, I didn't dare to say anything about it.
2
Most of the things about my parents before were told to my grandmother.
My mom and dad met in a factory and were in a relationship for a while.
In 1983, my mother went to Shenzhen to work, which was not as convenient as it is now, and it didn't take long for the two to break off contact.
The family urged my father to marry his daughter-in-law.
My dad saw that my mom wasn't coming back and married a girl next to her house.
That girl was my sister's mother. I've seen pictures, a bit toothless, but with big eyes.
After marriage, the two were very affectionate. In 1985, he gave birth to his sister.
My sister is very long, picking the long part of my parents who are good-looking. Since childhood, he has been a beautiful embryo.
In 1987, my sister's mother fell ill.
At that time, the medical conditions were not good, and no specific diseases were found.
My grandmother said that her stomach was so big before she died humming in the hospital for two days.
3
At the beginning of 88, my mother returned from Shenzhen.
At that time, it was said that Shenzhen was full of gold, but not everyone could pick it up.
Especially for a woman, life is not easy.
My mom saved some money, which made some people in my hometown very red-eyed.
Say that she has more gossip.
In the summer, my mom wore a slip dress. In Shenzhen, it's really nothing.
But in our hometown, the pan exploded.
As if to confirm what kind of improper occupation she was doing in Shenzhen, there were men whistling at her on the street.
At that time, my mother was twenty-six or seventeen, her reputation was bad, and my family was anxious to marry out.
And my father's side just happened to be single, and the two families discussed and sent my sister to my aunt's house for foster care.
Then I told my mom that my dad was just widowed and had no children.
The two already have an emotional basis. So in August there was a new contact, and in October the marriage was done.
4
That's what the families on both sides thought at the time.
Get married first, and then tell my mom, my sister, of her existence.
But my mother's temper, I can swallow this breath.
The day Grandma told her, she went back to her mother's house and made a big fuss.
My grandparents and uncles scolded a sprinkler of dog blood and asked them why they tricked her into marrying.
My mom came back and had a big fight with my dad and grandma.
She said to my dad, I told you, you have to say that you have a daughter, I will let you take it back, now you don't even think about it! Otherwise I'll divorce you.
My grandmother told me that my mother was also strong, but in fact, she did not dare to leave. Originally the reputation is not good, divorce this life is over. Her mother's family would not recognize her.
Although the words were so, Grandma and Dad did not dare to take their sister back.
My mother has such a violent temper, and when she comes back, she has no peace at home.
5
In 1989, my mother gave birth to me.
In '91, my dad started running business with friends and made some money. In 1993, I paid a few thousand yuan and gave birth to my brother.
And my sister, never got back.
My great-aunt married into the countryside, in the mountains. Family conditions are not so good. My sister suffered a lot from snacks.
But she didn't remember who she hated because my dad didn't pick her up. On the contrary, it is particularly kind and good to everyone.
My great-aunt has two sons. One was three years older than her and one was a year older than her.
My sister was in the 5th grade of elementary school, so she took the initiative to say that she would not go to school and helped to work at home.
My dad subsidized her living expenses for her two older brothers to go to school.
What farming, raising pigs, chopping firewood, without which she would not have done.
Even watching TV at night, she was not idle, sitting on the bed and playing sweater.
She's really clever.
The sweaters worn by my aunt's family were all made by her. When she had time, she would knit two pieces for my grandma and my dad.
So can Grandma not hurt her?
Sometimes, when my brother-in-law went to the city to run errands, my grandmother would ask her to bring her sister to the house for two days.
If my mother bumps into me, it will be a good noise.
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When my sister was 14 years old, she went to work in the city.
Roasted wheat is wrapped in a roasted wheat restaurant.
It should be 99 years, 200 a month, pack a meal.
Grandma told her to come to the house and sleep in a house with her.
After so many years, Grandma felt that my mother would not be so vengeful.
But my mother refused to die.
My sister came with her luggage, and she blocked the door to prevent her from entering.
Grandma quarreled with her and tried to push her away.
Of course, my mother wouldn't let me, and when she blocked her backhand, she pushed my grandmother down.
Now my dad was angry.
Tell me about my dad, he's a stuffy gourd. He didn't have a bag outside, but he didn't care about anything at home.
Even if my mother and I quarreled, he was squatting on the side and smoking, not pulling or dissuading.
But that day, my grandmother fell, and he stopped doing it.
It's a man in the end.
My mother is usually strong, really moved her hands, and she couldn't beat it at all.
My dad kicked my mom over as soon as he got up, picked up the hook and greeted my mom.
My brother and I were so frightened that we curled up under the table and didn't dare to make a sound.
And my sister rushed over with an arrow, and Pu Tong knelt in front of my father and carried the hook.
My sister said, it's not worth it, Dad, it's not worth it for me. I can live anywhere.
7
I still can't forget my sister's injury, and my shoulders are all purple.
Grandma cried when she rubbed her medicine.
My sister smiled and comforted her, saying that it was okay, this is nothing, once mowing grass in the mountains, falling a big tree fork, smashing more than this is okay.
Grandma cried even harder.
That was the first time I realized that although she and I were sisters, she had suffered too much more than me.
Before going to bed at night, my mother scolded me and my brother, white raised you two little rabbit cubs, at the critical moment, but also need outsiders to help me.
I asked my mother, my sister is very good, why don't you let her live with me?
My mom said, be well, the better she is, the more I won't let go. Before you live together, your grandmother can't look at the two of you every day, and if she lives in, she doesn't know how to blow.
At that time, I was too young to understand my mother.
But slowly grow up, bring into my mother's perspective, more or less can understand.
My mom has a bad personality and a big temper. Grandma always beat my dad's ex-wife to her.
What looks good, gentle and diligent.
Having a baby, there is nothing to compare.
After all, my sister is capable, and she looks really good, and the wind and rain in the mountains can't hide her beauty.
My brother and I screwed together.
To put it bluntly, my mother didn't hate my sister, she couldn't stand my grandmother hitting her with my sister. And for the concealment of that year, I have not been able to swallow that breath.
It's just that I pity my sister and become a victim of the adult's fighting spirit.
8
My sister ended up staying at the wheat roast shop.
Every night, I set up a camp bed in the shop, and it was like watching the shop.
It was from then on that that I interacted more with my sister.
My sister just has the ability to make everyone else want to be friends with her.
Maybe it's the welfare of beauty.
After school, I often went to play with her. My sister would take the rest of the filling and steam two oversized roasted wheat for me to eat.
She also asked me for a book to read.
I would borrow magazines from the school library for her.
Sometimes I think she also likes to read, but she has been accustomed to giving good things to others since she was a child, giving up the opportunity to read.
In fact, my sister is particularly clever, and anything will be seen once.
She was in the wheat shop for 2 years, and the boss secretly touched the stuffing and noodles, but still let her steal the teacher.
9
In 2001, my dad and my aunt paid for my sister to open a fire stall by herself.
At that time, Grandma was sharp and sharp, and followed to help.
The stall only sells lamb shallots and millet porridge. Good material, fair price, business is getting better and better. The guests all called me Sister Burn Messisch.
In 2003, my sister moved from a small shed on the side of the road into the storefront.
She was 18 years old.
She also hired a small handyman named Xu Tao.
I introduced him so famously because many years later, he became my brother-in-law.
My sister has money, and she is better for her relatives. Especially me and my brother.
We used to go to her shop, sometimes to help, sometimes to make trouble. She took us to buy stationery and snacks when we weren't busy in the afternoon.
Grandma said to me, don't always make trouble with your sister. She had to get up at 3:30 a.m. every morning and let her sleep in the afternoon.
My sister said, it's okay, I love to play with them.
10
In 2007, I was admitted to Guiyang to attend university.
My dad sent me, and my sister had to come with me. She said I wanted to see what college was like.
It is no exaggeration to say that it was my sister's first train ride, the first time to go to a big city.
When I got to the dormitory, she helped me make the bed up, and then stood in the doorway and looked and looked.
She said, Sister, this condition is too good, you should study well.
The eyes were full of envy.
I said, Sister, you save some money, you can continue to read. It is also possible to take a self-examination.
My sister smiled and shook her head and said, What am I doing in that exam? I've been opening a shop all my life, and I've missed the age of learning.
Oh, yes. My sister had missed out on studying, but she helped her two older brothers in the aunt's family to finish college.
Sometimes, I really hurt her.
She always acted lightly, as if all the grievances and injustices she had suffered from childhood to adulthood were not worth mentioning.
Before leaving, we went shopping. My sister had a crush on a silk scarf.
I quickly tied it to her, her neck was thin and long, it was so beautiful. My sister looked in the mirror and said, "It's pretty good."
My sister was reluctant to buy it, I said I had to buy it, I sent you.
My sister didn't refuse. Since then, she has fallen in love with silk scarves.
At that time, how could I have imagined that one day the silk scarf would change my destiny.
11
In 2009, my mom's gallstones recurred.
It is particularly severe and requires surgery.
At that time, my dad was out of town. I'm in school. My brother can't do the job of serving people.
And my grandmother's age, taking care of her really can't stand it.
The day after my mom's surgery, my sister came.
My mother saw her and said, "What are you here for?"
My sister said, Auntie, don't get angry. Grandma is not in good health. I don't hurt you, I have to hurt her. I'll leave you alone for the next two days.
With that, she took out the boiled chicken soup.
My mom had no reason to object.
By the time I had the eleventh holiday, my dad and I had both gone home, and my mom's body had been raised.
Before the reunion dinner at home, my mother said to my brother, go, call your eldest sister too.
My dad and I were amazed.
My mother said that I was a stubborn person, but I was not mixed. This child took care of me to the best of my ability, and I cannot be ungrateful.
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My mom later told me that she was very touched when my sister stopped my dad from shouting that it wasn't worth it.
I thought my sister was atmospheric, but at that time things were not in that position.
Otherwise, my brother and I would often go over to my sister to help me or something, and she wouldn't have stopped her.
In fact, in those years, my mother's temperament was much calmer, and she may have also come up in age.
I have been fighting with my grandmother for half a lifetime, and the two people are also helping each other.
During the days of my mother's surgery, a mouthful of bubbles caught fire on my.
When my sister came to dinner, my grandmother took her hand and shed tears.
Grandma complained to my mother and said, I blame you. Otherwise, how good this family is neatly organized, and it has suffered my eldest granddaughter all these years.
Before my mother could reply, my sister said, Grandma, what are you talking about, the eyes are long and forward looking. In the future, the family will be fine.
My mother said, listen to your eldest granddaughter how good it is, all day long you will know to go through old accounts with me. In two years I'll see two big eyeballs on the back of your head.
My grandmother rolled her eyes in anger.
13
That night, my sister didn't leave, and I squeezed into a bed.
We talked for half a night.
I said, you're so good-tempered, my mother is so bad for you. You don't have a vendetta either.
My sister said, your mother is also a bitter woman. She loves to lose her temper because there are so many grievances that cannot be said. What do I have to do, aunt, father, grandmother, and you and brother are very good to me. You look at your mother again, her mother-in-law's family squeezed her on both sides, she, ah, should not have returned from Shenzhen that year. Her character is not suitable for living in our small place.
That was the first time I looked at my mom again.
I used to think that she loved to make unreasonable trouble, but now I think about it, if it were me, everyone around me would accuse me and splash dirty water, and I guess I would be even madr than her.
I said, the truth is this, there are few people who can do as much as you do.
My sister said, you will know when you go to society later, being a woman is more troublesome than a man. As long as men can earn money, it is enough, women are different. You remember, don't learn from your grandmother and your mother, when you are wronged, you will only work against women, and you have a temper to find men to lie.
I laughed and said, I don't have a man yet, who are you looking for to sprinkle, do you have sprinkled?
That's how we say it's dawn.
But looking back now, what I remember is still the few conversations that began.
Now many people like to talk about feminism, and my sister, more than ten years ago, talked about such a simple truth, but it is full of the kindness of women helping women.
14
In 2011, my brother was admitted to college, and I just graduated.
Stayed in Guiyang.
My sister saved some money in those years and bought the storefront.
She felt that this was the place where she settled down, and that her own was at ease.
The relationship between my sister and Xu Tao became clear at that time.
My dad and my grandma didn't support it. One is that Xu Tao is two years younger than my sister, and the other is that Xu Tao was born in the countryside and wants nothing.
But my sister feels that over the years, Xu Tao has accompanied her in the wind and rain, and she is a caring person.
Only my mom supported her. My mother said, what pot with what cover, you two look at it matching.
By 2013, my sister bought a house.
She and Xu Tao have already ripped off the certificate and are preparing for the wedding in the spring of 14 years.
We have a saying over there, the new house is ready to find someone to lively for two days, long yang qi.
My sister beckoned us young people to come over and play. My brother and I all went, and her friends, and we all had an all-night fight.
In the morning, everyone fell asleep on the couch.
My sister sat on the balcony, the morning sun shining in and wrapping her tenderly.
I said, sister, you can also sleep for a while, wait up, I will help you clean up together.
My sister looked at the chaotic and vigorous room and smiled and said, Sister, your sister, I finally have a home.
In an instant, both of us sisters burst into tears.
15
Before the Spring Festival in 2014, my sister became pregnant.
It is a small accident, but if it comes, it will be safe. My sister was pregnant in October and gave birth to a daughter.
Xu Tao liked it so much.
It was my mother who went to serve the confinement. Looking at the way she held her baby with love, I suddenly wanted to cry.
My sister has a mother who hurts her.
But who would have thought that such happiness would one day come to an abrupt end.
It was March 2015.
One evening, Xu Tao drove to buy goods.
My sister ordered two boxes of Gala apples online, and she wanted to share one box for my grandmother, so she rode a small motorcycle to send it over.
It rained lightly that day, and my sister tied a long red scarf, like a small flame in the gray weather.
Here, let's give everyone a wake-up call.
Ride a moped and don't wear a scarf.
My sister turned a corner and accidentally slipped.
Actually, it's not a big deal. But the scarf was rolled into the rear wheel.
Looking at the monitoring, it took only three or five minutes before and after that someone found out that they ran over to rescue them.
But the little red flame was embedded in the sister's slender and beautiful neck.
By the time I found a paper knife and cut it, my sister had already lost her breath.
It is always said that life is strong, but in fact, it is extremely fragile.
A person who was still so alive just now, blinked and said that it was gone.
16
My sister's funeral was quite solemn, and relatives and friends came.
She's a good person.
Everyone came to remember her.
I was crying breathlessly, and my mom was crying red-eyed.
And my grandmother, several times, cried and fainted.
It was her most well-behaved granddaughter, so yin and yang.
In the next five or six years, Xu Tao has been opening my sister's shop and has several branches.
My sister didn't look at the wrong person.
Every year, Xu Tao will send dividends to my parents. And the little niece also grew up healthy and happy, and he was a good father.
Grandma passed away in early March 2019, just a few days away from my sister's death.
In her last two years, her legs were gone, rheumatism was too wet, and the bungalow was too wet.
Xu Tao took her to his house to serve.
He said that his sister was gone, and he had to give his grandmother a pension for his sister.
It was said that it also affected his blind date, but he didn't mind. For so many years, he had been alone.
Take him and my sister's baby daughter with you.
17
Today, in 2022, there are often people who match me and Xu Tao.
Tell me about me.
I fell in love in college and graduated with points. After 15 years of talking, the character was not good, and it ended in a breakup.
It wasn't until '17 that I got married at the age of 28.
Unexpectedly, in less than two years, he left.
Ex-husband domestic violence, but also cheated. While I wasn't yet a child, I jumped out of the pit.
In the years that followed, I remained single until I was 33 years old.
Then one day, a relative had a sudden idea that Xu Tao and I could be together.
More and more people said that it was not impossible.
Because in this era of roaring, it is difficult to find an affectionate man like Xu Tao.
Although his education is worse than mine, he has opened several branches of my sister's shop over the years.
They felt that Xu Tao was worthy of me.
If, I mean, if Xu Tao wasn't my brother-in-law, maybe anything was possible.
After all, he is really a good man, after all, true love has nothing to do with age and education.
But Xu Tao and I both know that with my sister, everything is impossible.
My sister is so good and so good, so good that Xu Tao will probably have to spend half her life to forget her.
So good that I was afraid that I would forget her, so I told my sister's story.
I see a saying that the reason why the closest relatives leave is because they have to go to the next life in advance to help us decorate our home.
Then sister, if there is really a next life, I hope we can still be sisters.
When the time comes, I'll be my sister, and you'll be the sister who can be spoiled and grow up carefree.
Then with Xu Tao, born and born, never separated.
END
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