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Dai Fen had just brought her grandson to kindergarten, and that night, his son came to discuss with her and asked her to find a job to earn some money.
"Why?" Dai Fen asked incomprehensibly, "I am 60 years old, what work can I do, and I have a pension myself." ”
"Mom, your pension is only 3,000 yuan, too little." Son said.
Daphine said: "3,000 is not enough for me to spend." ”
The son said: "That was before, now you have grandchildren, grandchildren are getting bigger and bigger, there are more places to spend money, don't you make more money?" ”
Dai Fen really does not understand, the future costs of the grandson, that should not be the son and daughter-in-law responsible, she is a grandmother, how much can she help, is it old, but also for the grandson to work to make money?
"I don't want to look for a job, in the future, you two will try to make more money, I have worked all my life, and I want to rest well in my old age." Daphine said.
Seeing that the mother did not agree, the son was anxious, "Mom, can't you help us more!" 60 years old can be a nanny, a month a lot of money. ”
"Babysitter? Would you like to see your mother go and work as a nanny for someone? Daphine asked rhetorically.
"Then would you like your son to quarrel with your daughter-in-law?" Are you willing to have a worse life than others in the future? The son also asked rhetorically.
Dai Fen said: "I understand, it was your daughter-in-law's idea." ”
The son said: "Mom, a relative of my daughter-in-law's colleague, the family wants to recruit a nanny, the salary is particularly high, 6,000 yuan a month!" ”
"6,000 pieces? So high? Daphine was also surprised.
A neighbor also went to be a nanny, and she asked when chatting, only 4,000 a month.
"I'm afraid it's not good, right?" Can't you pay such a high salary? Daphine said.
"People just have money and want to take good care of their father, and the old man lives alone, the house is 150 square meters, you go is equivalent to you saying it, how good it is!" The son persuaded.
Daffin hesitated.
The son continued to advise: "Mom, we are indeed too difficult, the child is more and more able to spend money, we both make not much money, if you go to us we are equal to six thousand yuan more per month, the days are much better." ”
Daphine did not speak.
Son: "Mom, if you don't agree, my daughter-in-law won't let me sleep tonight, and you will be sad for your son and grandson." ”
Daphine had to say, "Okay, then let's do it." ”
In this way, Dai Fen went to lao Sun's house as a nanny.
The old grandson is 80 years old, his brain is not bright, and he lives alone in a large house of 150 square meters, this time the son and daughter pay for the hired nanny.
The home environment is very good, close to the vegetable market, Dai fen feels that the 6,000 yuan is too suitable, an old man is not good to serve?
But within a few days, she realized that she was far wrong.
Lao Sun not only has a brain, but also has a very strange temper, there are many things for Daifen to do every day, as well as cleanliness, a house of 150 square meters, let the corner of Daifen be cleaned every day, and even the sofa must be removed to wipe the floor below.
In this way, he is also dissatisfied every day, and he picks problems everywhere on crutches.
Within a week of Dafin, I felt very tired.
No wonder such a high salary is given, there is indeed a reason.
Barely insisting on it for a month and getting 6,000 yuan, Dai fen felt extremely heavy.
On the day of the monthly break, she returned to her son's house.
As soon as the son met, he asked her, "Mom, let's get paid." ”
Daphine took 6,000 out of his bag and gave it to his son.
The son took it in his hand and twisted it around, a thick stack, "Haha, I really gave 6 thousand, wife and wife, your colleague is right!" ”
The daughter-in-law came over, "Of course, my colleagues won't lie to me." ”
Then I took the money and counted it, and when I finished counting, I put it directly in my bag and didn't say a word of thanks to my mother-in-law.
The son said, "Mom, you see, how's it going, go right, you didn't want to do it at the beginning." ”
"Alas, this money is not easy to earn." Dai Fen said, "That old grandson has too many things, his temper is very big, and he always picks faults every day from morning to night..."
"Mom, people pay for it, they must pick and choose faults, can you just do it seriously?" The son said, "These six thousand can buy your grandson a lot of things." ”
Although her son and daughter-in-law do not understand how hard she is, she is still very happy when she mentions her grandson: "If you can't spend it, save it for my grandson, you don't want to spend it." ”
The son said, "Got it." ”
Dai Fen stayed at her son's house for a day and a night, and she was still working, and her daughter-in-law did not let her rest for a day.
Anyway, as soon as she came home, her daughter-in-law automatically did nothing.
When Dai Fen returned to lao Sun's house after the rest, the work was full of momentum.
Because she remembered that her hard work was for her grandson, and if she suffered a little, her grandson's life would be better, and she would also save money for her grandson's future.
Thinking like this, even if she is bitter, she feels that it is worth it.
In this way, she worked for half a year, and the six thousand yuan of salary per month was paid to her daughter-in-law on time.
She calculated, six thousand by six months, thirty-six thousand, in addition to the money spent on the grandson, the daughter-in-law can at least save more than twenty thousand for the grandson.
If you work for a year, you can save at least 50,000 yuan for your grandson, which is really good!
In the past six months, Lao Sun's condition has also changed, and his requirements for Dai Fen have become more and more demanding, and his temper has become worse.
Daifen cleaned up, he would come to check, pick a problem and let Daifen do it again, and also began to scold people, sometimes even beat people.
If it weren't for his bad legs and feet, Dafen would have been really beaten.
Dai Fen became more and more depressed, and after the sixth month, when she returned to her son's house on the day of rest, she said she did not want to do it.
"Mom, that's not okay, such a good job, so much money, how can you not do it?" Daughter-in-law said.
"Alas, you don't understand, that old grandson is now like a pervert, there is no reason to speak, I am tired of not saying, I have to be scolded, sometimes he still beats me." 」 Daffin complained.
"Did he hit you?" The son asked.
Daphine said: "No, he is on crutches, walking slowly, unable to hit." ”
The daughter-in-law said: "That's not enough, he means that the 80-year-old man has the strength to beat people." ”
The son said, "Yes, Mom, this is a big deal, it can be six thousand yuan a month, you can't just talk about you, you don't do it." ”
"Where is this just to say that it is so simple, before the floor was wiped once a day, now at least three times, he just has nothing to do, I am too depressed in my heart." Daphine said annoyedly.
"Then you don't want to think about your grandson?" The money you earn has been given to your grandchildren, isn't that your greatest consolation! Daughter-in-law said.
This sentence is really a sentence, Daifen is silent, for the sake of her grandson she can indeed endure.
"Well, I'll just keep doing it." She said.
The son and daughter-in-law laughed: "That's right." ”
Dai Fen went on to work in lao Sun's house again, one day two months later, Lao Sun's son came to see his father and took the old mobile phone he had eliminated to Dai Fen: "I have replaced the new mobile phone, this old one has been used for two years, there is no problem, if you don't hate it, give it to you, your old man machine is too backward." ”
Daffin was embarrassed and wanted to give money.
The old grandson said: "I know, my old father has a bad temper, it is not easy for you to work for so long, this mobile phone is what I sent you, don't want money." ”
After saying that, the old grandson taught Daifen how to use the smart phone, and also helped her add her son and daughter-in-law's friends.
Dai Fen was very happy: "Now I want to see my grandson at any time." ”
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But because of this mobile phone, she found that her daughter-in-law had been lying to her.
One night, Dai Fen looked at the circle of friends sent by her daughter-in-law before going to bed, and wanted to see what about her little grandson.
But unexpectedly found that the daughter-in-law was showing off in the circle of friends.
What two thousand shoes, three thousand bags, five thousand watches, and so on.
It was nothing, the key was a sentence that surprised her.
There is a circle of friends, the daughter-in-law sent is: "It is good to have someone to help make money, and the purchasing power has increased." ”
This sentence attracted the attention of Dai Fen, could it be that the person the daughter-in-law said was herself?
Looking at the release time of the pictures that posted things again, it was almost two or three days after he handed over the money to his daughter-in-law.
That is to say, the daughter-in-law did not save the money she earned for her grandson, but took it for her own consumption.
Daffinton was out of breath!
She worked hard, swallowed her anger, and worked as a nanny in the old Grandson's house, just to be able to save money for her grandson, if it were not for this idea to support her, she would have stopped doing it a long time ago.
But the daughter-in-law deceived her, and handed over the money to her, but it became her extra income, to consume, to squander, and to show it in the circle of friends.
Dai Fen's consciousness was gone.
She immediately called her son to find out.
The son answered: "Mom, what's going on so late?" ”
Daphine asked, "I ask you, what do you do with the money I give you every month?" ”
"A small part of the money was spent for the child, most of it was saved, didn't you tell you, why ask again?" Son said.
"Don't lie to me! What's going on with your daughter-in-law's circle of friends? What about those clothes, bags, watches? Daphine asked.
The son paused, should also be nervous, and then said: "Mom, my daughter-in-law she also works to earn money, that is to use her own money to buy it." ”
Daphine was too angry: "Don't you help her lie to me, she only makes a few dollars a month?" Now buy a pair of shoes for two thousand yuan, can she earn it? There are also those high-end fruits in the sun, why didn't I see her buy them before? They were all bought with my money! ”
"Mom, you have to figure out what to do, you gave us the money, how we use it, don't worry about it!" The son said vaguely.
Dai Fen was more certain of his own judgment, "What about your daughter-in-law? Call her and I'll ask her personally! ”
The son immediately said, "No, Mom, aren't you trying to make a contradiction?" Okay, don't say it, I hung up. ”
The son hung up the phone when he finished.
Dai Fen couldn't get through it again, and she couldn't get through to her daughter-in-law.
I knew that these two mouths were hiding from themselves.
"It's so infuriating! For more than half a year, didn't you take advantage of me as a fool! Daifen couldn't get through the phone and had to talk to himself.
The next day she called again, but neither her son nor daughter-in-law answered.
I didn't answer her phone on the third day.
A few days later, it was time for a break, and she went back to her son's house.
In the past, every time she went back, she had to stop by the market to buy vegetables, but this time she didn't buy anything.
The daughter-in-law saw it and asked, "Mom, you didn't buy vegetables, so what do we eat?" ”
Dai Fen really felt strange, the daughter-in-law spent so much money on herself, and now she knows it, but she is not nervous at all.
"I ask you, what did you do with all the money I gave you before?" Daffin asked.
The daughter-in-law said, "Don't you all know?" And ask me what I'm doing? ”
So faceless?
Daphine: "You spent it yourself, didn't you?" You spent my hard-earned money, but you lied to me and told me to save it for my children, so that I could continue to work as a nanny to make money for you! ”
The daughter-in-law was impatient at first: "Why do you know so much?" I just spent it, I married your son for several years have not enjoyed, now spend the money you earned, shouldn't it? ”
Daphine was so angry that he didn't know what to say, "You are so shameless, if I had known this, I would not have continued to be a nanny." ”
"Mom, don't you say it, the money is spent, can't you still earn it?" The son came over to help his daughter-in-law speak.
"You said it lightly, do you know how I earned that money?" Bite the bullet! If it's you guys, I'm afraid you won't be able to do it for a day! Daphine said loudly, "But you have squandered my hard-earned money, do you have a conscience?" ”
"Stingy, ahem!" The daughter-in-law glanced at her mother-in-law.
"Mom, don't say it, let's cook, we're all hungry." The son urged.
"What to do? Do you still want me to serve you? It's too much! Daphine said nothing and refused to go into the kitchen.
The daughter-in-law said angrily, "Don't come back if you don't cook!" Hand over the money and leave right away! ”
"Huh?" Dai Fen sneered angrily: "Drive me away, do you want me to pay the money?" Is there such a bully? ”
"What do you want to do without paying?" You don't have a house yourself, you want to come back, don't you have to live with us? The daughter-in-law asked arrogantly.
"My house is for you to marry, and the one you live in used to be my house!" Dai Fen said angrily, "I can see you clearly now, and I only enjoy myself in my heart, and I don't take the old man seriously at all!" I'll go now and won't come back. ”
"Well, you go, don't come back when you're gone, and don't look for us when you're old!" The daughter-in-law screamed behind her.
Dai fen was trembling with anger and left his son's house.
She had nowhere to go.
Had to walk to the nearby supermarket and sit down on the bench inside.
The supermarket is full of people, or adults with children, or couples, or old couples, as if only she is alone.
The desolation of her heart made her can't help but cry again.
It's really hard for people to get old, especially when there is no one left with their wives.
If the child is sensible, it is good, if he does not understand things, it is simply a heartache.
She sat for an hour, and her tears flowed intermittently for an hour.
Slowly the mood calmed down, she said to herself: "I have to think about what to do in the future, I am not powerless, my body is still very good, I have a pension, but I don't have a house, but I can rent one!" ”
Then, she found a snack shop nearby, ate something, and went to the real estate agency.
The agent listened to her situation, sympathized with her, and carefully helped her see a lot of houses on the computer.
There is a kind of single apartment room, and Delfin is quite in the picture.
25 square meters ~ 30 square meters, about 130,000 can be bought, the location is a bit biased, but the surrounding living facilities are also very perfect, living and pension has no problem.
It's just that she doesn't have that much money on her hands.
As a nanny for more than half a year, her own pension has basically not been spent, plus a little money saved before, a total of more than 40,000.
She suddenly didn't want to rent a house, she wanted to find a normal live-in nanny to do, 4,000 a month, work for three years, you can save enough money for an apartment.
At that time, she will have her own small house, and then, willing to be a nanny, unwilling, with her own pension is enough to live.
After thinking of this plan, she felt that there was a road in front of her again, and her mood was much better.
Then, she went back to Lao Sun's house, finished the current month, and called Lao Sun's son and said that he didn't want to do it, and asked him to settle this month's salary to himself.
The old grandson was very reluctant to let her go, and repeatedly kept her.
Dai Fen said: "Your father is really too difficult to serve, if you just work more I will not say anything, now he can not move to scold and beat people, I am also 60 years old, in case one day can not hide from the real beaten by him, not even a person to take care of me." So, you better find someone younger. ”
The old grandson persuaded for a while, but when he saw that Dai Fen still did not change his mind, he had to transfer 6,000 salary to her.
After getting 6,000 yuan, Dai Fen's heart was even brighter.
After working in the old Sun family for so long, only this last 6,000 belonged to herself.
She went to find a booth first, planning to go back to her son's house, move all her belongings back, then rest for two days, and then go to find a nanny job.
But when she arrived at her son's house and was packing her things, her son called her.
It turned out that the daughter-in-law colleague who introduced the old Sun family to work was looking for the daughter-in-law again, saying that the son of the old grandson really could not find a better nanny than Daifen, and asked Daifen, if it was added to 7,000 a month, would you like to do it?
And the daughter-in-law also learned at this time that the mother-in-law resigned.
But she is very excited now, let her husband quickly call her mother-in-law, let her promise to come down, 7,000 a month, dry!
But Dai Fen said to his son on the phone: "You tell your wife, even if I give ten thousand a month, I will not do it, and it does not matter to her how much money I can make." ”
The son said, "Mom, don't you still think about it, didn't my daughter-in-law explain everything that day, if you don't give us money in the future, she won't let you come to my house when you're old." ”
Dai Fen said: "I have already figured it out, I have lived by myself, you don't beat me up, I won't look for you when I'm old." ”
She hung up the phone.
Then, in a hurry to pack up her things, she had to move out of her son's house as soon as possible.
Otherwise, if her son and daughter-in-law knew that she was preparing to move away at home, and then ran back to mess with her, she couldn't stand it.
The future plans have been figured out, although a person's life is lonely, but it is better than getting angry with his son and daughter-in-law and being used.
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