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Xiaoming did not have a child before the slight cleanliness habits, at night overtime and then late back home she will also drag the home again, their home looks like a sample house, very clean and tidy.
And Xiaoming's cleanliness was later cured by his own son!
My son had learned to throw things at three months, and by six months he was even more intense.
At first, Xiaoming was very angry, helping the child to pick up things and teaching the child at the same time.
Later, she read a book and said that children throwing things away are actually learning, and if they are well guided, they can also make children smarter.
Xiaoming no longer teaches the child, but learns to guide the child slowly, and their home is no longer as spotless as the sample house before the child was born, although it is a little messy, but it has more of a homely atmosphere.
When the child loses something, it is not the child who is angry and loses his temper, but in fact, the child is learning to deal with his emotions, and the child is exercising his fingers to throw things.
This is a rare learning process for children, the more children who lose things, the smarter they will be, and parents should not blindly stop it.
Children love to lose things, in fact, they are learning, and the more they lose, the smarter they are
The child throws something around and exercises fine movements
When the child throws things, the hand should pick up the thing and throw it out, which is actually used in the child's fingers, whether it is a big movement or a fine movement, it is sufficient exercise.
The child's fine movements will be directed by the brain, and the more the child's fine movements are perfected, the smarter his brain will be, so we let the child throw things away is actually stimulating the child's brain.
The child throws something away by understanding cause and effect
Children are especially fond of throwing things that make noise when they are 4 months old, and when he throws things away, he may giggle and even have a surprised expression.
This is actually the child understanding the causal relationship and constantly repeating this behavior of throwing things.
For example, throwing an iron bowl will make a "banging" sound, throwing a wooden toy, the sound is not the same.
And the child will slowly think about what sound this thing will make when it is thrown down, what sound will be made when that thing is thrown down, and he will connect.
Because I lost this iron bowl, it makes a rattling sound, which is an important process of the child's understanding of causality, and the understanding of causality is that the child's brain is constantly maturing.
Children throwing things away are actually exploring
The growth of children is actually the need to constantly explore, children after throwing things also like to rummage through the boxes and cabinets, this is actually the child looking at how the world is made?
And when looking at different things, pinching different things, and throwing different things, you can also let children think and imagine, which is what children are exploring and developing their own brains.
The child throws something away to vent his emotions
Even though we're now grown up and adults, we occasionally lose things when we're angry.
For children who are less experienced in dealing with emotions, losing things is venting their anger, and it is better to lose things than children hitting people.
It is recommended that parents can buy some things that will not be bad when lost, let the children lose to vent their emotions, when the children's emotions are vented, we can slowly communicate with the children, in order to better understand what the children are thinking, and better improve the child's emotional intelligence.
Therefore, the parents who throw things away can make the children smarter, and they can also make the children's emotional management ability stronger, and improve the child's emotional intelligence and IQ.
Children love to throw things, how can parents guide them? Doing it right can improve your child's IQ and emotional intelligence
The first: Give your child something you can throw away
For example, clogs toys, or some stainless steel things, or even some small balls to throw to children
The second: learn to think backwards and let the child play the game of shooting
For example, if the child's toys are all thrown on the ground, we can take a box and tell the child, the mother plays the game of shooting with you, and throws all the toys on the ground into the cardboard box, which is also a fun game of throwing things.
And it can better exercise the child's fine movements, because the toy needs to be thrown into the box, so the difficulty will be higher, and the exercise effect on the child will be stronger.
Children throw things do not scold, do not fight, learn to guide, improve children's IQ and emotional intelligence.
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