It is said that "starting from the appearance, and finally the character and talent", when it comes to love and finding a partner, you can't just look at the appearance, a good character and personality is the guarantee of happiness in the second half of life.
But then again, people nowadays generally pay more attention to appearance, if there is no feeling at first glance, there is generally no desire to continue to understand.
In this era when everything is fast, long-term love has become an extremely luxurious thing, and fast-food love is popular.
Everyone has a heart for beauty, and it is right to want a good-looking object, but you can't ignore the understanding of the other half, and you can't blindly fall in love with each other because the other party is good-looking.
Li Xia (pseudonym), who lives in Changsha, Hunan Province, was introduced to Wang Qiang (pseudonym), who was three years older than himself, and although Li Xia was in her 20s, she had no love experience to speak of, and was quickly attracted to the handsome and sunny Wang Qiang.
Li Xia felt that although Wang Qiang was introduced to him, the other party was his own Prince Charming, and Wang Qiang's love and care for Li Xia made Li Xia fall deeply into it.
So after only two months together, Li Xia married her first love boyfriend Wang Qiang, but the two did not successfully hold a wedding after receiving the license, because the parents of both sides were not optimistic about the two.
Because the wedding is generally not a day to get a license, many young people will first get a license, and then wait until the good day chosen by their parents to hold a wedding.
The reason why the parents of both sides are not optimistic about the two is because not long after the two received the license, the two broke out into a fierce conflict, and they both held a breath of air, who had the heart to do the wedding.
But Li Xia, who is in love, will care about this, she feels that this is just a temporary contradiction, and after a while the two will be reconciled as before.
But Li Xia did not expect that in the next three years, Wang Qiang's temper became more and more grumpy, and he used himself as a punching bag at every turn, beating himself to a piece of purple on his face, and was also driven out of the house.
However, what makes people wonder is that Li Xia, who was beaten, actually did not have the slightest intention of divorce, but often took the initiative to find Wang Qiang to slow down the relationship, but Wang Qiang always avoided it.
In the end, Wang Qiang agreed to meet and communicate, facing his former lover Li Xia, Wang Qiang showed some indifference, and for the scars on Li Xia's body, Wang Qiang said that every time It was Li Xia who was at fault first.
Regarding the matter of marriage, Wang Qiang was even more aggrieved, and he always wanted to do the wedding, but Li Xia's family did not agree, and he hit a wall many times to receive relatives.
As for the contradiction between the husband and wife, it is completely that the wife is suspicious of ghosts all day, jealous of herself all day, thinking that she has another woman outside, and li xia must be suspicious when she goes home to take a bath.
In this home, she is like a prisoner, and Li Xia is like a police officer who guards her mobile phone, not only installing a location for her mobile phone, but also secretly installing surveillance at home, which makes Wang Qiang very devastated.
Sometimes Li Xia disappears after a quarrel, and various contradictions accumulate together, so there is a ridiculous situation where two people enter the scene and beat each other.
In fact, Wang Qiang still has feelings for his wife Li Xia, but his wife Li Xia's desire to control really makes him feel suffocated, and the delay in holding the wedding is undoubtedly an important reason.
Perhaps the two once had a good relationship, but three years of mutual torture, has already wiped out the original feelings, Li Xia was often beaten, and the mother's family has always been persuaded to leave, why does she refuse to leave?
However, Li Xia's reason is: Wang Qiang is his first love, but also very handsome, he does not want to divorce, it sounds very outrageous, but a closer look at Li Xia, you will find that this answer is very reasonable.
Li Xia has been very inferior since she was a child due to family reasons, which is one of the main reasons why she has never been in love when she is so old.
When Wang Qiang of the sunshine enters his life, it will undoubtedly become the sun in her world, basically Wang Qiang is not handsome, she will also feel that Wang Qiang is very handsome, after all, the eyes of relatives are out of the west.
Moreover, Li Xia is also pregnant, and the appearance of the child makes her even more reluctant to leave Wang Qiang, saying that Wang Qiangshuai is only superficial, and the real reason is complex and multi-layered.
Whether it is Wang Qiang or Li Xia, they still have feelings for each other, and resolving the contradiction is to try to persuade and not to dissuade, if the two can be reconciled as before, it is undoubtedly the best choice.
Originally, both of them had already received their licenses, but the parents' obstruction made it impossible for the two to hold a wedding, and this incomplete marriage also made Li Xia insecure and suspicious of her husband.
And Wang Qiang turned the spearhead of not being able to get married to his wife, using his wife as a punching bag, which is also very wrong, if the two still want to reconcile, Wang Qiang should take the initiative to apologize.
Then manage a good relationship with your wife, and make an appointment with both parents, and let's talk about it well to see where there is a problem, whether you can change it, and so on.