"Peppa Pig has tattoos on her body, and applause is given to the people of society", this smooth phrase that everyone knows, has become the strongest evidence of tattoo labeling.
For children whose minds are not yet fully mature, tattoos are more seriously labeled on them, and labels such as "bad boys", "young people who have dropped out of school" and "not doing their jobs" are often tied to their children's tattoos.
As a kind of body art, tattoos usually express a kind of faith, beauty and symbolism, and this popular "niche fashion" among adults has become a "carnival" for the whole people at some point.
There is no doubt that children should not be the object of tattoos, but when tattoos are draped in popular coats, children can hardly resist this temptation, is this the fault of tattoos or the fault of labels?
1. The mistake of tattooing is that you should not extend your hand to minors
For the restrictions on tattoos, the mainland has been quite strict, film and television dramas are not allowed to appear tattoos, many occupations do not allow practitioners to have tattoos, and tattoo shops are not allowed to face minors, this restriction is our attitude.
Therefore, the shop that will desperately take risks to tattoo children, its own formality is doubtful, whether the materials and technology are standardized makes it difficult to rest assured, this cross-border operation only meets the interests of the store, but it hurts the child's body and is difficult to remove.
First of all, the school does not allow children to tattoo, once found that children face tattoos, secondary harm; secondly, the growth of children should have a variety of possibilities, but the emergence of tattoos will curb the development direction of many existence, restricting the free growth of children; finally, irregular tattoos are easy to leave safety hazards, especially harmful to lymphatic health, and even have an incubation period of up to ten years.
The right age should do the right thing, tattoos are not wrong, and crossing the line is a big mistake.
2, the wrong label is more likely to make children go astray
Labeling is actually a kind of colored glasses, which is a stereotype reached after a long period of social consensus unification, and tattoos are such a deep-rooted impression.
The labeling of tattoos is an unnecessarily maverick, and with a strong psychological implication: when people around them look at children with such colored glasses, they will invisibly make children's cognition of themselves biased, and even be sure that they are such people, thus going astray.
Do not underestimate the role of psychological cues, for children, this negative psychological cues are particularly serious.
Don't underestimate the impact of the surrounding evaluation on the child, the vast majority of psychological cues are obtained through external evaluation.
If your child suddenly tells you that he wants a tattoo, it is better to take this opportunity to have a good chat with your child, talk about future ideals, talk about the reasons for tattoos, and talk about your attitude, such communication is more effective than a strong ban.