"It is forbidden for minors to participate in live streaming tips" is just in time

Recently, the State Administration of Radio, Film and Television and other four departments issued the "Opinions on Regulating Online Live BroadcastIng Tips and Strengthening the Protection of Minors", proposing the opinion of "prohibiting minors from participating in live broadcast tips", which can be described as timely.

Although children can't be the "big brother of the list", in recent years, stealing and embezzling their parents' money, willfully tipping game anchors and even beautiful anchors is nothing new.

Like what:

In October 2019, the 11-year-old child stole his grandmother's medical treatment money to tip the anchor, which exceeded 40,000 yuan before and after, and the platform did not refund.

In December 2019, two children in Xiangyang, Hubei Province, played a game and rewarded the anchor for more than 56,000 yuan in 4 hours;

In January 2020, an 11-year-old child in Taizhou, Zhejiang Province, paid 49,000 yuan to the game anchor for 7 days, all of which were grandpa's hard-earned money.

Why do children who are playing freely and addictively in the game world inadvertently become "extralegals" who rob and steal their parents' property?

Behind the huge rewards of minors, what kind of guidance and discipline responsibilities should parents and families assume?

First of all, we must correctly cultivate the child's "view of money".

You can't say that the child is young, buy him what he wants, as long as it is for the child to eat, wear, and learn to go to school, parents are willing to spend money for him, but they are never willing to spend more than a few minutes, sit down with the child and talk about it, and tell him the value and meaning of money.

In fact, children who hold their mobile phones all day to brush videos and play games are extremely lonely inside.

We can usually see from the extent to which a child is addicted to mobile phones the level of homeschooling he receives.

Some parents are ridiculous, in the preschool of their children, in order to make the children not noisy, less annoying, they will throw away the mobile phone and tablet to the child, they are happy to enjoy an hour or two of leisure. However, after the child goes to primary school, he will be overwhelmed by the educational anxiety that spreads in school and society, and try to forcibly "peel" the mobile phone and tablet from the child's hands.

I think most children can't easily adapt to this drastic change.

Therefore, after entering puberty, many children will become more and more nervous to seize the "constantly limited" game time, hoping to obtain a more exciting life experience.

And the children who "pay huge rewards" to network anchors during crazy games and addiction to live broadcasting, on the one hand, have no concept of money, on the other hand, because they are forced to narrow living space, and they cannot get full love and companionship from their parents.

So when many parents feel angry because their children are obsessed with games and tipping anchors, be sure to reflect on themselves first:

Who in the end has pushed the child to the point where he can only rely on the "tip anchor" to win attention?

Secondly, it is necessary to reasonably cultivate children's "game view".

Some parents think that games and mobile phones are like "spiritual opium", which I think is ridiculous.

Just like adults like to watch cross-talk skits, jokes and talk shows, children will naturally prefer novel and exciting game content and mobile phone videos to boring and boring learning life, which is due to human nature.

In other words, our lives need to be fresh and interesting, and we need to be relaxed and entertained.

Of course, the premise is that each of us should stand in our own position and do our own thing.

Therefore, before teaching children to play games less, we parents themselves should play less mobile phones; before we resent our children's frequent kryptonite in games, we parents ourselves should reduce the cost of smoking and drinking.

If the child cannot see the adult as a parent "leading by example" at home, he is lazy and indulgent, but he teaches the child not to work hard, he has no ideal fighting spirit, but he complains that the child plays games, then the child's heart will of course be unconvinced.

In today's era of fresh excitement and flooding the Internet, how to help children resist the temptation of games and mobile phones, and put more time and energy into reading and learning, requires parents, teachers and people from all walks of life to work together.

But the general principle is:

It is natural for children to play games, and should only be channeled, not forced.

Finally, ask parents to take care of their wallets and bank cards.

In the elementary school where my child attended, teachers and schools repeatedly declared that they would not let parents give their children pocket money, but every day the toy shops, stationery stores and snack stalls in front of the school were still overcrowded, causing traffic jams repeatedly.

Can you say that the school's "money education" for children is not in place?

Therefore, if the child does not read well and does not do the problem correctly, it is likely that the education level of the school and the teacher is limited, but if the child is at home holding the mobile phone and charging money, he will often tip tens of thousands of yuan to the game anchor.

In my opinion, this is the responsibility of parents.

First, the wallet is thrown around, the cash is littered, and no one knows whether the child has stolen the money.

Second, the bank card "has a code and no secret", which has basically become an open secret of the whole family, and it is unguarded.

Third, set up "password-free payment" at will, creating convenient conditions for children to "play Krypton gold".

In short, no matter how strict and harsh the "minor mode" is set up on today's media platforms and game platforms, as long as parents still ignore their children's learning and life, throw their mobile phones to their children at will, throw cash around, and casually tell their children the bank card password, then the children who hide the "huge rewards" of their parents and the elderly on the game and live broadcast platforms will only "go forward" and rush forward in line.

To be honest, some parents have not even fulfilled their responsibility for the proper storage of their hard-earned hard-earned money, can you count on those childish and greedy children and online platforms that are eager to make quick gains to help you manage money?

Of course, as long as you keep the evidence of the minor's "huge tip" for the first time, you can call the police and seek police assistance to find a platform to return the kryptonite payment.

But this kind of education for children, really can't.