Zhang Ailing said: Friendship, family affection, there is everything between us, but there is no love.
This sentence also applies to the marriage of Shen Mingbao and Yang Zheng in the TV series "Two Conjectures of Marriage".
From the purchase of a house, you can spy a little bit.
10 million houses
Shen Mingbao (played by Yang Zishan) is a career woman, beautiful, elegant, independent and confident since childhood, and has a strong ability to work.
Shen Mingbao, who is over thirty years old, began to hate marriage, and she and programmer Yang Zheng (played by Peng Guanying) hit it off. The marriage of two people does not begin with love, but because of fit.
To say that the biggest advantage of Yang Zheng's family is to have a reasonable and good mother, it also means that Shen Mingbao will have a good mother-in-law.
After Shen Mingbao became pregnant with twins, Yang Zheng lost his job. A programmer drives a ride-hailing car to support his family.
However, the god of fate still took care of the head of this straight man, and once when driving a ride-hailing car, he met Zhao Songwen. Zhao Songwen looked at Yang Zheng with admiration and gave him the post of deputy general manager of the company.
Yang Zheng's salary suddenly doubled, twice his previous salary.
Seeing that the child in his belly was about to give birth, Shen Mingbao decided to change to a big house, so that his mother and sister-in-law on both sides would live under the same roof.
The sister-in-law Yang Manman (played by Huang Cancan) happens to be a real estate agent, and she introduced a house that is very cost-effective and more than one million lower than the market price.
Shen Mingbao liked this house and the surrounding supporting facilities at the first sight, and she immediately made a plan to buy it.
This house is not cheap, four bedrooms and one living room, to 10 million yuan.
Be deceived
There is no such thing as a free lunch. Greedy and cheap is a big loss.
Shen Mingbao, a pregnant woman with a big belly, moved and was finally stopped outside the house.
Sure enough, there was something wrong with the house. It turned out that the landlord still owed money and wanted to use the lease period to pay off the debt.
The landlord also has his own calculations below the market price, he used this difference to pay off the debt, and did not notify Shen Mingbao to buy a house in advance.
This means that the house that Shen Mingbao spent 10 million yuan to buy will have to wait until the tenant lives for 8 years and can not move in after 8 years.
The premise of buying and selling without breaking the lease should be to let the buyer know in advance, and if the landlord wants to file, it is not possible to buy and sell without filing. And the tenant also has to pay the rent for 8 years at a time.
Family is not the place to be reasonable
They all say that family is not the place to be reasonable. Everyone is responsible for the fact that they are cheated out of buying a house.
Buying a house would have been a good thing, and it was a common wish, and everyone agreed.
Yang Zheng scolded his pregnant wife Shen Mingbao, who had a big belly, on the street. He blamed all the blame on Shen Mingbao, and he didn't dare to say anything about his own mother and half-sister.
As a man, he can only accuse his wife, Shen Mingbao, of buying a house worth 10 million yuan without his consent.
So did Shen Mingbao do something wrong?
This sentence coming out of Yang Zheng's mouth was really hurtful. At that time, Shen Mingbao asked Yang Zheng to see the house, and he kept saying that the company was busy and had no time. Now he put all the responsibility on the pregnant wife, and did not care about his wife's feelings at all. Even Mother Yang couldn't help but feel sorry for her daughter-in-law.
When the street scolded his pregnant wife, Yang Zheng was really extremely selfish and incompetent.
As a mature middle-aged man, on the way to come, you should digest your personal emotions and sort out your thoughts, rather than being indignant and scolding your wife.
What's more, the scolding is still the wife who is pregnant and about to give birth, if the wife is emotional, what should she do?
After working hard in the workplace for many years, Yang Zheng is still just an immature straight man.
Yang Zheng, who prides himself on being the pillar of the pillar, has never grown up and often complains about the world. After scolding his wife, he actually came up with a solution.
As a man, after a promotion and salary increase, he basically took the company as his home, only went home once a week, or hurriedly ate breakfast and left.
Shen Mingbao was about to give birth, and he didn't care about his wife's feelings at all, let alone the changes in her mood. The most excessive thing is that even the mobile phone password is not known to the wife, and the name is to have personal space.
In Yang Zheng's eyes, getting married is just a partner to live a life.
When moving, a big man did not show up, and let a pregnant woman move with everyone.
Yang Zheng's shortcomings are more and more, and he is still macho.
With the gap in income between two people, the inequality between them also comes out. Yang Zheng's words have begun to have a condescending feeling outside the words.
As far as the house thing is concerned, let's analyze it. First of all, the sister-in-law Yang Manman is absolutely responsible for one-third of the responsibility, she is an intermediary, without understanding the actual situation and authenticity of the listing, she actually let her sister-in-law buy it.
Besides, shouldn't agents check the house before deciding on a listing? Changing to Yang Manman's personality, it seems that she can understand that she is an immature and unreliable little girl.
Yang Manman wants to promote this matter as soon as possible, on the one hand, she wants to make more commissions, on the other hand, she also wants to live in, she is also selfish.
Did Shen Mingbao do anything wrong? Shen Mingbao did have a little responsibility, because she was too anxious, resulting in no specific understanding of the actual situation. This is the result of excessive trust in his sister-in-law.
However, she also let Yang Zheng go to see the house, but Yang Zheng did not have time not to look.
As a wife, she is a person who has to work to earn money and also manage the affairs of the family, which is really too difficult for her. After becoming pregnant and gaining more than ten pounds, when she began to feel inferior, her husband Yang Zheng chose to go to the hotel to live in order to be unwilling to face his wife with negative energy.
While enjoying the welfare of her wife as a career woman, she complained that her wife and housekeeper were not well managed. What right did Yang Zheng have to accuse Shen Mingbao?
As a woman, Shen Mingbao is the best in life. In her work, she works diligently, with a big belly and still works hard, reflecting the value of women in her workplace.
In family life, she is a good daughter-in-law, a good sister-in-law, but also a good daughter and a good wife, but she forgot to love herself.
For this family, Shen Mingbao paid too much.
It's just a pity that Yang Zheng didn't see the efforts and hardships behind his wife. It is really difficult to imagine that after giving birth to a child, Shen Mingbao will face a person with two babies, as well as a widowed husband and father.
This society is too difficult for women.
Because of the fit and union, such a marriage of interests will naturally be full of holes.
To end with Mr. Yang Dai's words: The best feng shui for a family is to smell the fragrance of books, hear quiet, and see calmness.