If you always rely on yelling to educate your children, then please read it several times, the effect is amazing!

This article is for parents who are busy with life and can't help but lose their temper.

Modern people's life pressure is very large, if you encounter children disobedience, mischievous and mischievous people have a headache, parents are really difficult to control their temper.

However, if the child only makes a small mistake, it is recommended that parents still control their emotions, try not to lose their temper, and can solve it through communication. Because parents often lose their tempers, the harm to their children is very large.

Moreover, parents often lose their temper, and the adverse effects on their children are lifelong.

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Affect your child's future

Parents often lose their temper, which will make the child learn this wrong way to solve the problem. Because the most direct way for children to learn is to observe and imitate the people around them.

If parents always lose their temper at home, children living in this environment will gradually become tantrums, and use tantrums to solve problems encountered in life and work.

However, tantrums will not solve the problem at all, and it will also make the people around you feel annoying and affect the harmony of interpersonal relationships.

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Affects parent-child relationships and family happiness

Parents lose their temper with their children for a long time, which can easily lead to the deterioration of parent-child relationships, and will make children form a negative psychology of self-denial, and even affect the child's ability to establish intimate relationships with others in the future.

In the face of parents' bad emotions for a long time, some children will doubt whether they are biological, some children will want to run away from home, and some children will hate or even hate their parents. Some children will blame themselves, form a negative self-evaluation, and produce inferiority complex.

Subconsciously, such children will think, "I always do something wrong to make my mother unhappy." My mother didn't like me, and no one else would like me. I'm redundant. "The bad temper of parents will unconsciously cause long-term psychological shadows on children.

Parents often lose their temper, and the harm to their children is really too great. Therefore, we must learn to control our emotions and not always lose our temper with our children.

Or you can read the following article

"Lead a snail for a walk"

God gave me a task,

Tell me to take a snail for a walk.

I can't go too fast, the snail has tried its best to climb,

Why is it always a little bit every time?

I urge it, I bluff it, I blame it.

The snail looked at me with apologetic eyes,

It's as if to say, "People have tried their best!"

I pulled it, I pulled it, I even wanted to kick it.

The snail was wounded, it was sweating,

Gasping for breath and climbing forward...

It's weird.

Why did God tell me to take a snail for a walk?

"O God! Why?"

The sky was silent.

"Alas! Maybe God caught the snail and went!"

All right! Let go!

Anyway, God doesn't care, what else do I care?

Let the snail climb forward, and I sulk in the back.

Hey? I smell the flowers,

It turns out that there is a garden over here.

I feel the breeze,

It turned out that the breeze in the night was so gentle.

Slow down!

I hear birds chirping, I hear insects chirping.

I saw how bright the stars were in the sky!

Hey? How come I didn't have such a delicate experience before?

I suddenly remembered, could I be wrong?

It was God who told a snail to take me for a walk.

educating children,

It's like taking a snail for a walk.

With children,

Through his childhood and youth,

Although there are times when you are mad and lose patience,

However, the child is unconsciously,

Shows us the first and most beautiful aspects of life.

The child's vision is frank,

The child's perspective is unique,

Why don't parents slow down,

Put your own subjective thoughts aside,

Accompany the child to quietly taste the taste of life,

Listen to the echo of the child's inner voice in the world,

Give yourself a little time,

Sticking your head out of your endless life,

Among them, it is not only children.

Children are the loveliest people we have ever seen in the world.

This article is sent to all busy lives,

Moms and dads who can't help but lose their temper.

Don't let your child become a snail in tears.

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