Relevant personnel abroad have analyzed the postpartum physical condition of women. The conclusion shows that the cells of the postpartum female body will enter a period of rapid aging.
When Little Candy went to kindergarten, Sugar Mom often went to pick her up from school. At first, I liked to chat with other parents, but then I didn't dare to open my mouth easily. Because when you see a lady, you can't guess whether she is a mother or a grandmother and a grandmother.
I have to say that after women become a family and have a baby, the image difference is still very large. Some people are still like girls after 40 years old, and some people are less than 40 years old, but they are like the grandmother of children.
What woman does not want to be praised by others, if it is said to be young, of course, it is very happy, if it has the same experience as the following mother, it is really "heart-wrenching".
"Bully" Bao Mom picked up the baby from school and was treated as the child's grandmother
It is very common for parents to chat while waiting for their babies, but some conversations are very pleasant, and some conversations will make each other very embarrassed. Recently, a second-born mother looked at the camera and complained about her embarrassing encounter.
Bao Mom went to pick up the child at the entrance of the kindergarten, and during the waiting process, a parent in her 50s greeted her: "You also came to pick up your grandson"? After Bao Mom denied that she was the child's grandmother, the other party also "repaired the knife" and said: "You originally looked fifty or sixty years old."
Hearing the other party's firm evaluation, Bao Ma was devastated and began to count her outfits one by one in front of the camera.
Spent 500 yuan to perm the "overbearing president" hairstyle, the jacket is worth 1,000 yuan, pants and shoes are not bargains, and the whole body is dressed up carefully.
Bao Mom really can't figure it out, she is treated as the child's grandmother, what is the problem? He even said that if he didn't believe it, he could take out his ID card and prove that he was really less than 40 years old.
What has happened to the mother who is regarded as the "child's grandmother"?
In recent years, with the opening of the second and third births, there are indeed many women who have children at an advanced age, and they do look different from young mothers. However, some women are not old and baby-friendly, and they also appear to be very old.
Many people have said in the comments that this second-born mother has sagging corners of her eyes and nasolabial lines, and she really does not look like a person in her thirties, and she cannot blame others for looking at it wrong. But Sugar Mom feels that these comments are not fair to Bao Mom.
1) Giving birth to a baby will accelerate female aging
Studies at Northwestern University and the University of Washington show that every time a woman becomes pregnant and gives birth, cells age at an accelerated rate of 0.5 to 2 years. If postpartum recovery is not good, aging will be more severe.
This mother already has two babies, and others only see her "old", but the hardships and fatigue of her pregnancy, childbirth, and baby-bearing process are not seen by outsiders. Misunderstandings are inevitable, but there is no need to mock Bao Ma.
2) I am very busy at home and outside the home, and I can't take care of myself
This mother usually has to be busy with the affairs of two children, and she has a career of her own, to deal with various problems of the company, and she is in a state of anxiety every day, so busy that she has no time to take care of herself.
Remember that before everyone said that they were "tired and ugly", presumably this mother is really tired, so it is easy to be misunderstood in the image.
3) Have a relationship with your husband at home
It is often said that women will become more and more beautiful when they marry happily, and it will become ugly after a hard life, is this mother not happy? In fact, there are special circumstances.
Sugar Mom found an interesting thing, Bao Mom complained that the reason why she has not paid attention to the image problem, but also has some relationship with her husband. Because her husband often exaggerates her too beautiful, it causes her not to pay attention to the image, nor to think about things such as weight loss.
With this experience, Bao Mom realized her image problem, in addition to getting dressed, she spent thousands of yuan to buy skin care products, prepare to lose weight, and vowed to become more beautiful.
Don't give up becoming beautiful after being a mother, start from small details and change
This second-born mother, compared with the 36-year-old lady who was promoted to grandma the other day, really left a different impression. But Sugar Mom, as a person who came over, deeply felt that she had done a good job.
Parents who regularly pick up their children from school will know that many parents in their 20s at the entrance of the kindergarten will wear pajamas sloppily, without combing their hair or makeup. Although this mother is not young, she is well dressed, which shows that she also pays attention to the image.
In fact, this mother is not very old, and realized that she should take good skin care, which is the beginning of becoming beautiful. Just need to change a more refreshing hairstyle, and then change into some colored clothes, reduce the dullness, is a very normal image of 30+ women, not easy to be misunderstood.
I hope that Bao Mom will not be grumpy about the evaluation of others, it is important to become beautiful, but you can't completely lose yourself, because other people's words change and affect life.
Candy Mother's Heart:
For children, young mothers will be very happy to pick themselves up in kindergarten, but their mother's personality and education methods are more important. This second-born mother has a cheerful personality, takes care of the family and will make money, and will also feel happy as her child
【Today's topic】Have you ever had a similar experience?