The "two-child" policy has just landed, and parents have responded positively, however, after a period of time, there are fewer parents who want to have a second child, and now, they will open the "three-child" policy, and there are very few parents who respond positively.
The reason for this may be found from the personal experience of the second-child mother, such as the second-born mother, who posted the sad things she encountered on the Internet, and it made people want to laugh and feel heartbroken.
The mother of the second child was sad and carefully dressed up to pick up the baby, but was mistaken for "grandma"
With the prevalence of "late marriage and late childbearing", more and more "older mothers" appear at the entrance of the campus, after all, many mothers have ambitions, thinking of taking advantage of their youth to study more, improve their academic qualifications to find a good job, and provide a good education for their children in the future.
Double reduction policy landing, the era of "spelling mother" has come, highly educated parents, relatively dominant, in this case, it is estimated that women who want to baby, age may be older.
This is the case of a second-born mother in Sichuan, when she was young, through hard work to enter the university, graduated to find a high-income job, gave birth to a second child at the age of 35, the second child went to school, the age is close to 40 years old, and the appearance naturally has not changed much.
In order not to embarrass the baby, the baby is bound to be carefully dressed up after school, this day as usual to pick up the baby, but unexpectedly, an older man, said to her: "You are also here to pick up your grandson? ”
The second-born mother's heart is angry, sending a video on the Internet to complain, the more she says the more heartbroken, "500 yuan permed domineering president hair, 1000 yuan brand-name coat, pants 280, shoes 780, the face is also used in big-name skin care products, it was so hit."
Netizens commented on the laughter of the crowd, the clothes of the elderly are so expensive? Even doubting its real age, I had no choice but to take out my ID card, and some parents looked at it and bluntly said that they did not want a second child.
After becoming a mother, there are obviously more things to worry about, educating two babies, laborious and laborious, education problems make many parents headaches, but also take into account the students' self-esteem, older parents can be too difficult.
However, the mother of the three children, Peng Siying, is difficult to see too many traces of the years, the three children are very well educated, and the education method of the father Sun Haiyang is sought after by many parents.
The "model of three children" Sun Haiyang's family and Peng Siying's beauty is as beautiful as a flower, forming a sharp contrast
Peng Siying, the mother of the third child, since Sun Zhuo found it, she has become more and more energetic, and she loves to smile, looking beautiful as a flower, which is in stark contrast to the parent of the second child.
The three children are excellent, the eldest Sun Yue, returned from overseas study, double non-landing graduate students, and now to become a primary school teacher, sunny and cheerful personality, high IQ, high emotional intelligence.
The second eldest Sun Zhuo, after returning to his biological parents, was also educated more and more diligently, smiled more, and Shenzhen has high-quality educational resources, I believe that the future academic performance will be higher.
The third Sun Hui, don't look a little naughty, do housework, not sloppy at all, very fond of his brother Sun Zhuo, educating three children, need the mother to pay more effort, however, from childhood to be educated out of good quality, and good learning habits, and living habits, obviously, after growing up can worry less about dim sum.
There is also a very realistic reason, when Peng Siying had the second eldest, the age was not small, when looking for Sun Zhuo, with three children, she had more heart to worry about, and still had such a mental outlook, it seems that there is no small relationship with the mentality.
Of course, it has a lot to do with the natural appearance, but whether it is beautiful as a flower, or carefully dressed up and mistaken for a grandmother, parents do not need to pay too much attention, as long as they educate excellent children, why should they care about what others say.
Through the comparison of the second-born mother and the third-born mother, whether you can educate an excellent baby, although there is a relationship with academic qualifications, but the relationship is not very large, Peng Siying's academic qualifications, not as high as the second-born mother, but can educate such an excellent three babies, it can be seen that do not always feel that you improve your academic qualifications, you must be able to educate the next generation, there is no absolute in everything.