Wen / Love Sister
Yesterday a male reader consulted about emotional issues and said that his girlfriend had broken up with him and that he wanted to save the girl.
After listening to their stories, Ai Jie really felt that the girl's breakup with him was the most correct choice.
Girls really like him, and with him is also dead hearted, will often spend a lot of thought, she helps boys brush shoes, wash clothes, save money to buy his favorite sneakers, skin.
Unfortunately, the boy just looks handsome, and his bones are still quite scummy. For the girl's heart, he is not invisible, but he does not cherish it, and he is never willing to spend time dealing with this feeling.
This breakup, is the girl's birthday want a mobile phone, the result he said: want 4300! Too expensive! This money can buy a daughter-in-law in Vietnam!
Then the girlfriend said: Okay, then you go buy it.
In fact, the girl's home conditions are very good, she is not short of money for this mobile phone, may just want to see her position in the other party's heart, but the result is that the boy is such a performance.
However, with the attitude of helping him solve the problem, I helped him make a few suggestions, hoping that he could care more about the girl, do more things to her, and save the girl's heart.
But as a result, the boy directly replied: Forget it, it is so troublesome. Having a girlfriend is also very troublesome, it is useless, I think about it.
And then they deleted me, deleted... ???
Sister Ai really wanted to ask him: What is the use of you wanting a girlfriend?
In fact, speaking of which, it is not the first time I have heard such a thing:
Now girls do this, there are many requirements, a girlfriend is the same as an ancestor, in addition to spending money for gifts, what is the use? Who is single and free!
Today, AiJie wants to listen to boys with girlfriends to talk about: What is the biggest use of girlfriends in the eyes of boys?
Maybe you'll have a different idea.
1
My girlfriend is a panacea!
The cooking was super tasty, especially tidying up the room, the washed clothes were always fragrant and super clean.
I remember when I wasn't sure of a relationship, she once came to my house to raid and it turned out that my room was messy like a pig's nest...
I thought my girlfriend was going to walk away in disgust, but she actually took a large basin of water out of the bathroom, rolled up her sleeves and started cleaning.
Then I saw the messy room look brand new under her manipulations. I swear, I never thought my room could be so clean!
It is also true that after the room is cleaned, it feels like the whole person is full of strength and hope.
After living with my girlfriend, under her instruction, I learned many strange cleaning tips: for example, a plastic bag on a broom can sweep the hair, a baking soda to clean the washing machine, how to fold the crumpled shirt neatly...
But I think that the biggest use of a girlfriend is not this, but the feeling of being with her, that kind of steadfastness and peace of mind.
She made me understand the meaning of home and belonging. Thinking of her, a restless heart can be quieted in an instant.
Even if my work is not smooth, there are many setbacks in life, and the ordinary is almost a failure, but I can still be her hero, protect her, as long as she is there, I will not be afraid when it is difficult.
So, even if my girlfriend can't cook and wash clothes and tidy up the room at all, it doesn't affect my love for her.
2
My girlfriend's biggest role is probably to help me spend money.
A proper money crusher, a shoe bag lipstick cosmetics new coat, a beauty salon playground cinema tourist attractions... How can girls have so many places to spend money?
However, with her, my whole person is also much more exquisite, I will never be called "uncle" when I go out again, and a few days ago, there were teenagers who called me "classmate"!
This may also be the meaning of the existence of girlfriends.
3
I have long thought that when I have a girlfriend, I will spoil her well, and sprinkle sugar from time to time to show my love.
Double the dog food they ate in those years as a single dog.
Seeing their envy and jealousy, I don't want to mention how cool it is!
I am not afraid to see other couples on the street sweet and sweet!
- Who doesn't have a girlfriend yet?
Isn't that the biggest role a girlfriend does?
4
As a boy, it seems to be a shameful thing to like to drink milk tea and eat snacks in the mall.
Not embarrassed at all when single.
It's good to have a girlfriend, I can buy all kinds of snack packages in her name, she said to lose weight, then I will help her digest it!
Usually accompany her shopping, she drinks at most half a cup of milk tea, I can drink a cup and a half!
Flattered......
5
When I was single, I was bored, and boys had no other pastime except playing games and ball.
But with a girlfriend, there are a lot of fun places.
Watching movies, doing nails with her, doing some couple crafts, visiting the playground...
I know a lot of interesting things, and I feel that my whole life is colorful...
And at any time, there are people who are willing to listen to you talk about a bunch of nonsense.
When I was sad, when I saw her smiling face, I felt healed...
That's why boys who have been in a relationship once don't want to live the life of a single dog anymore, the gap is too big!
Some people may think that love is too utilitarian, and if you talk about love with the idea of what kind of benefits love can bring you, you will be disappointed.
Just want to get the other person's good, but do not want to give, this is not called love, this is called love.
No one would ever be so selfless (stupid).
There is a lyric that says: Some people can't say what is good, but no one can replace it.
One day, you meet a person, you can't say what use she is, but you just like to stay with her, after meeting her, you have never liked other girls, this is the girlfriend.
Click [in the watch], I hope you can all meet such a person as soon as possible.
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