The wedding is the beginning of marriage, but also the most sacred and desirable moment, many people look forward to that day, they will become the most handsome man or the most beautiful woman in the world, this is a solemn oath, representing that both parties will spend the rest of their lives together in the second half of their lives, which will be the beginning of a happy journey.
But then again, even if you are married, it is normal for there to be contradictions between husband and wife, but to solve the marriage problem should also pay attention to the location of the occasion, from the perspective of ordinary people, we will choose to negotiate with each other privately to solve, and if there is a desperate quarrel in public, this is enough to show that the relationship between the two parties has completely dropped to the freezing point, and the relationship between the two parties may be difficult to repair.
A couple is holding a wedding, which was supposed to be the happiest and most memorable moment in a person's life, but the two had a fierce argument in public at the wedding table, and the bride threw flowers on the groom, angrily said "I am not married", and then turned away despite the attention of many guests.
This scene was filmed and spread to the Internet, causing a lot of netizens to discuss, some people think that the bride is too willful, in such an important occasion to say that it is not tied to the knot, marriage is like a child's play, there is no sense of awe, of course, there are also people who say that the whole picture of the unknown thing, it is not good to comment, after all, the bride can certainly not be mad at the wedding for no reason.
Combined with relevant reports and the disclosure of insiders, it is said that the couple met through blind dates, from the realization that the wedding time together is actually less than a month, it can be said that this is a relatively hasty wedding, both sides lack the necessary understanding.
Of course, since both parties have the intention to get married, both men and women have also finalized the matter of marriage, the woman's relatives said that there are relevant marriage customs in their hometown, on the wedding day, the man's parents should give the daughter-in-law who enters the door a red envelope, do not care about the amount, mainly to please a lottery.
I don't know if it is because the man's parents are busy forgetting or for other reasons, on the wedding day, before the wedding, the bride reminded the man about this, but the man's parents did not give the bride a red envelope, until the wedding ceremony is almost over, the bride really can't help it, so she mentioned the matter to the groom again on the stage, asking why the other party did not receive the red packet from the man's parents, hoping to get the groom's attention and get a proper solution.
This question may not be a big deal in the bride's view, but the groom seems to think that the wedding is not over, the bride stands on the stage and "challenges" him so much, it is simply to lose face for him, the two directly quarreled on the wedding table for this small matter, and the groom angrily asked the bride" "Do you want to get married?" ”
Empathetic thinking, I believe that no matter who was asked by the groom in that scene at that time, the heart must also be full of resignation and anger, the bride is also cheerfully responding that it is not knotted, no big deal, the more quarrelsome the two are, the more fierce, the groom in anger actually casually threw out a sentence "Your family is here to deceive us about the bride price, right?" ”
The groom's words completely angered the bride, thinking that the woman's personality was insulted and trampled, directly leading to the bride throwing flowers on the groom on the spot, before turning to leave, the bride clearly said to the groom that she would not marry, as for the bride price, she would return to the man without any trouble, and would not have any thoughts about the bride price, and the groom finally only coldly replied "do as you please" on the stage.
The sudden departure of the bride made the guests present also see the play, the original lively wedding has become a farce, everyone has no previous festive atmosphere, many people have left after a hurried meal, the man's parents are also angry after learning of their son's impulsive performance on the stage, and have severely criticized the son, but this criticism is too late, obviously unable to save the feelings and marriage of both sides.
At the wedding, I believe that no one wants to see, the original big day, even if the two sides have some kind of disagreement, they should wait until after the wedding to discuss, not to mention, looking at the before and after this matter, in fact, it is not big, said small is not small, it lies entirely in how the parties on both sides look at and resolve.
The bride begging for a red envelope is not only a custom, but also represents the importance of the man to himself, the bride did not get the attention it deserves before the wedding began, and the wedding was reprimanded again, and a small thing became the last straw that crushed the marriage of the two people.
The occurrence of this matter has an accident, there is also a certain inevitability, the two people know each other, there is no deep understanding between each other, this is the biggest fundamental reason for the inevitability of this matter, I believe that if the two have a deep understanding and establish deep feelings, then the groom will definitely pay attention to the reasonable requirements of the bride, will not ignore it, and will not be angry on the spot, therefore, from the groom's series of performances, it is difficult to make people feel his love and tolerance for the newlywed wife.
Since the two have come to the wedding, it means that each other will be their partners for the rest of their lives, both parties should understand each other's requirements, respect each other's personality, so angry at the bride's reasonable demands at the wedding, and even say the bride's angry words about the bride's dowry, these childish behaviors are all declaring that the groom does not know how to deal with the contradictions between husband and wife.
Both sides need face, there are differences between husband and wife, private consultation and settlement is easier to get rid of the constraints of face, no matter what, they need to manage their emotions in front of the public, unprovoked anger will only hurt the feelings of the two, actively respond to the bride's demands, smile to deal with the bride's dissatisfaction, is a mature man who enters the marriage should do.
Marriage needs to be understood and respected by husband and wife, marriage means that we can not continue to be naïve and wanton, our emotions need to take into account each other's feelings, consider the problem needs to be more thorough and rational, the happiness of marriage needs to tolerate a lot of tolerance and business skills, and the destruction of it only needs a bad word of June cold, some words even to the lips should know how to swallow, so that these hurtful words can no longer blurt out, in order to keep the happiness of a marriage.
Do you think it is appropriate for a bride to ask the groom for a red envelope in public at a wedding? What do you think of the groom's angry words and deeds on the wedding stage? Welcome to leave a message to discuss, thank you!
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