It is said that a girl marrying someone is the second reincarnation, marrying a good man can be happy for a lifetime, marrying a bad man will be painful for a lifetime.
Marriage is not about falling in love, falling in love is a matter of two people, and getting married is a matter of two families, so a girl who gets married must not only pick the character of the boy, but also look at how his original family is.
Some people will think that as long as the husband is good, it doesn't matter if the mother-in-law is good or not, anyway, don't live with her, but a good mother-in-law can make your little life happy and sweet, and a mother-in-law who is not easy to get along with may make your little family jump.
Therefore, when a girl marries, she must not only look at the quality of her husband, but also look at the behavior of her mother-in-law.
On February 24, Anhui, a woman was waiting for delivery in the hospital, and her mother-in-law came to her delivery room and saw a bouquet of flowers on a table in the next bed, so she gave her son a look when she went to the toilet.
According to informed netizens, this woman is born a second child, and these days in the hospital to give birth are husbands and mothers-in-law taking turns to serve. The mother-in-law is very attentive, going back and forth between home and the hospital every day, bringing food and clothing to the woman.
The mother-in-law is a person who comes over, and knows that it is very hard for a woman to give birth to a child, so since the daughter-in-law is pregnant, she has been carefully waiting for and taking care of her, for fear of a little mistake. The woman is also very grateful to her mother-in-law and feels that she is lucky to meet such a good mother-in-law.
On the day the woman gave birth, the mother-in-law rushed from home to the hospital, entered the delivery room, and saw a bouquet of flowers on a table in the next bed. The next bed was also a pregnant woman with a second child, who had only been here for two days, and her family bought her a bouquet of flowers to put on the bedside table.
The mother-in-law saw it, put down the things in her hand, and when the daughter-in-law went to the bathroom, she gave her son a look, and the son understood. Two hours later, mother and son sent the woman to the delivery room to give birth, and the son went out.
After a while, the son returned, holding a bouquet of flowers in his hand, standing outside the door of the delivery room waiting for the woman. The mother-in-law saw it and looked at her son with appreciative eyes, and the son also threw a grateful look at his mother.
The mother-in-law was really attentive, and when she saw flowers in the next bed, she immediately asked her son to prepare flowers, so that the daughter-in-law would not feel a sense of loss in her heart. They are all second-born mothers, and they have been cared for and blessed by their families, and they will not make the mother feel sad and feel that she is not valued.
After netizens saw it, they also left messages to praise this mother-in-law, sighing: This is a loving family, worthy of praise.
Some netizens said that their mother-in-law attaches great importance to money, let alone flowers, and even better supplements are reluctant to buy for her, for fear of spending money indiscriminately.
Some netizens said that their mother-in-law was also very good to themselves, and when they gave birth to a child, confinement cooked very well, did not let her be angry, and thanked themselves for meeting a good mother-in-law.
Some netizens said that no one lacks a bouquet of flowers, but is treated kindly, valued, respected, and treated as the warmth of a family. The woman was lucky to meet her mother-in-law and husband, who cherished her.
Some netizens believe that good mothers-in-law appear in douyin or TV series, in fact, more to understand each other.
This mother-in-law is really good, considering things very thoughtfully and carefully, not letting her daughter-in-law envy other women, treating her daughter-in-law as a daughter, understanding and treating her daughter-in-law well.
Many people think that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very difficult, in fact, it is because they do not treat each other as their own people, and from the beginning they have a preconceived impression that their mother-in-law is not good, or that their daughter-in-law is difficult to serve, and they have never thought of getting along with each other well.
If the mother-in-law treats the daughter-in-law who has just married the door, the daughter-in-law will also treat the mother-in-law well. The daughter-in-law respects the mother-in-law from the beginning, and the mother-in-law will also attach importance to the daughter-in-law.
A good family relationship needs to be managed by everyone, only by understanding each other and embracing each other can we make the family happy, the husband and wife harmonious, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law harmonious.