Reporter street follow-up girl: Are you willing to marry a 40-year-old uncle with an annual salary of one million? The answer is obvious!
Some girls answered directly and crisply, willingly, as long as the other party gave me money to spend!
Some girls answered more euphemistically, as long as the other party is good to themselves, it doesn't matter if they are uncles. Of course, how can you be kind to yourself? Is it to give money or to give feelings? There is no explicit statement.
Some girls answered more hesitantly, with an ambiguous attitude, and only said to look at fate.
Only one girl replied directly that she was unwilling, on the grounds that she could earn money and didn't need to be raised by her uncle, well, I hope she is telling the truth.
When a girl marries, the first thing to consider is the age or income of the other party. Street follow-up can still ask the truth, after all, people subconsciously answer when they are not prepared, which is often the truth.
In fact, this question itself carries a pit, because the conditions set by the questioner, one is an annual salary of one million, the other is 40 years old, one money is an age, in the contradiction of choosing one of the two, let the girls choose their own, no matter how the girls answer, they are different from reality.
For example, if two people really have feelings together, this kind of question will make the girl feel suspicious of worshiping gold.
Therefore, it is a pity that the questioner does not mention the most important feelings in marriage, which also reflects the embarrassment of the current Chinese marriage from the side: more like a combination of interests, and has nothing to do with feelings.
So how is the 40-year-old uncle with an annual salary of millions in the marriage market?
Take the people around me as an example, I have a small boss in his 40s, who earns a lot a year, and after divorcing his ex-wife, he quickly married a post-90s young wife who is more than ten years younger than himself, and now life is still very sweet.
And one of my aunt's nephews, this year is also more than 40 years old, perennial work in the provincial capital city, no savings, so far in order to marry his daughter-in-law in order to earn a down payment on the house, because there is no house of their own, even with the woman's blind date is not qualified.
Therefore, the answer is more obvious, if an uncle, really earns millions a year, at any time has the ability to marry a wife of the next generation, even if many normal girls are not willing to marry an old man who is older than themselves, it does not prevent many girls who are poor and love the rich from lining up to marry him, and the facts have proved.
Don't say that the old and young in the marriage, let's say that two couples of about the same age, to the step of talking about marriage and marriage, is also the house car bride price can not be less, all down there is no million can not stop, even if there is affection between them, it is easy to be forced to break up because the man can not meet the needs of the woman's family.
And a 40-year-old uncle with an annual salary of one million will easily meet the woman's requirements and make a relatively high appearance.
From this street visit, we can glimpse two points of information:
1, Chinese-style marriage, more based on realistic considerations, both the possibility of interest union than feelings, walking together, the man in order to continue the incense, passed on from generation to generation, and the woman more for the second half of life without worry, this is a very realistic need, compared to the feelings appear to be illusory. As long as a man has money, there is no shortage of beautiful female companions of any age, and if there is no money, it will be difficult to get married.
2, although girls believe more in feelings, but behind the conversion of feelings, is the need for security and belonging. Women are a naturally weak party, relying on their own efforts to have the same social resources as men, this reality forces many girls to take shortcuts, after all, the wise should borrow power. And the sense of security and belonging, not only feelings can be given, money can also be given, and feelings are subjective, illusory, may be lost at any time, far from the sense of security brought by money.
Although the fact of worshiping gold exists, this concept of marriage that is not brought together for the sake of feelings is not solid, after all, if you do not take the heart, it is easy to lose what you get.
Only when the true feelings are always there, the marriage can be harmonious and long-lasting, as for money, you can rely on two people to work hard together, and what you earn is always more solid than what you have drawn.