In fact, having children will reveal a lot of embarrassment for some women, after all, before giving birth to children and after giving birth to children are completely two ways of life. After giving birth, women will do their best for their children. However, in the process, your body will also become very difficult, especially in the three days after childbirth, you will do a lot of shy things.
Xiao Liu and her husband are very affectionate, but after giving birth to a child, Xiao Liu's husband has undergone a series of changes. Now it is exactly the second day after Xiao Liu gave birth to a child, because giving birth to a child is a very torturous thing for Xiao Liu, so his physique has not been very good. The main thing is that during this time, I always feel some weakness, so I will often sweat a little.
So on the night of this day, Xiao Liu said to her husband: "Can you help me wipe my back, I am sweating." But at this time, a sentence spoken by Xiao Liu's husband made Xiao Liu instantly feel that there was no love.
Only to see Xiao Liu's husband said: "You are such a big person, can't you wipe your back yourself?" You still need my help in this matter, and you are really not ashamed. Hearing her husband say this about himself, Xiao Liu suddenly changed his face. Xiao Liu really did not expect her husband to say such a thing, and she suddenly felt that her husband did not love herself.
In fact, women will definitely do some shy things in the three days after giving birth, although it seems to be more embarrassing, but Bao Dad also needs to do all this for the mother, only in this way can we prove mutual love.
So three days after giving birth, what should Bao Dad do for the mother?
After giving birth, women will always show a weak look because of the constant changes in body hormones and their physical and mental exhaustion. At this time, the most likely situation for pregnant women is that the body will sweat, especially when breastfeeding, it is the most likely to occur.
Therefore, at this time, the mother needs to wipe the sweat, only in this way can we ensure that there are no problems with her body. So at this time, it is time to test Bao Dad's technique, although these things sound quite embarrassing, but there are some things that must be done. If the mother has been sweating, it is easy to catch a cold and fever, which is certainly not helpful for her body.
Whether it is a vaginal birth or a caesarean section, they need to disinfect their genitals. All this is because there will be a lot of lochia after giving birth, and some women simply can't watch such a picture.
Of course, some mothers will choose to let their mothers deal with this matter, but Bao Dad must not feel that this matter is more embarrassing, and should take the initiative to help Bao Mom clean up her private parts, and then carry out corresponding nursing. Although it sounds embarrassing, it can also show that Bao Dad is very competent.
After the three days of giving birth to a child, the mother's heart must be extremely tormented, whether it is emotional or physical, it will feel very uncomfortable. Especially for women who have a caesarean section, they also need to change the urinary belt or change the nursing pad, which is enough to make their mood very irritable.
So at this time, the most important thing bao dad should do is to take care of the mother, bao dad must not feel that he is unable to help the mother, if you always think so, then the mother will feel that the baby father does not love himself. At this time, the mother needs to be comforted by the heart, so the father must listen to every thought of the mother well, and hold the mother in his arms at all times, so that the mother's mood can be much better.
In addition, Bao Dad also needs to wash the underwear of the mother, although this matter seems to be more shy, but it should also do all this. Because the mother's body is relatively weak, it will often sweat, especially after giving birth to the child for three days, then the mother's underwear will often get wet.
If you often wear wet clothes, it will definitely make your body uncomfortable, so at this time, Bao Dad should take on the responsibility. Help the mother to take off all her clothes and put them in the washing machine to wash them well. In this way, the mother will feel very relaxed and feel very refreshed.
And Bao Dad should also be always with the mother's side, must be able to answer questions, and should also take good care of the mother's food, clothing and living, everything must be done to the extreme.
Therefore, for the mother, the three days after childbirth are very important, and at this time, it can test whether the father cares for his wife. Although sometimes you need to do something embarrassing, you must also do what you should do, only in this way can you show that Bao Dad is a competent person. Bao Dad should take on his due responsibilities, so that he can make the mother's mood better and at the same time help the recovery of the body.