Everyone does not have the opportunity to choose their own birth, and some people live in rich and noble families, and they are born with fine clothes and food. Some people live in poor families, have suffered a lot since childhood, and can only look at other peers with envy.
For parents, parents hope that their children can live a better life and hope to create better conditions for their children. So sometimes they will be very difficult, whether to choose to accompany the child, or choose to go out to work.
Especially for families with poor families, if they do not go out to work, with their economic conditions, it is difficult for their children to live a better life, and even need to worry about their children's tuition and living expenses. However, if you go out to work, your child needs to live with the elderly, and without the company of his parents, he will feel a little lonely inside.
6-year-old elementary school students cry in class for helpless reasons
In Zhoukou, Henan, Xiao Xu (pseudonym), a 6-year-old primary school student, cried in class, and after hearing Xiao Xu's crying, the teacher rushed to Xiao Xu and asked why Xiao Xu was crying.
Then Xiao Xu cried while saying that he missed his mother. And my mother went out to work.
In response to the problem of parents going out to work and causing Xiaoxu's parents to accompany them, Xiaoxu's teachers have also communicated with Xiaoxu's parents before, and Xiaoxu's teacher said that Xiaoxu's academic performance is very good, and he hopes that both parents can leave one to accompany the child.
After the communication of XiaoXu's teacher, Xiaoxu's mother accompanied Xiaoxu at home for half a semester, but now she has gone out to work again, which makes people feel helpless.
Teacher Xiaoxu also knows that the reason why Xiaoxu's parents chose to go out to work is nothing more than to earn more money and improve the economic conditions of the family. But if the child's childhood lacks the love and companionship of the parents, it is not a good thing for the child's growth.
Therefore, Teacher Xiaoxu still suggested that both parents should leave one to accompany Xiaoxu as much as possible, so that Xiaoxu can grow up healthily under the care of her parents. Avoid learning and mindset being greatly affected.
Netizen: Life is forced
After the video of Xiao Xu crying in class came out, netizens talked about it and felt a lot of emotions.
Many netizens have said that all this is forced by life. If it is not the poor economic conditions of the family, who wants to be separated from their children. However, this is life, it is difficult to have both, or to be with the child, but this period can be difficult. Either go out to work to earn money, but there is some cruelty for children.
Therefore, it is inevitable that some parents will choose to go out to work after a difficult choice, leave their children at home to be cared for by the elderly, and they will contact their children through mobile phones during off-hours to inquire about their children's recent situation. And that's the maximum they can do.
This part of the parents can only return home in advance on the eve of the Spring Festival every year to buy gifts, clothes, stationery, etc. for their children, and make up for their debts of not being with their children for a year in this way. And this time is also the happiest time for children, of course, not only because they can receive gifts, but more importantly, with their parents by their side, this kind of happiness of family reunion is irreplaceable by any gift.
Strengthen care and closer
For this part of the family, there is no right or wrong choice, after all, no matter what choice is made, there is a legitimate reason.
However, if you choose that both husband and wife go out to work, then we must strengthen the care and care for the child, so that he feels that even if his parents are not around, he has been caring for him and caring for him, so that his heart will be more secure, and he will not feel inferior because of the lack of father's love or maternal love.
On the other hand, because the parents are not around, so the child may be infected with some bad habits, in order to avoid the occurrence of similar situations, you should maintain continuous attention to the child, through communication to narrow the distance between the child, to gain the child's trust, so as to be able to nip some bad thoughts and behaviors in the bud.
In general, as parents, they don't want to be separated from their children, but sometimes they really have no choice and feel helpless.