Many boys don't know, in fact, there is a lot of reason for chasing girls. If boys can understand these truths before chasing girls, they can take a lot of detours to chase girls, so that you can easily chase after the girls you like. The following is for everyone to share the truth that chasing girls must understand, these are dry goods, I hope you can collect them.
1, the girl likes you before you allow you to chase her
Many girls don't find this problem themselves, and think that because you are good to her, she likes you. In fact, the truth is: she has a good feeling for you, which is why she gives you the opportunity to be good to her. Then, in the process of getting along, the good feeling gradually turned into a like.
Why do the people you like always reject you, how can not catch up, but others can catch up? Because she has no good feelings for you at all, others can catch up because the girl originally has a good feeling for him, and it is the girl who gives him a chance.
2, chasing girls has no start time and no end node
In fact, in the process of getting along between men and women, it is perfectly normal to promote the development of the relationship. From strangers to good friends, one person (or two people) pushes the relationship step by step, and the other person follows the relationship step by step. Then if you want to become a couple, continue to push the boat along the water and slowly advance to reach the relationship.
So the correct way to chase the girl is to boil the frog in warm water and slowly promote the relationship between the two. If she doesn't want to, you alone can't advance the relationship. For example, if you hate someone, will you be friends with them?
Do what you should do at each stage, step by step, step by step, you can say something appropriately, to guess her thoughts, and then proceed to the next step when it is related. What should I do at each stage? Can't reach the friendship relationship, you send her earthy love words, even if it is not such a way to pick up the stem, awkward or not? They are not good friends, come up and let her send you a selfie, who are you? Why should she send it to you?
3. Chasing girls should not be reduced to licking dogs
Licking the dog is to get a person's unlimited pay, and beyond their own range, smashing pots and selling iron is a small thing, more is an overdraft of the future, just to get a look back and smile. And how deeply I showed, how much I loved her, I could move the heavens to cry, and then said: Look, the sky is touched by me and it is raining.
If for a long time you have been proactively advancing the relationship to love, and the girl is still standing still, not receiving any active signals from her. For example, take the initiative to chat with you, take the initiative to find a topic in the chat, take the initiative to invite you to dinner, and take the initiative to call you out. Don't do anything you think you can advance the relationship, because if you do, you're really a junior licker.
4. Confession is the collection of troops by Mingjin
Are you thinking about how to confess after you like a girl? And it is true that there are many boys in reality who confess and then directly succeed together. So someone will tell you: the boy takes the initiative to confess, and does not lose people, in case of success is blood, unsuccessful but at least has worked hard, will not regret. In fact this is the ideal situation.
Boys like girls, girls like boys, for this situation, there is no big problem in not confessing, anyway, sooner or later in one piece. However, the girl does not like you, she rejects you, and the confession is more in the declaration of the end of the ambiguous relationship. Once two people were more or less ambiguous, some of the small sweetness of the past disappeared, and it was difficult for her to have an intimate little relationship with you again.
Because her rejection means not accepting you, if she has a little flirtation with you again, she will classify herself as a scumbag. And what girls do with you, there will be a little embarrassment. Even if you chase it later, it is not as natural and easy as before. So confession means more about ending the relationship: achieving together, not pulling down.
Emphasize one point: you must not fail to confess, naturally together, without anyone's confession, will make the love lack of commitment, will bring her a lot of insecurity, will doubt whether you are a scumbag. You can choose to make a formal, solemn, romantic confession after being together naturally.
The above is the truth that the girls who must be shared today and tomorrow, I hope that the boys will take a closer look, which is very helpful for you to chase the girls.