Now everyone is hard to get together for the New Year, looking for the excitement of going home for the New Year. But more and more people began to sigh that there was no taste of the year. It's not just us adults who feel this strongly. Even the little fart child said this, and I couldn't help but think, the times have developed, the material is rich, but where is the taste of the year.
After the Spring Festival, accompany the children to their hometown and pay respects to the elders. Many children get together and should be the happiest moment. But I looked back at the bear kids, all sitting there, playing games with their phones, watching anime and watching anime. Except for the occasional "haha" scream, most of them looked intently at their mobile phones and were silent. From this, I thought about the New Year's Eve when I was a child. People have to worry about the education of children now.
We were at that time for the New Year, it was hard to get together, you would chase after me to play games, put on new clothes, carefully hide your old money, buy a few story books as a reward for yourself. And now children, mobile phones have become the only playmate, whether it is a person at home, or with friends together, are like adults, each playing with their own mobile phones. Where there is still a taste of the New Year.
Because children can't control playing mobile games, many parents may have headaches. Especially in the city, the family is a child, and the parents have to go to work. Going to school, after school, even the teacher assigns homework, all on the mobile phone WeChat group. Coupled with the causes of the epidemic in the past two years, children also need mobile phones for online classes. It is impossible for a child not to touch a mobile phone. Some children are even masters of playing mobile games, and the two of us undergraduates are not good at what games, and the 9-year-old children know everything. Some people say that the post-80s are destroyed on the computer, the post-90s are destroyed on the tablet, and the post-zero is destroyed on the mobile phone.
The child's self-discipline check, it is difficult to find a balance between learning and playing, parents can not go all day long, just stare behind the child's ass to supervise, anyway, as long as it is home from work, every time I see her, it is in the silent game, often let me not hit a place, reprimand, scold, the child is scared to put down the mobile phone to stay like a wooden chicken, but also give me a surge in blood pressure, in her father's words is "do not play games, motherly filial piety, a game, chicken flying dog jump, the child playing games seriously affects the mother-child relationship."
Until one day, I saw a book recommended by Teacher Fan Deng, "While Playing, Growing." Scientific management, let video games help children". I can't help but have some understanding, and suddenly open the plug. In today's era of electronic product booming, if you ask parents, what is the biggest reason that affects their parent-child relationship? I'm afraid that most of the answers are games, and there are relatively few seemingly objective answers such as lack of time or too far away. Should video games be left with this pot? So, for children who love to play games, what can parents do in addition to blocking and reprimanding?
I am reminded of a philosopher who said that anything that appears has a reason for its existence. Everything has two sides, and there is nothing in the world that is useless. Playing is the nature of children, playing games is a double-edged sword, although it hurts the eyes and affects learning, it can indeed release the child's nature, exercise the child's reaction and hands-on ability, and also develop the child's intelligence very well. It can even be used as a tool to exercise a child's multiple abilities, a bridge of communication, a medium for understanding the world, a garden for innovation, a space for exploration and curiosity, and a training camp for people to experience good qualities such as concentration and perseverance.
In the book, Teacher Ye classifies the games very methodically, and these categories must be the essence of Teacher Ye's summary in many games. The gains that players will get under each category are well-founded. Such a large game world, how to choose the right game for children? There are many examples in the relevant game title books, the positive and negative, the common and the uncommon, are very detailed. In addition, to understand the child's personality type, but also to guide the child's growth is very important place, Teacher Ye is very creative, with the well-known "Journey to the West" role, telling the characteristics of different types of children, presumably this combination of creativity, but also thanks to Teacher Ye's game experience.