A good sister of mine, the mother of the younger son's classmate, when her husband cheated, in order to save the marriage and keep the family, she gave birth to a second child, but unfortunately in the end it was still strong to stay, she took two children alone, and worked hard in Shenzhen for more than ten years.
Last year to the statutory retirement age, she finally retired, but the son has just reached adulthood, but also need to continue to study in college, the daughter has just entered the first year of high school, the whole economic pressure is still large, the ex-husband's divorce began a few years, child support five thousand, is paid on time every month, these years are often broken. Because of the overall economic downturn, the ex-husband's business is not as brilliant as before, not to mention that after the three sons of the latter are normalized, they have another boy. It is more economically stretched.
Friends are good, soft-hearted, but also lazy to rip, are a person silently carry all, fortunately a pair of children are more obedient and sensible, the eldest son also got a scholarship in school, the daughter was admitted to a public high school. Friends work two jobs day and night, and it is difficult to fill the house every month.
This year just after the End of the Year, she wanted to hurry up and get a job, and then to maintain a good life, friends graduated from college, people also look young, temperament is also very quiet and elegant, the result, alas, she said to make a few phone calls, people heard about her age, they refused, she was devastated.
Fortunately, she also has a pension, although it is not high, less than three thousand, if this is not even that pension, then how good!
Sometimes think about it is really embarrassing, no wonder now young people are not willing to have children, more unwilling to have a second child, after the pressure of social competition is getting bigger and bigger, but also to delay retirement, the pressure of women will only rise, so the average woman, really do not dare to marry and have children, and dare not have a second child, a third child.
The original 51-year-old age, it is the time when the youth is rich, the body, energy, experience and other aspects, are good years to continue to work, but unfortunately, the general company, are rejected.
The good friend now plans that if she can't find a suitable job recently, it is better to go back to her hometown in Guiyang to find it, after all, her roots are there, and a group of classmates in her hometown are willing to help her get a second job. It's just that she doesn't give up on the children, especially worried about the little girls, although she can live in the school completely closed, there is always a little uneasiness.
Friends have always been office white-collar workers, and now they are even willing to condescend to the canteen to do chores, just this, alas, it is difficult to achieve their wishes!
Middle-aged women are really hard! Seeing my friends today, I can't help but think of our tomorrow...
