The family should avoid one party looking down on the other, or both sides look down on each other, in fact, whether they have money or no money, they must respect each other as guests, and the family must know the advance and retreat, and be able to move forward and backward freely.
First, don't just protect your own children
The two sides should treat each other's children as fairly as possible and as fair as possible, and they will be at peace, in addition, whether it is to cover up or protect the short, it is not advisable, since it is the children's relatives, do not divide you and me, both sides must be honest and sincere to treat each other's children as their own children, neither the phenomenon of pulling the frame nor the phenomenon of helping relatives, so as not to help. As long as the family can do its best to level a bowl of water, it is not only conducive to the happiness of the marriage between the children, but also conducive to the harmony of the relationship between the relatives and the family, if not, the relationship between the relatives and the family will be much worse than before, and the marriage of the children will still bear different degrees of negative effects.
Second, don't get too close
Walking between relatives should maintain a distance that is neither too far nor too close, if you go too close, the next step will not be the so-called far incense, but the so-called near smell. Getting too close to each other will trigger a series of chain reactions, not only will there be a variety of frictions, but also a variety of collisions. If the relatives and families can maintain an appropriate distance as always, the two sides can use the opportunity of occasional meetings to develop their strengths, but also can use the period of not seeing each other for a long time to avoid the shortcomings, whether the two sides and each other have different experiences or customs or different views, will not affect each other, the appropriate distance can either produce beauty, or can avoid ugliness. Relatives and families should practice mutual non-interference and non-interference with each other, and in the future, while taking care of each other, there will be no anxious conflicts.
Third, there should be no economic exchanges
If there is a need for proper emergency relief between relatives, it is not impossible to donate generously at the right time, but it is necessary to borrow and repay at the agreed time. If it is not an emergency, but to save the poor, it is best not to pay for the family, otherwise it is very likely that the money borrowed will go and never return, and in the end, if you want money, you will be hurt and angry, and if you don't want money, you will be broken, and you will either be in a dilemma or you will lose both. The exchanges between relatives and families need to be simplified and complicated, in fact, the relatives and families have not caused all kinds of irreconcilable contradictions, and then achieve long-term peace and quiet, which is undoubtedly an immeasurable contribution to the marital stability and harmony of the children.
Conclusion: In the face of matters related to children that should not be managed by relatives, do not take care of one thing, so that things that should not be managed by children will not be expanded, nor will they deteriorate into disputes between relatives.
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