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School is about to start, and the old mother's endurance in the depths of the water is about to reach its peak:
The baby is at home every day, and it really bothers my mother.
It is said that distance produces beauty, and I have already looked at each other and tired of looking at each other:
I "hit" three fights a week!
The situation at my girlfriend's house is not optimistic, and she came to complain to me:
When I was a child, I could watch him sleep for an hour, but now why is that cute child gone?
Just because, your baby went to elementary school!
The baby before the age of 6 is the absolute C position in the mother's heart.
Who knows, as soon as I went to elementary school, I immediately walked down the altar of my mother's heart, gradually fell out of favor, and gradually marginalized.
Once I entered the elementary school, it was as deep as the sea, and the doll was not cute since then.
So, how did the baby who went to elementary school become unlovable step by step?
01
Poor grades are angry mom
The good or bad grades after primary school are the first obstacles encountered in the parent-child relationship.
Raising a baby before the age of 6 is like raising a piglet,
As long as he eats, drinks, has fun and is happy, it is a sunny day for his parents.
After the age of 6, the baby is cultivated as a seed,
How to water does not sprout, it is simply a thunderbolt on a sunny day for parents.
Before the age of 6, I thought that my baby was a genius, and I was too smart to be smart anywhere, and I was simply a lucky parent who won the "grand prize".
The graffiti in the hand is a Picasso-like spark;
The soft mud squeezed at hand exudes the sculptural atmosphere of Rodin;
At the age of 1, you can count from 1 to 10, Tang poems are memorized, and the Three Character Classic is not a problem!
My baby is not the legendary "Chosen Baby", after all, I will bring my whole family to the altar of world celebrities in the future.
In the circle of friends, I click this every day-
But as soon as I went to elementary school, my baby's report card made me hear the sound of broken dreams.
The academic performance was suddenly high and low, and sometimes the difference was sparse, and the class teacher sent a "complaint" WeChat, telling me to grasp the baby's study tightly.
Oh，my god！
In the past, I felt that the baby designation was a fertile soil for the school bully, so why did it become a saline land of scum?
Say yes I took the "special prize", no matter how bad it is, it must be a "first and second prize", how to scratch out a "thank you for patronage"?
While urging the baby's study every day with a white face, he secretly inquired whether the Lanxiang Technical School could open a children's class.
I'm really worried that other babies will grow up eating meat, and their own babies can only drink a mouthful of leftover soup.
Xueba's mother smiles like a flower, and the mother of xueba has a total blood pressure.
Still in the circle of friends?
The old mothers were all drying their white hair, which had come out early.
What was once a little cuteness has become the biggest obstacle to the happiness of the old mother.
02
Write homework to put the love hurt
Not only is there a "seven-year itch" between husband and wife, but 7 years between mother and child is still a hurdle.
As soon as I went to elementary school, my mother's heart had only one sunny avenue: study well.
However, Eva's heart is full of crooked sheep's intestines: how to be lazy.
When she was still young, she heard the roar of the neighbors downstairs and scolded the child into tears.
I thought, how can there be such impatient and unqualified parents?!
Look back at the baby you built the building blocks:
Why can't such a cute child talk well?
As soon as I went to elementary school, I punched my face – I yelled louder than my neighbors!
From parent-child companionship to mother-child competition, you only need to go to primary school.
From having fun to losing both, you only need to help with your homework.
Putting the elephant in the refrigerator is a three-step step, and the child is carefully writing homework at the desk.
He has colorful things in his head, and there is no place for homework.
It's so easy to press the bull's head in front of the desk, he goes to the toilet, drinks water, is in a daze, picks his hands, cuts the eraser and can play over and over again!
Usually shouting at him a few times without a response, when doing homework, he has to stop and rub for half a day to return to the state.
It was not easy to "seriously" write for a while, when the mother's positive feeling picture was warm and comforting, he suddenly stood up and jumped up and said, "I am so tired, I want to rest for a while..."
It's bloody!
The advancement of education depends on "solidarity",
——It is all the old mother's "lion roar gong".
Accompanying children to write homework, just like Tang Monk taking the Eight Precepts of pigs to the Western Heavens to learn the scriptures,
All the way to supervise, all the way to teach, all the way to correction, Amitabha, really tired!
Sometimes I can't understand:
This is a little cute, this is clearly a little goblin sent by Heaven to torture me.
Before I was 6 years old, I also had a circle of friends who posted photos of my baby every day.
After elementary school, I almost posted photos of myself being gassed to death.
03
Grinding and rubbing is the most infuriating
When I was a child, my WeChat personality signature was: Lead a snail to a walk.
At that time, I thought he was really cute and explosive, and I wanted to be an old mother who knew education to be worthy of a baby.
As soon as I went to elementary school, I was eager to install this snail with a four-wheel drive turbocharged motor.
From free and loose, to having a primary school,
Every day is full of schedules, and time obviously doesn't feel like enough.
And Wa, like a superb inheritor of the grinding school, can rush me, the "old lady", to the room every day.
It was late at night after writing homework, but the child's power was not yet fully drained.
Catching up with the bed is like a lazy donkey grinding, and after going to bed like a tiger, it is not willing to go to the covenant of Zhou Gong.
It was easy for the two of them to stay up in bed until 11:30, and his side was no longer moving.
You thought tonight's victory was just around the corner, but suddenly he got up:
In the darkness, the chickens howled and said that they still had a homework and forgot to write it.
Every elementary school child has cultivated the kung fu of "not sleeping at night" and "not getting up in the morning".
It was so easy to wait for the prince to fall asleep, and he felt that he had just laid down and the alarm clock for breakfast had sounded.
Every morning, just to get a child out of bed consumes a woman's life's wisdom and beauty.
Getting up, washing, eating, a link can not be delayed and wrong, otherwise it is late.
The degree of mental exhaustion is comparable to that of a scientist sending a rocket to the sky!
The hands smashed on the old mother's heart minute by minute, but the baby was like a sloth slowly swallowing on the beach vacation.
It was hard to pull the baby out of the door, but he suddenly ran back, rushed into the toilet and said, There is a bubble of that can't be held back.
……
The easiest moment of the day is to send him to the school gate and walk home or to work at a brisk pace.
The soul returns to the shell, and the beauty produced by the distance makes me so intoxicated.
Thinking that tomorrow is another day of entanglement with the baby, my eyes suddenly went black.
04
The period of rebellion and mutual resentment is coming
As soon as they enter elementary school, the old mothers immediately usher in the second rebellious period of the baby: the rebellious period of the child.
From a small cute, directly into a small tiger.
The old mother's daily life wow, it is simply "companion like a companion tiger".
Every day is a scene of mutual hatred:
You think he's sloppy, he thinks you're nagging;
You think he is lazy, he thinks you are in charge;
You think his school bag is messy, he said the same goes for your computer desktop.
You said that you were about to die of anger at him, and he said disapprovingly, Oh, you can rest assured, I will help you buy a quick-acting heart-saving pill.
Every time at this time, I feel that the mother and child version of "The Farmer and the Snake" is being staged at home.
Since he was a child, he had worked hard to teach him to speak, but he did not expect to be bitten by his various sharp teeth now.
Last time, Wa used his mobile phone to send a circle of friends, and my father and I were actually divided into a group and blocked.
It saddened me all night!
Once in elementary school, the fun of raising a baby continues to decline, and the parent-child relationship plummets.
Parents also look at the baby is also a variety of unpleasant:
When he was a child, he went to eat noodles on his back, and the whole family thought" "Wow, so cute"!
Now, he was laughing and giggling at the noodles like this, and I rolled my eyes with his dad: "He's not a fool!" ”
Xiao Tiantian directly changed into a bull demon king, and the parents were in a hurry.
And you can't say, can't fight, can't touch, for fear of precocious he will run away from home again.
So, in order to balance my mindset, I replaced the phone screensaver with a photo of him when he was a child.
From time to time, I looked at the photos of him when he was a child on my mobile phone, and I was in tears.
Ah, how cute the baby was at that time—
The skin is tender, the voice is crisp, the mouth is sweet, and every day I look at my dear mother.
And now,
The skin is also rough, the flesh is also thick, and the good lai does not listen to the words, and only wants to escape from the "Five Elements Mountain".
Heaven, earth, who can give me back that little cuteness?
All kinds of shouting are useless, and you can only summon allies in the circle of friends.
Helplessly, the old mothers replied:
+1，+1，+1，+10086……
Although we are familiar with various parenting methods, it still does not prevent us from having this baby well.
So the old mothers finally have a new understanding of life:
Children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, don't let yourself be so bitter.
Later, everyone figured it out:
As the bottom of the chain of class contempt, elementary school parents:
Born to be a mother, you must endure,
If you can't stand it, you will become a benevolent!
You're not fixing a baby, it's yourself!
Although children may be getting less and less cute,
But the old mother has to be more sensible!
Raise a baby, let alone say how successful you want to train him,
As long as they can support themselves, abide by discipline and law, and do not add chaos to the country and society,
Sunny mentality, confident and frank, try your best, and accept any result;
We are successful old mothers!
Dedicated to parents and friends who have always been attentive and have been upset.
This article is purely true, if there are similarities,
Oh my God, I'm looking for an organization!
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Author: Ye Tingfeng, Master of Child Educational Psychology, Family Education Researcher, Reading Books, Cooking Tea, Bringing Dolls. Some of the pictures are from the Internet, and the copyright belongs to the original author.