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01. Preface
Home is a warm harbor, a breeding place for happiness, and a place where families stay together.
Having a home will make people feel that life has to rely on. If you have a home, you don't have to wander around, and your heart is solid. If you have a home, you will live with confidence.
Every family wants their family members to be happy and have a good economic foundation. The richer the family, the higher the quality of life.
Sun Qifeng said: "The prosperity and decline of family fortunes, the heavens cannot exercise their power, and people cannot exercise their power, but they themselves." ”
The prosperity of a family cannot be separated from any one member of the family.
Having a good economic foundation can make a family have better development, and at the same time, it can also allow family members to enjoy better living conditions.
The more harmonious the family relationship, the more they can work hard and unite with each other, then the family will develop better and better.
A family is always unable to get rid of poverty, can not get rich, often inseparable from these reasons:
02, family relations are not harmonious, always noisy and noisy
The relationship between family members can determine the atmosphere of a family.
The better a family develops, the more harmonious and friendly the relationship between family members must be.
Families that are always rich are often because the family relationship is not harmonious, the family members are not in harmony, and they are always jealous and calculating with each other.
The more discord between members of the family, the more difficult it is for the family to become rich.
With a harmonious family, the heart will be stable. This is one of the necessary conditions for achieving great things, and only when the rear is stable can we strategize and conquer the battlefield.
If there is a harmonious family relationship, there will be many sincere support from family members.
When a family is harmonious and united, the family can breed love and strength.
When the family is harmonious, on the road of struggle and running, the heart will be more motivated, and only then can we focus on completing what we want to do.
On the contrary, if the family relationship in a family is always not harmonious, then the members will be separated and estranged. Over time, the home will lose its warmth, and family members will not be able to help each other.
A good family relationship is conducive to personal development and also conducive to the development of a family.
03, the family's values are not correct, poor character
Whether a family develops well or not is inseparable from family values.
Good family values are not only conducive to the shaping of family members' character, but also conducive to the establishment of family style.
Sheng Molan in "Know It or Not" is the most favored daughter at home. She originally had good resources, but she did not manage her life well.
One of the most important reasons is that her mother's way of educating her has led to the deviation of her values.
She adopted a disgraceful way to achieve her goal of marrying into the high gate. This stemmed from her mother telling her that only by marrying high could she enjoy the glory and wealth in the future.
However, the high marriage makes her humble at heart, and she always plays tricks to get along with others. As a result, after she got married, she was looked down upon by her mother-in-law and snubbed by her husband.
The values of a family affect the lives of all members.
Good family values will help family members establish good character and achieve a better life. Bad family values will plunge family members into endless abysses.
In this way, a family's values are not correct and the education method is not correct, which will lead to poor character and development of family members.
If family members do not develop well, then a family will not be able to develop richly.
04, squander money, do not know how to manage the family economy
Money needs to be managed.
Whether a person is rich, if he is always spending money endlessly, then eventually he will eat more and more poorly. Similarly, a family that is rich also needs to know how to manage money.
If, in a family, family members do not know how to manage the family economy, always squander money, then in the end the fate of money and his family, will become more and more shallow.
Families that are really well developed know how to make money to make money, rather than using money to do unnecessary squandering.
A family that does not develop well is always unable to get rid of poverty, often because there are members of the family who waste money and squander money uncontrollably.
Or, some of the family members eat and eat lazily, sit and eat the mountain.
If a family wants to develop well, it must learn to save money for the family, and family members work together to accumulate wealth.
Family members, if they all know how to be diligent and thrifty, do not spend money indiscriminately. If you can have a certain amount of savings and use all the money on the blade, you will live a better and better life.
Life in the world, a tea and a meal is not easy to come by, and the degree of eating and wearing should not pursue luxury, but should pursue appropriateness. Reasonable spending money is more conducive to the development of the family.
05. Summary
If a family works together, loves, and works together, it will become richer and richer.
Marie Curie said: "The only true happiness in the world is that a family can work closely with each other." ”
A family, if it wants to be truly rich, actually needs each family member to divide and cooperate.
When a family is together, the division of labor is different, some will focus on making money, some will do a good job in the "logistics" of the family, and some will focus on learning.
A family should be considerate of each other, love each other, and strive for a goal. No one pulls back, does not covet pleasure, but can urge each other to improve, then the family will develop better and better.
If you want the family to become more and more harmonious, everyone must restrain their temper, do not seek personal gain for their own interests, but know how to unite and forge ahead.
In a family, every family member can understand etiquette and have good cultivation in order to have a better future.
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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychologist, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the Internet, a happy woman manager, who has focused on emotions, gender, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.