My sister often complained to us, saying that when the children were in kindergarten, they were sensible and well-behaved, and the kindergarten class teacher would call them to praise how obedient the children were. But as soon as the child returns home, his nature is immediately exposed, and every day he not only has unlimited energy to mischief, but also does not want to sleep during naps and late sleep, which makes the family exhausted.
As soon as this problem was mentioned, the family exploded the pot, and they were also very confused: why is the child's work and rest so regular when he is in school, and even the nap at noon every day is not enough sleep, but as soon as he returns home, he is completely like a wild horse that is out of control, unrestrained?
I couldn't help but laugh at this question from my family. In fact, is there really no magic in kindergartens, to know why children have such a contrasting reaction, we must first understand the difference between the home environment and the school environment.
First, the kindergarten rest and learning process is more standardized, and the family is relatively loose
The difference in the environment is the biggest difference between the family and the kindergarten, in the family, the free outing between the family will also give the child a psychological hint of what he wants to do. In kindergartens, everyone's class time is the time of class, and when they play, they can play freely, and children can clearly distinguish when to do what to do and when not to do.
Therefore, the biggest difference between the family and the kindergarten educational environment is whether the child has self-limitations. Therefore, if parents also want their children to have the same routine as kindergartens, they must give their children a quiet and stable living environment.
First of all, we must ensure that the child's life schedule is usually consistent with the school, do not let the child sleep lazily because of the holiday or rest, and secondly, ensure that the environment is not too noisy and affects the child's normal biological clock.
Second, in the school, there are classmates and teachers to accompany, children are more likely to be involved
Children are young, so many times the idea is that everyone does what he does, just see everyone in the study, he also wants to learn, see everyone rest, he can't help but feel sleepy, this is the child's herd psychology.
And once the child has this kind of psychology, if he is particularly special, or even violates the collective discipline and is named by the teacher, the child will feel inexplicably guilty. However, at home, there is no sense of collective honor and community, and children are naturally not easy to sleep or learn.
Therefore, parents must invest and accompany in family education, and the best situation is to take the power of example to take the child to learn and accompany the child to sleep. Over time, children naturally develop this habit and law.
Third, the amount of kindergarten activities is large, and children are easily physically and mentally tired
In the campus environment, because of the company of children and teachers, children not only have a variety of extracurricular activities, but also invest in a large number of mental activities, so their daily life state is particularly devoted and enjoyable, and their energy will be consumed to the end.
Naturally, when I rest in school, I also sleep soundly. Because only in this way can we have enough energy and physical strength to ensure that the afternoon activities and studies are carried out. Therefore, in family education, if the child is too energetic, parents can consider letting the child do the right amount of exercise and activities.
Ensure the amount of exercise of children every day, in order to ensure the healthy growth and rest quality of children every day.
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