Regarding the matter of love, many people feel that women's minds are the most difficult to figure out, and in fact, some men's minds are also as confusing as needles under the sea.
Most of these men are more introverted, or not confident enough, cynical and the like, so they will often make some ambiguous jokes, and they can attack and retreat.
In this case, not all women can understand the meaning behind his joke, some really when it is a joke, never think much, where to know that he is a moving performance, and even feel that this is "flirting" her, she is completely inappropriate.
In fact, men also have a very gentle heart, but sometimes they are not good at words, only dare to express them through jokes, women can find more of his heart, let him boldly confess to you, so that it is possible to eventually become a family.
If you are around, there is a man who makes such a "joke" with you, he is not "flirting" with you, but really moved!
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"If there is no suitable person, let's make it up."
I believe that many people have heard such words, most of them just laughed it off, when he was a joke, but to be honest, if he is not really interested in you, how can he often make such a joke?
Although his tone is understated, it is clear from it that he is testing your reaction, and when he says: "If there is no suitable person, let's make it up", it is actually a hint to you that you can look at the people around you more, rather than just staring at other people.
He has been guarding you for a long time, but you have been waiting for others, can not see his intentions, the more so, the more he dare not express his sincerity, each time can only borrow jokes to express, and say more, you think this is really just a joke.
If there is a person who says this to you often, you have to think about it, he may be sincere to you, and he will say it through this sentence.
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"You stinky temper, no one but me can stand it"
Some men will be very tolerant of you, whether it is your little willfulness or small temper, he does not care, and even feels cute.
Every time you lose your temper, he will always say: "Your stinky temper, no one but me can stand it", on the surface it is a complaint, but in fact it wants you to know that he is willing to tolerate your stinky temper, as long as you are willing, these are not a problem.
But you may not be able to perceive his deep meaning, always stay on the shallow level, and even feel that he is saying that your temper is smelly and misunderstand his meaning.
In fact, if a person says this to you, it is most likely that he is using a spoiled tone, which seems to be a joke, but it is actually to show your heart.
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"Don't you think we're a good match?" Let's not be together."
In fact, a man usually becomes very unconfident in front of the woman he likes, which is why he does not dare to show love directly, so he can only make a joke, which is expressed, and he will expect you to hear the meaning of his words.
When he says to you, "Don't you think we're worthy?" If you don't want to be together", you may think that this person is too narcissistic, how can he think that you are a good match?
In fact, he just wants to be with you, and he will feel that the two people can talk very well, but he does not know your thoughts, so he will test you like this.
If you directly refuse, he will also skip it as a joke and will not mention it again, if you say that you can try, then he will talk to you more in his heart, and the relationship between the two people will be closer.
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Conclusion
Sometimes, when a man jokes, it is not necessarily to provoke you, but to express his sincerity.
He may not be confident enough in front of you, or he may feel that the time is not up, so he will use this way to attract your attention, hoping that you can feel it.
If you understand his language, you may wish to take the initiative to respond to him, let him know that you are also intentional, only in this way, he dares to move on, you have a happy ending.