Parents want their children to be sensible, but when their children really make things that are beyond their age, many people will feel very sad. Recently, a teacher shared a photo of Meng wa taking a nap in kindergarten, and netizens said after seeing it: The little boy's actions are painful and funny.
It turned out that the little boy in the photo was going to kindergarten for the first time, facing a completely unfamiliar school and friends, although the little boy did not cry, but his mood was very low, and it was obvious that there was some discomfort and fear in school life.
After a morning of playing, eating lunch, the children began to nap, which became a very busy time for the teacher. Because most of the children were crying and did not want to sleep at school, the little boy felt that the teacher was very carefree and did not cry.
Just tell the teacher that usually at home nap is the mother to coax himself, the mother is not there, he can only rely on himself. After saying that, the little boy immediately climbed onto the small bed, followed his mother's example and patted himself with his small hands, closed his eyes and fell asleep after a while.
The teacher was very surprised that the child on the first day of school could have such a performance, so he filmed this scene, and did not expect that the boy's action of "coaxing himself" was on fire. In fact, it is not difficult to see from this aspect that the little boy's adaptability is very strong.
The vast majority of children will definitely cry very badly when they go to kindergarten for the first time, and parents will be helpless, but the first time a child enters the kindergarten, the following two mistakes parents must not make, otherwise it will only make the child cry more.
Which two types of errors?
1. Sneak away
Some children are brought up by their parents themselves, so there is a deep affection between parents and children, and parents cannot see children crying, as long as children cry, they will also cry. Once the child cries, the parents will choose to sneak away and do not want to be 'tortured'" again. But in fact, when children find out that their parents are not there in the blink of an eye, they will be more afraid and cry.
2, can't bear it
There are also some parents who will be soft as long as their children cry, and constantly tell their children at the school gate to go to school well, but they are not willing to leave. Even if the teacher comes and leads the child into the school, the parents are not willing to let go, and even some people will take the children home because they are crying. These practices will only make children more afraid of school, and they will still use the same method to blackmail parents in the future, leading to the repetition of history.
Children's emotional control ability is not as good as adults, so the first day of school will definitely be emotionally out of control, which is also very normal, but after a while, I believe that children will fall in love with this collective life, and what parents have to do is to help their children integrate into school life faster.
What can parents do to help their children integrate into school life as soon as possible?
First, simulate in advance
After the children go to kindergarten, although there are teachers in the class, the teacher will help them, but many parents also have to teach the children to let them do it themselves. For example, before going to kindergarten, parents can slowly let their children be independent, try to let them sleep on their own when napping, and let children take their own spoons when eating, so that after school, parents will not worry about these trivial things.
Second, get along with your peers
There are many peers in school, and children will also live a collective life in school, so if you want to adapt to school life as soon as possible, parents can usually take children to get along with their peers and tell them how to get along with their peers. In this way, children can integrate into the class faster, and parents do not have to worry about whether children will be bullied by others in kindergarten and whether they can make good partners.
Adapting to kindergarten life is only a beginning, after all, the real purpose of children going to school is to master more knowledge, children can adapt to school life as soon as possible, and parents can rest assured as soon as possible. Therefore, before the child goes to school, parents should begin to exercise their independence and use the correct educational methods to provide some help to the child.