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On the third day of the Chinese New Year, a girl told a story that happened when she returned home, saying that it was small but small, and that it was big or big.
The girl said that within a few days of returning home, she heard her father joking with her brother and said, "Let your sister earn money well, and you will still expect her to marry your daughter-in-law in the future."
The girl was furious and directly replied to her father: "Dad, who did you give birth to?" Born to me? I can provide him with his studies and the matter of marrying his daughter-in-law without talking."
The girl also said that if you have no money and no ability, don't marry your daughter-in-law, and marry back to other people's girls to suffer.
The girl's father played with the mobile phone with an embarrassed face, and the girl's grandmother heard the girl's words and was busy exhorting: "Your father is joking."
Later, the girl directly said to her brother: "You have to study hard and work hard, no one in this world can be relied on, parents can't be relied on, only you can rely on yourself."
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Girls with younger brothers, their parents, to a greater or lesser extent, would count on their daughters to help raise their sons.
Subconsciously, they will feel that their daughters are raised for others, and sooner or later they will marry into other people's homes, and their sons are their own, so they hope to be rewarded for their daughter's efforts.
Subsequently, there was such a phenomenon in society: parents morally kidnapped their daughters, imposed their responsibilities on their daughters, let their daughters drop out of school early and go out to work, and earn money to study for their brothers; let the daughters give the money they earned to themselves, in the name of helping their daughters save money, take the money they earned, buy a house and a car for their sons and marry their daughters-in-law.
What's more, when marrying a daughter, he collects a high dowry, does not marry his daughter, and lets his daughter marry into the man's family with his bare hands, regardless of whether his daughter is happy in the future, and then takes the money from "selling" his daughter to marry his son and daughter-in-law.
Living in such a "patriarchal" family, if a girl is used to her parents and is morally kidnapped, sooner or later she will become a "brother-in-law demon".
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And the parents of the "son preference" say some jokes, in fact, they are "speaking the truth in the name of joking."
Therefore, I would like to say to the girls that the parents "prefer sons to daughters", but it is not bad for you, and if your ability allows, you can properly help your brother and help your parents reduce pressure to repay the grace of your parents' "birth and adoption".
If your parents are only for your brother, it is not good for you, and you still want you to pay your salary, please do not be seduced by your parents, foolishly take the hard money you earn, and make a wedding dress for your brother.
And the boy who is the younger brother, don't think that the sister pays for you, it is "taken for granted".
Manhood, to stand up to the sky, do not always rely on others, brothers and sisters to help each other is the right thing to do, but to be "measured", not "inching forward".
Men, who have no money and no ability, do not marry their daughter-in-law, otherwise they will marry home, and their lives will not be better.
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