#This is family education #Yesterday afternoon, when I was writing my language winter vacation homework, I yelled at her, and the child was crying while writing homework, what made me angry? How did my wife, who was taking a lunch break, educate me fiercely?
After lunch, I discussed with the child to write some homework first, and then played, which was very good, and the child happily agreed.
Thinking of the child concentrating on homework, I also went to clean up the dishes with great interest.
When I came to the kitchen, I first found a movie "Chosin Lake" and played it. While watching the movie, I brushed the bowl, saw the wonderful link, and held the bowl to be brushed motionless.
In a flash, more than half an hour has passed, the bowl is still in his hand, turn your head to look at the tableware in the sink, and then look at the mobile phone screen, or decide to wash it and then watch the movie with peace of mind.
I quickly finished washing, so I picked up my phone and looked at it and walked to the living room.
By the way, look at the girl's homework, this look, my anger will come up, pick up the book next to me and hit the girl. The girlfriend was startled by my beating, and immediately burst into tears and theorized with me.
Angry, I yelled, "When lunch is over, we have all discussed it, you concentrate on writing your homework, you can play your favorite game after writing, but what are you doing now?" Lying on the table playing with the eraser for half an hour, not writing a word, grinding and scribbling to write to what time ah, but also to write until the evening Bajiu? As he spoke, he took the book and beat up the child again.
Such a big movement woke up my wife who was taking a lunch break, got up and took a book and hit me on the head, I was also stunned, and my wife said solemnly, "Can't you whisper to the child?" Have you taught your children that way? Yell at the child to beat the child at every turn. She writes her homework and is not attentive, isn't she all learning from you? You are grinding and rubbing at home, and always look at your mobile phone, do you dare to say that you did not look at your mobile phone when you washed the dishes and chopsticks today? ”
I smiled, but I didn't dare to speak, afraid of the inside, my daughter-in-law couldn't make a fuss. Obediently quickly admit mistakes, can not yell at the child, can not just look at the mobile phone and ignore, and then seriously correct, so that the evil said that it has finally subsided.
All along, as long as I have time, I will stare at my child to write homework, I want to be strict with my child, and use my discipline model to force her to develop good discipline habits. Although my intentions are good, they are counterproductive, not only the child's self-discipline has not been cultivated, but also deliberately not to write homework well, grinding and rubbing.
In the evening, I learned some knowledge of educating children on the Internet, which scared me not lightly, and many of them said that parents yelled at their children, which would cause their children's concentration to be poor, and then affect their poor grades. I burst into tears, and I often yelled at my children and beat them. It turned out that all the fault was caused by me.
Are there parents who yell at their children like me? Stop!
I wish Bao Mom and Bao Dad to be a wise parent, in family education, learn to increase knowledge, and read and grow up every day!
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