Childbirth is a risky affair, because if there are or sudden problems with the mother or fetus during the process, it will increase the chance of accidents. Especially in the previous era when only normal births were available, there were many women with poor physical conditions who were at risk due to difficult childbirth. With the advancement of medical care, caesarean section is a mode of delivery that provides safer conditions for those who are not physically allowed, and greatly improves the safety of delivery. But after all, caesarean section is equivalent to a surgical operation, the damage to the female body is very large, and caesarean section can be cut several times at most has become a matter of discussion.
The family has two daughters are caesarean section, the mother-in-law wants to fight for three children, but the husband is anxious
Linlin, who lives in Shandong, is a second-born mother, because her body is relatively small, and her pelvis is relatively narrow, and the physical reaction of each pregnancy is particularly large, so the two births are taken by caesarean section under the advice of doctors. After giving birth to a child, Linlin's body obviously became weaker and very sick, and her husband said that she did not want a second child, but Linlin felt that a child was too cold and insisted on having a second child.
The husband and wife did not have the idea of preferring sons to daughters, so although the two children were daughters and the two were particularly happy, the mother-in-law was a little unhappy and kept clamoring for Linlin to have a third child. Lin Lin said that it is best not to have three children if you have two caesarean sections, but the mother-in-law listened but did not think so, saying that it is okay for other people's daughters-in-law to cut seven or eight, why can't you do it twice?
After listening to her mother-in-law's words, Linlin did not have time to react to her husband, but angrily came in from outside the house and said loudly, "Who did you hear that caesarean section produces seven or eight?" No more lives? You are more professional than a doctor, you take your daughter-in-law's life and I still want to live with her for the rest of my life! After the husband said that the mother-in-law muttered angrily, "Just you have more business" and turned away.
Although Linlin was dissatisfied with her mother-in-law's words about herself, she was deeply pleased with her husband's understanding, and she thought that her physical condition after two caesarean sections was very different from before, and if she had another caesarean section, she was afraid that her life would be really in danger. No matter what others say, their own physical health is always the first, after all, in the future, they will have a happy life together as a family, rather than desperately producing in order to achieve their own goals.
From the perspective of surgery, caesarean section can naturally be done many times, but the theory is not equal to practice, after all, the mother's body can not withstand multiple caesarean section surgery, generally speaking, caesarean section should not exceed 3 times, and the interval between each operation is preferably more than 2 to 3 years, why say so?
After caesarean section, the outer layer of the belly needs to be incised, and in addition to aesthetic considerations, caesarean section is very prone to abdominal adhesions and intestinal obstruction. And caesarean section also needs to open the uterus, the wound is located in the lower part of the uterus, there will be scars after healing, the reason why it is recommended to be at least two years after a section in pregnancy, because in the short term, the uterus will not heal well will form a scard uterus, easy to have the risk of placental implantation, seriously threatening the safety of maternal life. And the harm of caesarean section to the mother is increasing step by step, so the number of times must be strictly controlled.
From the process of caesarean section, because of the need for anesthesia, the mother will not have too much pain during the validity period, but anesthesia is also a very large risk, which can easily lead to the occurrence of maternal shock, and the risk of amniotic fluid embolism is greater than that of vaginal delivery, especially for women who have multiple caesarean sections, the physical condition is worse, and the danger is more likely to occur.
In fact, the idea of Linlin's mother-in-law in the previous example article still exists in the minds of many people, thinking that even caesarean section can choose multiple births, just to achieve the results they want, so it is particularly important to choose the number of births with a correct mentality.
Although we often talk about equality between men and women, there are still some old ideas that stay in the minds of some people, plus some people pursue "perfection" and want to have both children, so they choose to "not give up until they reach the goal". But both boys and girls are the dearest treasures for parents, and today's society relies on ability rather than relying on gender to live, so whether it is a continuation of our lives and a new hope, for those who have a caesarean section, we must know how to "stop at the right time".
And people's biggest focus should shift from the gender of the child to the health of women, after all, only the mother has a healthy body to better take the child to a complete home. If the number of caesarean sections is not counted and the body is severely damaged or caused by accidents, will life become a gray patch in the future? Therefore, health should be the first consideration element, and a healthy body will have the guarantee of a happy life in the future.
Although as one of the only two ways of childbirth, caesarean section does cause more harm to the mother than the natural birth, rather than pursuing the number of children, it is better to pursue the health of mother and child, a family reunion, with this as the goal, I believe that those who say that caesarean section can give birth to seven or eight can also be silent.