That's how good kids are raised

What matters to tell your child?

1. Travel is more important than class;

2. Opinion is more important than obedience;

3. Interest is more important than achievement;

4. Conscience is more important than right and wrong;

5, happiness is more important than perfection;

6. Faith is more important than worship;

7. Growth is more important than winning or losing;

8. Self-examination is more important than the lawyer.

If you have children at home, you must keep them, it is too comprehensive.

That's how good kids are raised

Education:

1． Spend half an hour a day communicating with your child.

2． And children at home should also use civilized language, "good morning, please, thank you, good night" and so on.

3． Let children develop good habits of hygiene.

4． Listen to your child's voice! ——With patience, with love, with happiness, the heart has eyes!

5． Don't always expose your child's scars in order to remind your child.

6． Seriously point out the child's mistakes!

7． Don't always be serious with your child, but laugh with your child: because laughter can make children love life more; guide children to look at things positively, easily and happily.

8． Tell stories to children, be patient, stories have a certain educational significance.

9． Don't impose unfulfilled ideals on children, and want children to achieve them.

10． Caring for the child but appropriate punishment at the right time is also needed, do not protect the child short.

11． Education doesn't have to be just reasoning, and sometimes tough measures can be taken as appropriate.

12． Combined with your child's performance, think about at least one question about your child's growth every day.

13． It is very beneficial to carry out art education for young children, cultivate children's elegant aesthetic tastes, pay attention to guiding and enriching children's perceptual understanding, and deepen children's emotional experience in nature.

14． For children in early childhood, do not let them live with their parents for a long time, and it is not conducive to education because they are closer in the next generation. There may be no scientific truth, but it absolutely applies.

15． Pay attention to cultivating children's kindness. Ancients: Don't do it with evil, and don't do it with good.

16． Teach children to smile, smile to face everything in life, smile at life.

17． Don't make a wish to your child, and do everything you can to keep your promise.

18． Always think differently! Parents should always think differently about what their children do and think, if I were a child, what would I do?

19． Give your child a certain amount of space and freedom, while giving a certain amount of pressure and responsibility!

20． Explain to the child that he is already very cute and does not have to express himself anymore.

21． Never say that children are worse than other children.

22． Never punish your child with verbal abuse.

23． In the things that children do, constantly look for something to praise.

24． Don't scare kids. So as not to cause children to be too timid and afraid of things.

25． Do not criticize and ridicule children in public, so as not to cause psychological deformities, loss of self-confidence, etc.

Growth:

1． Give your child some personal space.

2． Give your child the opportunity and right to choose.

3． Let children freely choose their partners and friends.

4． Let the child do what he wants.

5． Let the child do some housework that he can, such as washing his own clothes, boiling water and cooking, etc., so that he realizes that he is part of the family.

6． Prepare a display stand for your child to display the items he has made.

7． Take seriously the serious questions and opinions raised by your child.

8． Treat the child as an adult, live with him as an equal, and treat the child as your friend.

9． Find out the child's progress in time and know how to appreciate the child.

10． Remember to say to your child: I love you, you are my baby!

11． Remember to kiss your child often, hug him or her, touch his or her head, and let him or her know your love!

12． Keep an eye on his or her progress and let him or her know his or her progress! Find out the child's progress in time and know how to appreciate the child.

13． Communicate more with children, get to know children, and walk with children.

14． Don't label your child "stupid."

15． Parents should patiently listen to their children's troubles.

16． Learn to praise your child sincerely instead of saying "You're so smart" as you would for a pet.

17． Let the child often have the opportunity to be with his companions.

18． Care about the child's physical health, and pay more attention to the child's emotional needs.

19． The fundamental goal of education is to cultivate people, a sound person.

20． Create some difficulties in your life and spend it with your children.

21． Encourage children to be as undependent as possible from adults.

22． It's important to know what friends your child has.

Life:

1． Give your child some money and let your child learn to manage money.

2． Do not read your child's diaries and letters without your child's permission.

3． Often outing with children.

4． Tell your child a story before bedtime and let the child fall asleep laughing!

5． Give your child a room or part of the room that is primarily for him to play in.

6． If possible, take a walk outdoors with your children every day after dinner.

7． Happy sharing with kids!

8． Smile happily at the little one and hope he or she laughs too!

9． Help children interact normally with children from different social and cultural classes.

10． Encourage children to interact freely with people of all ages.

11． Give your child time and space to really "play".

12． Teaching children to ride a bicycle and swim is a basic skill in entering society.

13． Greeting each other with your child every morning and making him feel the arrival of a good day.

14． Couples really want to quarrel, please remember: avoid children

15． Every day when I come home from work and see my child, I first smile and ask him again: Child, are you happy today?

16． Don't leave him too much of a material legacy, give him a healthy body, give him a healthy mind, and have a happy life.

17． Focus on the cultivation of children's life skills and behavioral habits.

18． Don't blame your child for messing around in the room or on the table.

19． Parents should be filial to their parents, so that children feel that the home is full of love, and parents are also examples worth learning from.

20． Parents should be humble and understand each other.

21． Don't care too much about your children. "Do your own thing" so that children don't develop bad habits centered on me.

22． Don't get too close to the child. Let him associate more with children of similar age, so that children do not develop the habit of being withdrawn.

23． Don't buy what your children want. Let him know the relationship between "labor and income, rights and obligations". Lest the child develop a good and bad character.

24． Difficulties in life and some family events can sometimes be discussed with children.

25． Love for the child should be stable, not sunny for a while, cloudy for a while.

Learning:

1． Reading with children, parents can read the newspaper, a good learning partner is very important.

2． Children learn at home, parents must not engage in some recreational activities, a comfortable learning environment is very important.

3． Don't force your child to learn things they don't like.

4． Don't scold your child for your grades.

5． Don't think your child isn't out of the way because of the low score on your child's test paper.

6． Teach him or her enough to bring a sense of accomplishment: ancient poems, numbers, stories, housework, play, making friends...

7． Teach children to read good books and read well.

8． Do not pay too much attention to your child's academic performance, which will cause your child to learn nervously and stress more.

9． Don't compare your child's grades with other children, analyze the causes of this phenomenon and reflect on whether you have your own responsibilities.

10． The child's room should have its own desk, and the desk should have several books that he loves to read, such as "Grimm's Fairy Tales" and "Aesop's Fables" and so on.

Entertainment:

1． Watch his favorite cartoons with your child, listen to his favorite stories, and so on.

2． Play games and exercise with your child.

3． Control how much time your child watches TV, between half an hour and an hour a day.

4． Let children watch more children's programs: cartoons, puzzle programs, etc., and watch less action movies and serials.

5． When children watch TV, parents accompany them in a timely manner and make some explanations and discussions about the contents.

6． In the spring, you can go on a bike with your children, go swimming in the river with your children in the summer, go to a picnic with your children in the autumn, and in the winter, a family of three plays snowballball fights and builds snowmen in the field.

7． Children are allowed to collect all kinds of waste.

8． Your child's friends should be welcomed when they come to visit.

9． Play chess with the child, let the child know that there is no regret, educate him to be responsible for what he does, and admit that he has lost, and parents sometimes have to let the child win one or two sets, which is very important for the child.

Tell your child the words

(a) You don't mind too much about people who are bad to you, no one in your life is obligated to be nice to you, except me and your dad. People who are good to you, you must cherish and be grateful.

(ii) No one is irreplaceable, and nothing must be possessed. See through this, and even if you lose everything you love most in the world, you will understand that this is not a big deal.

(iii) Life is short, and today you may still be wasting your life, and tomorrow you will find that life is far away from you. Therefore, the sooner you cherish life, the more days you will enjoy life, and instead of looking forward to a long life, it is better to enjoy it early.

(iv) Love is just a feeling, and this feeling will change with time and mood. If your so-called favorite leaves you, please wait patiently, let time slowly wash away, let the soul slowly precipitate, and your suffering will slowly fade. Don't overly dream of the beauty of love, don't exaggerate the sadness of lost love.

(v) Although many accomplished people have not received a lot of education, it does not mean that they can succeed without studying. What you learn is the weapon you have. People, you can start from scratch, but you can't be unarmed, remember!

(VI) You can ask yourself to be trustworthy, but you can't ask others to be trustworthy, you can ask yourself to be good to others, but you can't expect others to be good to you. How you treat people does not mean that they will treat you, and if you can't see through this, you will only add unnecessary troubles.

(VII) The fate of relatives is only once, no matter how long I will get along with you in this life, please cherish the time of getting together, and in the next life, whether you love or not, you will never see each other again.