Winter vacation is coming to an end, is your child ready to close the heart? Or is it still the appearance of letting go of the self?
During the Spring Festival, visiting relatives and friends is full of complaints from relatives and friends. Some said, "Oh, our children only know how to look at their phones every day, and learning has become a secondary thing." Some said, "The child is old and disobedient!" The parents are dying of sorrow, and the child seems to have an attitude of not caring about the grades. Some said: "Habits still have to be formed from the first and second grades, and now that the child is older, I want to correct his bad habits, it is really difficult to ascend to the sky!" ”
As we all know, the first and second grades of primary school are an excellent period for cultivating children's habits in all aspects, and once they miss this golden time period, they really regret it. Many people will say that they are always talking about habit formation, how to develop it? Today, Xi Xi's mother will give some detailed suggestions to the parents of the first and second grades, hoping to give you some inspiration.
(1) Come home from school, change your shoes, set your shoes well, and wash your hands and drink water on the toilet.
The formation of habits is not limited to the formation of learning habits, and the most basic living habits are also things that we need to pay attention to as parents.
Some children, back home like Lafayette, wish everything was served by their parents. Slippers are handed to the parents, and the shoes they take off never set the rules by hand. This sloppy and loose habit is particularly bad, we should cultivate the child's ability to be independent from an early age, and the child can do what he or she can do, and the parents will never do it for them.
Why do we have to cultivate the habit of going to the toilet, washing hands and drinking water after changing shoes and putting them in place? Because these things are solved at once, the child will not have to go to the toilet for a while and drink water in the process of doing homework.
(2) Take out all the homework, arrange it neatly, and arrange the order of homework in each subject by yourself.
Some children, especially boys, are always thick and leafy. Forgetting to do Chinese homework today and math homework tomorrow has led to parents being talked to by teachers from time to time.
In general, children have a special homework record book, which clearly records the content of the day's homework. In this regard, we can guide the child to take out all the homework according to the requirements of the homework record book, arrange it neatly, and complete each homework reasonably according to their own arrangements.
(3) Turn on the lamp and turn on the timer, and do not leave the chair, wash your hands, drink water, etc. when you start doing your homework. After completing any of the subjects in the middle, you can arrange a 10-minute break by yourself, and continue until all the homework is completed.
Many parents wonder why their children can seriously complete their homework when they are in school, but they are habitually procrastinating when they return home. Xi Xi's mother told you: Because the child has a ringtone at school to do supervision, but there is no time limit at home, resulting in the child's concept of time is weak, thus forming a procrastination.
In this regard, we should let the child turn on the lamp with a sense of ceremony, adjust the timer, and develop the habit of not leaving the stool, washing hands, and drinking water when doing homework. After completing the homework of each subject, we can give the child a certain rest time, so that the child can really achieve the combination of work and leisure.
(4) The handwriting is neat and tidy, and the answer is made as soon as possible under the correct premise.
Writing is neat when I am in school, but sloppy when I am at home, which seems to be a common disease of many children.
And some parents also believe that as long as the child is well-behaved in front of the teacher, I don't need to have high requirements for him when I return home from vacation. As everyone knows, the formation of good habits is not achieved overnight, and the formation of bad habits can be achieved in a short period of time. Therefore, it is particularly important to establish a good habit of writing neatly and answering as soon as possible from the very beginning.
(5) After doing it, change to another method for inspection.
In recent years, such a shout "Don't Shout Mom" has become particularly popular on the Internet. For example: if you can't speak the language, please look up the dictionary, don't call Mom! After writing the sentence and looking at the picture to speak, please read it twice, read it smoothly and correct it, don't shout Mom...
And in real life, it is true that many children do not have the habit of checking homework, sloppily done, they began to call their parents to check, as if they were a bystander, and parents seem to be the one who studied hard, holding the child's homework word by word carefully checked.
Kids who can't check their homework are quite a loss! This is especially important when it comes to exams. Therefore, it is particularly important to cultivate children's ability to self-check homework.
(6) Pack up the school bag according to the class schedule, pack the single volume and materials into the document bag according to the subject, and put it into the school bag in an orderly manner. After sorting out, place the bag in the designated position in the entrance.
Towards the end of last semester, there was a parent-teacher conference in my daughter's class. Both the homeroom teacher and the classroom teacher emphasize the same thing – bringing together the learning aids.
The teacher said that at the end of the semester, every lesson had students who either forgot to bring books, forgot to bring exercise books, or forgot to bring pens or erasers. Most of a class has passed, and some children have not yet borrowed pencils. Thinking about it, this is indeed a headache.
After the child enters the primary school, parents can not do everything one by one, when it is time to let go, we must learn to let go, especially to sort out the bag and test papers, but also should cultivate the child's ability to sort out independently as early as possible.
(7) There is a blank space, so that the child can arrange it independently, and outdoor activities can be carried out. If your child chooses to use electronic devices, control them for no more than 20 minutes.
Although advocating double reduction, many parents are still unable to extricate themselves on the way to squeezing their children, and arrange their children's time every day to be full, resulting in children having no rest time, and they begin to be bored with school after a long time, which can be described as more than worth the loss.
Some parents are at the other extreme, letting their children go unchecked, regardless of the completion of their children's homework, and do not control the children's mobile phone play time, resulting in children addicted to the Internet at a young age.
As parents, we must control the degree of it. It is necessary to give children time to arrange and play independently, and not to let children rely too much on mobile phones.
(8) Reading time is more than half an hour.
In the era of big languages, reading occupies half of the country. If the child's reading accumulation is too small, it will not only affect the language score and composition writing level, but also have a great impact on the comprehension ability of other subject questions.
Insist on reading for half an hour every day, although the time is not long, but the accumulation of a long time can make children learn a lot of knowledge. And the subject of reading should not be limited to full score essays, famous books, mythological stories, novels, newspapers, comics, brain teasers, etc., are excellent recommendations.
(9) Pack up the next day's clothes and go to bed early.
The quality of a child's sleep on the first night not only affects the child's physical development, but also affects the child's mental state of going to school the next day.
Going to bed early and getting up early should be something every child should do in itself. Only when there is a good rest, the child's energy in the classroom will be more concentrated, so that the absorption of knowledge points will be more accurate and firm. And if the child's sleep is not guaranteed, then the next day in class must be deserted or dozing off, such a consequence is that the homework will be more and more left, and for a long time, even if they stay up late, they can't make up, but will only make the grades worse and worse.
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The above nine details may not look very impressive, but what Xi Xi's mother wants to tell you is that if the child insists on it every day, it will definitely reap unexpected results!
All in all, the cultivation of good habits is a formula: fixed time + fixed content + persistence!
Do you agree with Xi Xi's mother? Or what else do you need to add? Welcome to discuss with me!