The bottom line of people... This morning, as soon as I opened the Internet, I found that the screen was full of Gu Ailing, I just took her as an example, and there was no other meaning. It's the Winter Olympics, and she's just won the championship again, she

The bottom line of people...

This morning, as soon as I opened the Internet, I found that the screen was full of Gu Ailing, I just took her as an example, and there was no other meaning.

It's the Winter Olympics, she just won the championship, she looks beautiful and has a good personality, many people like her, for excellent people, everyone loves it, but what follows is all kinds of bottomless digging, digging her father who is? Who is the mother? Who is Grandma? What is the family up for? I think it's very strange that an athlete is not a star (of course, I didn't say that a star has to be spied on), and you have to take care of people's private lives? Think about it from another position, if someone said that they liked you, and then pulled out all your ancestors and eighteen generations of your colleagues and friends, and put them in the public, and talked about it, how would you feel if someone stared at you in an invisible place every day?

Once, a good friend of mine, he told me about the privacy of another good friend next to me, a very, very private kind of privacy. I still remember the feelings: nausea, contempt, anger. I think not exposing the privacy of others is the bottom line of being a person! I think: leave a bottom line for others, see each other well in the future, pay attention to the sense of proportion in everything, do not hurt the self-esteem and face of others when speaking, and leave a road for others, which is to give yourself a wider road. To leave a bottom line for yourself is not to always cater to the thoughts and emotions of others, to go against your own heart again and again, but to stand up, face the conflict, and bravely express your own views.

So for me, the attitude and reaction of others hurting me, the first time I forgive others is heavy affection (infatuation), the second time I forgive others is tolerance, and the third time I forgive others is my own guilt. The attitude and reaction of others betraying me, the first betrayal is considered to be the other party's unintentional, the second betrayal is considered to be the other party's ruthlessness, and the third betrayal is considered to be the other party's shamelessness. Once or twice, I did not pursue it because of my love and righteousness, because I wanted to make this "friend" ,...... But don't challenge my bottom line three times, that's the three principles.

In the end, the depth of how much others hurt you is determined by your own actions. Being friendly is my cultivation, and tit-for-tat is my principle. If you have cultivation, then I will definitely maintain my cultivation, if you annoy me, then please pay attention to the number of times, please remember what you have done, don't wait until the end when I return to you, you ask me why, it will be too late!

A person, if there is no bottom line, will dare to do anything bad. In a society, if there is no bottom line, anything strange will happen. The ancients said that words are not surprising and endless. Originally, the attitude of ancient people who worked hard to write amazing masterpieces, but now? It has become a shortcut for some people to sensationalize and opportunistically become famous, and some people have no moral bottom line in order to become famous, specially exposing the privacy of others (whoever is famous will expose whom), taking the meaning out of context, reversing black and white, in order to hunt eyeballs and make profits for themselves. There are also some people who do not hesitate to scandalize themselves, expose their black history to become famous, and really do not die in order to become famous. It's a deformed psychology and society, and people's psychology becomes so crazy.

My teacher once told me that I hope that you will be able to "know the black and keep the white" when you go to the society in the future. In a lifetime, it is inevitable to experience the ugliness of society and experience the insidiousness of people's hearts. But even if you suffer a big loss, don't let yourself become an ugly and sinister person in your heart, you must adhere to your own principle of being a person, "know the black and keep the white" and yearn for beauty!

I am a green-skinned radish, like friends a little bit of attention! [Come and see me] [Come and see me] [Come and see me]