Many parents worry about their children looking for a job, some do not listen to their parents, go back to their hometown to take the civil service institutions, and some have been unable to take the civil service institutions. And there is

Many parents worry about their children looking for a job, some do not listen to their parents, go back to their hometown to take the civil service institutions, and some have been unable to take the civil service institutions. Some do not listen to their parents to go to state-owned enterprises, go to private enterprises to work hard and get high salaries; others want to start their own businesses.

Parents are not less worried about this. When you graduate, your parents have two big things in mind for you. One is work, the other is marriage. When the two major events are completed, Chinese parents will truly feel that their merits are complete.

All in all, parents feel that stability trumps everything. Why do some children often not listen to their parents when they graduate, to pursue stability? In fact, it is not that the children do not listen, but we are late in persuading.

The American behaviorist psychologist Watson wrote in his book Behaviorism: "Give me a dozen healthy babies, a special environment at my disposal, and let me raise them in this environment, and I can vouch for the choice of one, regardless of the talents, tendencies, hobbies of his parents, what their occupations and races are, and I can train them to be any kind of person I wish: doctors, lawyers, artists, big businessmen, even beggars or robbers." "This is the view of environmental determinism.

This theory is not to tell people to start [covering their faces] in infancy, but to tell us that children's thoughts are often related to environmental decisions.

Why I myself have been taking the civil service and public institutions, my family has not let me take the exam, in fact, the environment of our school is determined, just entered the school to know that the brothers and sisters have passed the examination of public security, prison police. Because our school is a judicial police academy, more than 90 percent of the graduates are civil servants, so when I graduate, I only take the civil service examination, and I do not look for any other job. Although he did not pass the civil service examination, he retreated to the second place and entered a public institution. Later, my sister looked for a job, my uncle and aunt wanted to persuade her to go back to her hometown to take the exam, dead or alive, the most she said was what I brothers and sisters in the field, the company is a big bull, the development is very good, so she chose to stay in Shenzhen.

Therefore, parents should worry about it, plan to let their children's examination preparation be planned in advance, can not wait until graduation to persuade, the role is basically small. When should we start to enter the concept of test preparation, starting from the college entrance examination volunteer, planning the examination system, and choosing to go to the Public Security University, the Police Academy, the Foreign Teachers College, the University of Science and Technology Beijing, and other schools with more such examination preparations. The second is the major, do not choose mechanical, chemical, biological and other majors, there are few examination preparation positions, it is difficult to go ashore. In the four years of school, we must also find more successful cases of civil servants around the children and continue to import. By the time I graduated, I had fully established my own concept of employment, and then changed, it was very difficult and painful, and my mothers were in tears every day, and it was too late to regret it.

Don't take the chance that your children will not have this situation, there are too many situations around you! When I graduated, my child and my mother called every day to communicate about work, and there were many quarrels and cries under different concepts. At that time, my daughter-in-law also encountered a different concept from her mother-in-law, quarreling every day [covering her face] [covering her face] [covering her face] #working that little thing # # Graduation # #父母和子女 #