This is the life experience accumulated over a long history, but those who actively or passively marry a daughter-in-law and forget their mother, it is very easy to have a new love and forget the old love, so the family that rejects the in-laws will be extremely unstable. If a man does not kick you, he will have a hard time gaining a foothold in society, and since ancient times, even the court has clearly not used filial piety. No filial piety and no blessing, no blessing can not be accomplished, so when promoting and reusing people, there is often no need for filial piety, so all men who want to go up to a certain position to do a career must be filial piety, this is the premise, even the Buddha told people to respect their parents first, not filial piety to their parents, respect him is useless, and sometimes watch the news, even those underworld big men are often filial piety.
Men who live with their in-laws often lose both. Men are easy to live with their parents, in most cases, men are the pillar of the family, under pressure outside, parents can find their various subtle emotions in time, and can care and guide in time, while wives and parents-in-law have no blood relationship and telepathy, love can not be compared with other people's biological parents, so this is usually not possible. And women usually have personal emotions first, the more favorable the environment, the more emotional, a person in the in-laws can be unbridled, if with her parents, basically do whatever they want. Parents-in-law use other people's sons also tend to do whatever they want, think that it is a man, available, big and small things will be used, and there is no heartache, not like the in-laws with daughters-in-law often have a bottom line, because seeing her is a woman, do not say love or love, but the automatic reaction of people will not ask her to do some difficult things, parents-in-law is the opposite, psychologically is the son-in-law is not bad, casual use, slightly larger things, such as lifting cans of oil, taking bags of rice, originally they can also be called son-in-law. In this case, the man has no one to care for, and when he goes home, he will be extremely depressed, extremely tired, and he does not want to go home at all, and it will become easy to seek relief outside. Therefore, parents-in-law should not intervene in the daughter's family, try to let them live with their in-laws, his parents are watching at home, and the rate of infidelity will be greatly reduced.