Wang Xiaobo once said: "Life is a slow process of being hammered, people grow old day by day, and their extravagance disappears day by day, and finally they become like cattle that have been hammered." I felt like I was going to be fierce forever and couldn't hammer me with anything. ”
When people reach middle age, sometimes, those sudden accidents are always caught off guard and make themselves embarrassed.

Self-described: Mr. Ma is 31 years old
After 9 years of working, he finally bought a set worth 3 million yuan in this second-tier city.
Although it is only more than 60 square meters, it is also saddled with a mortgage for 25 years.
In 3 months, my wife will have to give birth to our first child. Although life is sometimes suffocating, it is not without something to look forward to, and there is still some motivation in my heart.
However, in the slowly hammered life, there was a major hammer that turned sharply: a month ago, his mother was diagnosed with breast cancer.
I was under a lot of pressure and felt like the sky was falling. There is no extra money, including the down payment of our house, of which 200,000 yuan was borrowed by relatives and friends, and my parents also gave me more than 300,000 yuan in their life savings.
I said that even if I wanted to sell the house, I would have to raise medical expenses for my mother. The wife said, you dare, dare to induce labor tomorrow.
Life is not only a dilemma, but also a torture of conscience and morality.
You say, how should you decide when you encounter such a thing?
Write at the back:
This is a problem faced by many middle-aged people with old and young, and Mr. Ma above is not the first and will not be the last.
Some people are born in Rome, and some people have been cows and horses all their lives. Everyone's birth may be a technical job beyond their control.
But most people still have to go through all kinds of "purgatory", always will not be smooth sailing, will not be as calm as water, some of life is "unimaginable waves", but because these waves did not hit you...
Thinking about it too, the wife's worries and anger are not incomprehensible. The child is about to be born, but if the house is sold to save the mother, but the child will have to rent a house for the rest of his life. But don't save your mother, although even if the operation may only delay the time of life, but in the end it is the conscience that can't get by, and it will hurt in the middle of the night.
Instead, I suggested that instead of selling the house, I would treat my mother as much as I could. If the mother had health insurance, she wouldn't have to sell the house at all. You may wish to find a way to borrow some money for emergencies, relatives and friends are embarrassed, formal bank loans are still OK. Because breast cancer is not an incurable disease, recovery can be the same as no one, if you completely give up not only family affection to be tortured, but also your conscience will be uneasy.
In fact, most of life is not satisfactory, people can only rely on themselves, and the only thing that can make themselves strong is persistence and struggle. When your persistence can make you strong enough to stand alone, any bumps and bumps are a smooth road. For example, in the future, through side business, even if you open Didi and deliver takeaways, you can earn a little bit, and I believe that life will be better.
Ma Yun said: "Today is difficult, tomorrow will be more difficult, but the day after tomorrow will be beautiful." Only when people persist when they fall, get up again, repeat themselves, and persevere, will they usher in the luck that may be many days and many years later.