Principal Zhang Guimei once said, "An educated woman can block the intergenerational transmission of poverty and change the fate of three generations." So "highly qualified girls — highly qualified mothers — highly qualified next generation" is a virtuous circle.
With the upsurge of the genius girl Gu Ailing winning the championship, her family education background is gradually known to the world, her mother Gu Yan, graduated from Peking University, and later graduated from Stanford University, whether it is in learning ability or career achievements, Gu Ailing has always taken her mother as an example. Gu Yan's mother, Feng Guozhen, was a senior engineer in the Department of Structural Reform of the Ministry of Transport of the People's Republic of China, and was also a Kochi woman. And Gu Ailing himself, in addition to being an Olympic champion, is also a very good student bully, full of gold. It can be seen from this that Gu Ailing's excellence is inseparable from the careful teaching of her mother and grandmother.
From gu Ailing's success, it can be seen that we are to cultivate children to have a rich heart and firmly pursue the things they love. Instead of becoming an appendage of others, isn't this kind of high-quality idol more worth learning than those women who bear the aura of a famous school, but indulge in property disputes and have short parents?
Of course, Gu Ailing's success is inevitable, because she has a good family background and has received a good family education. Her casual success is a height that we ordinary people can't reach in their lifetimes. So as ordinary people, ordinary mothers, with limited education, we can't give our children better support? The answer is definitely no.
In 2017, Cangzhou City Science Champion Pang Zhongwang was born in a cold door, his father suffered from schizophrenia, and his mother was paralyzed in bed. The family is poor and poor, but Pang Zhongwang is the "noble son" who comes out of the cold door, why is this? Pang Zhongwang's mother is an example of a very good and excellent woman, not how high she earns, but her character, the precious spirit she has learned. She is very strong and optimistic, never tells her children about the hardships of life, has a disability, and is also self-reliant. Cultivate children to be faithful and read well. Pang Zhongwang also worked hard from his mother's strong and indomitable strength, and was admitted to Tsinghua University with excellent results, changing his own destiny.
Life also has an end, but learning has no end. Women's education is first of all to receive school education, because the accumulation of knowledge is the easiest way for girls to achieve intergenerational leapfrogging. It can not only acquire the skills necessary for life and achieve economic independence, but also cultivate excellent qualities and be independent individuals. Girls should understand that only when they are financially independent, they are not dispensable people, and they will win the respect of others. The second is to enrich one's own spiritual world, and only when one's own spiritual world is rich can one raise independent and confident children. After all, most of the time in childhood, children will live with the female characters in the family, and their words and deeds have a profound impact on children. Finally, it is necessary to constantly update knowledge and spirit, understand that you and the child will always be two independent individuals, do not affect the child's will with your own will, and do everything for the child. After all, "loving mothers have many failures", cultivating children's ability to make judgments alone and the ability to dare to try, not to be easily defeated, with these abilities, even if the material conditions are difficult now, but what does it matter? Because of these good qualities, we can eventually reach the other side of a happy life.
I hope that every woman can play to her own strengths and "empower" herself and education!
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