You said that with the girl's treatment, the girl will let you help her family is still in debt, and will not let go to her home, she will not come to your home, the girl said to give her twenty or thirty thousand yuan first to help her family pay off the debt, and then

You say that with the girl's treatment, the girl will let you help her family is still in debt, and do not let go to her home, she will not come to your home, the girl said to give her twenty or thirty thousand yuan to help her family pay off the debt, and then consider whether it is appropriate to marry you, if it is not appropriate, be a friend to help, and then return the money to you later! It is not to say that this little money is bad, but where someone is looking for an object, they will first ask for tens of thousands of dollars, pay off their debts, pay off the debt, and then consider not following you to the object, what logic