Why is the child in my eyes different from the child in the eyes of others? I really admire the designer of the character color card, the front and back of the card are often opposites, and this opposite happens to be

Why is the child in my eyes different from the child in the eyes of others?

The designer who really admires the character color card, the front and back of the card are often opposites, and this opposite happens to be your own (or family) and your real self (or family).

For example, the opposite of the "self-discipline" card is "emotionally volatile."

The other day, a friend came to my house with his son to play. According to her, her son is very self-disciplined and sensible, and will consciously write homework every day, eat and sleep on time, so she feels that her son is a blue personality.

This kid is very interesting, and when he was in my house, he had a lot of fun alone.

When it was time for dinner, his parents had said they were going to take him home, but the children wanted to continue playing at my house. The child's parents coaxed him for half a day and asked him to leave immediately. This is, the child suddenly changed his temperament, began to talk very reasonable, suddenly lost a lot of temper, and quarreled with his parents.

It was only then that I discovered that this child is not actually a blue personality, but a red personality. Blue self-discipline is deliberately cultivated by his parents, and his own personality is emotionally changeable and very casual red.

The nature of the red child is to like to be happy, as long as he is coaxed to be happy, everything is easy to say. So, his parents told the child a lot of preferential conditions after returning home, and the child agreed to go home.

After the child was in a good mood, he immediately changed his face and said a lot of nice words of thanks to me. 🤔 Typical little red person, mood changeable.