Introduction: During the New Year, when encountering these 4 bad behaviors, parents should resolutely stop them, do not hesitate
As soon as the New Year comes, every household begins to visit each other's doors, invite guests to dinner, the purpose is to connect feelings, usually everyone is very busy for life, the New Year is not easy to idle, and relatives and friends nagging home, eating and drinking, the relationship will not become too distant. It was originally a good thing, but it was found that some people often made some bad behaviors on such occasions, which seemed to be teasing children, but actually hurt the children, so parents with children should be particularly careful.
During the New Year, when encountering these 4 kinds of bad behaviors, parents should resolutely stop it, don't hesitate! For the sake of your child's health, you should also do this to hurt your face, so come and see.
First, induce children to drink
This kind of teasing behavior is the most common. Some adults drink too much, and when they see a little boy at the same table, they want to play with it, such as: "You see your grandfather drinks good things and doesn't give you a drink, I will give you some drinks." "I'm about to go to junior high school, and I can exercise and drink." "Come on, take a sip of wine and I'll give you a red envelope." ......
These words are all inducing children to drink, some children progress temptation, or some children do not know how to refuse, may really drink wine, when parents encounter this situation, must be the first time to stop, rather than follow the coaxing or be a person next to it, parents' approach is related to the health of the child, do not be careless.
If you are afraid that your child is not present to encounter this situation alone, then parents should teach their children how to do it in advance, let him be brave enough to say no, it will be much better to do so.
Second, force children to speak auspicious words
When I was a child, I encountered this situation, when the family was entertained, the children at a table of adults, originally ate separately, but suddenly a relative said, let us these children give him auspicious words, and must be two sentences, each person has to say different things, so that you can get a red envelope of one hundred yuan, and later everyone in order to want red packets, one by one said, but one of the children did not know what to say, see this situation, the parents of the children are not happy, in front of the children to praise the other children are smart, Saying that your child is stupid, and other children have followed suit, saying that it is difficult.
I remember that at that time, the child's psychology was deeply hurt, others said it was just that, his parents actually said themselves in front of so many people, this child has not spoken, and the occasion that was originally happy has become so embarrassing.
Therefore, if you don't want your children to be frustrated, parents must know how to protect their children.
Third, do not let go of your hands regardless of holding the child
Some people are oblivious as soon as they drink, make some irrational behaviors, such as regardless of holding the child and not letting go, generally after a person drinks, the child does not like to let this person hold, plus it is a stranger who is not familiar with it, the child is picked up, he will feel very nervous, crying loudly, and someone sees the child crying louder, but the tighter the hold does not let go, think it is fun, may also use a mouth with a strong wine to kiss the child, and even use the beard to prick the child, encounter this situation, Parents should resolutely stop it, avoid leaving children with psychological shadows, being frightened during the day, and affecting sleep at night, which is very bad for children, don't understand!
Therefore, when you see someone who loves to play drunk, you must stay away from it and don't let your child be hurt.
Fourth, feed food to tease children
Some people always like to do some unreasonable things, such as knowing that this dish is very spicy and can not let children eat, but some people take this spicy food to tease children, first induce children to eat delicious, wait for children to eat and cry, teasing children will laugh, in the face of this malicious behavior, parents should decisively stop.
And when eating with many people, to sit with children, all the food must be clipped by yourself, so that you can be more at ease.
These bad behaviors of teasing children hurt children very much, and parents must not turn a blind eye. Don't know if you've met?