#当一个人到了绝望的时候, what to do # 30 years ago, I encountered a marriage that disintegrated and a broken family. That was when I felt the most desperate. I spent my whole life loving that person, loving that home, and finally the home was gone. I tried desperately to save the family, made a lot of self-sacrifice, but still didn't keep the family and the people. I was desperate, I didn't know what to do, I was disheartened, and my heart was nothing more than death. Later, I understood that there were some things that I didn't want to happen, but I had to accept them. Some people can't afford to lose, but they have to let go. You can't stay when you should go, and you can't push away when you shouldn't go. Time changed and healed my wounds. As I grew older, I suddenly realized. When you give wholeheartedly to a person, you either get a lifetime of happiness or you get a lifetime of lessons.