Children who can learn need parents who can learn

Primary school students learn ahead, not to hang others, but to regard advanced learning as a preview and to know what they are doing. Children's attention span is limited, for example, forty minutes per lesson, children can concentrate on listening to lectures for twenty-five minutes, which is a child with good concentration.

If there is a preview, then the child's class is relatively relaxed, the content that has been met does not need to invest too much energy, and it is a more efficient learning method to listen to the places that they do not understand when they prepare.

Of course, the method is very simple, pre-class preparation, focus on learning in class, and review after class. The key is execution, that is, to do what is said and what is thought to do. It's not easy, it needs to be practiced deliberately and habit-forming!

What parents can't do, can children do? I want to say, don't pursue perfection, pursue one hundred percent, you can do eighty or ninety percent. Easy, children are not tired, parents are not tired. The pursuit of 100%, the pursuit of perfection, to pay extraordinary efforts, but also does not meet the child's growth law, children do anything has a process, the beginning can not do perfectly. Asking for 100% at the beginning is likely to dampen the child's enthusiasm and make the child lose interest. It will bring more trouble!

Then again, if the child pursues 100% on his own, of course, to encourage, then the parents have to face another problem, that is, the frustration after the child cannot achieve expectations. It is more necessary to give comfort and encouragement to children, as well as psychological construction of children. The hard work that parents need to pay is not much. Raising children is not easy. There are ways to teach children. Parents need to spend some time, take a little time, and wait for the flowers to bloom.

If you don't accompany them, if you don't teach them, you expect your children to become talented. It's an idea of unearned gain, and it's not fair to other parents. If you don't have time, you will take time to spend with your children, and you will learn how to teach your children without teaching. Parents are not willing to spend their minds, parents have given up learning, can hope that the child is excellent, hope that the child is outstanding, that is really too light. In fact, the problems in children are mostly a reflection of parents' problems. Do not accompany the child, where to have a close and harmonious parent-child relationship, not to teach the child, where to know the excellent teenagers of Dali.